So What I Choose To Stay Out Of Politics? Sue Me

So What I Choose To Stay Out Of Politics? Sue Me

I don't let politicians decide how I view people.


Midterms are up and the ballots and final decisions are cast. Whoever won, won. We are a new generation of voters and yes, how we perceive our government is important.

Let's get one thing straight, I didn't vote. I didn't cite now, I didn't vote in 2016. Sue me. I know I had the chance to vote but the first time, I was lost. It was popular to hate Trump because of the shady things he's done, and very popular to LOVE Hilary, despite the shady things she's done. I didn't really have a preference. Now I notice the changes Trump is making and I'm pretty impressed but that doesn't make him a better person.
People can't distinguish the two. They refuse to acknowledge the changes he's making because he's a "racists, homophobe, sexist, rapist" the list goes on.
Hilary seems like a wonderful caring person, but she's also been fired for shady things, the whole email thing and how she might be sharing confidential information with the WRONG people. I'm not that educated on the bad she's done but I didn't vote so why should it matter to me? It doesn't.

"Do you not care about the future of our country?" Yes, of course, I care. What I do not care for is the negativity and hate that is given from each side. The leftist claim that they spread positivity and that they are just "angels" but once you have a different opinion, they spit on you, push you downstairs, punch you, call you a racist and homophobic (even if you're not). The right is pretty much the same when it comes to abortion, gay marriage, and when you say you're a liberal, you're called immature and not educated on this country's history. To be frank, I've received much more hatred from the left instead of the right ESPECIALLY because I didn't vote.

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Not voting was my choice, and it doesn't make me "cool and different." Not voting made me feel safe. I live in a society where if you don't vote/believe what they want you to believe, violence occurs. On Election Day, I saw over the span of 24 hours "if you voted for ____ unfriend/unadd/block me." Are you serious?? You would completely shut out someone just for their OWN opinion?? Isn't that what the Bill of Rights is for? The freedom to say what you want, publish what you want, and believe what you want.

I don't write this to shame people for being highly involved in politics or for people who definitely felt the need to vote because I'm proud of you. I'm tired of being told that I'm terrible for making a choice for myself. Yes, I am just a white girl from Georgia. I'm not that oppressed. I have faced my own shit and will continue to advocate just for myself and refuse to listen to those who think yelling, talking badly, or blocking me will solve this political issue, go for it. Please. I don't love myself any less.

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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To Donald Trump: Thank U, Next

Look what you taught us.


What Donald Trump taught me is that it is not essential for the president to care about his country. Con-artistry goes a long way when communicating with people who are tired of the same political jargon.

His simple-minded but outlandish promises convinced people significant change was coming. Donald Trump taught me that never again do I want a president to be thought of as "one of us."

Instead, I want someone smart, ethical and who has taken a basic civics course — someone who will take care of minorities and make those in dire situations a priority instead of stock market prices.

I want a president that doesn't brag about sexually assaulting women. I want a president that doesn't go on social media and blame homicide victims for not being armed. I want a president that doesn't complain about money when people are dying and losing their homes in a massive fire.

However, with that being said, I also want to give thanks to Trump. Because of him, the next generation sees how crucial it is to get out and vote. Most of your elders probably never spoke to an LGBTQ person, but you and your siblings grew up with LGBTQ friends, and you would never want them to be treated any lesser than you. You grew up with women dominating television. You grew up under the leadership of an African American president. You grew up in a world that was changing.

Some people don't like change, but you are the future, and it is your decision what you want that future to be. So thank you Donald Trump, for being the last big push Americans needed to completely change a world that was once dominated by violence and hate crimes. However, I think most of us can agree we are ready for what's coming next.

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