20 Signs You Know You've Found "The One"

20 Signs You Know You've Found "The One"

They just make everything better.
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Knowing you have found your one person and soulmate involves little things and big things. Here are some tell-tale signs you know you've found your one and only.

1. Seeing them somehow just makes everything better


Their face just makes you say 'aw'.

2. They know exactly how to make you feel better when you're down

Usually food related.

3. They know your favorite coffee order


Venti iced coffee with cream and sugar <3.

4. They love your family and your family loves them


All of a sudden you have like two family and it's great.

5. You can admit when each of you have made a mistake


You can say sorry genuinely.

6. You don’t do certain things without them


You wouldn’t dare watch “our” Netflix show without them.

7. You tell them if something is bothering you


Neither of you would let something bother you without telling the other person right away.

8. You encourage each other


This is a big one. Your partner wants the best for you even if that means you spend less time together or doing something they would otherwise not be into doing.

9. You get all cheesy when you’re around them


Pinching people’s cheeks usually isn’t normal unless they’re the one.

10. You love getting them little gifts for no reason


Just because you thought of them when you saw it.

11. You two can send each other signals at social events


“Let’s go to the bar” look, “omg that couple is fighting awk” look, and most importantly the “let’s leave and go get food” look.

12. You laugh at each other’s jokes.

Even if they aren’t funny.

13. You miss each other so much when your apart, yet you still know how to give them space


You know that guys nights and girls brunch is eminent and you’re okay with that.

14. At the end of each day, you can’t wait to tell them all the stories of the day

“You wouldn’t believe who I saw outside the food court..”

15. No problem is too big to solve


Whether it’s family drama or your stressed about work/school, you two can solve it together.

16. You weren’t really looking for them, it just happened.


It kind of reals like fate is finally working in your favor. Everyone will find their person, no matter how old you are.

17. You get each other’s quirks


The snoring, or nail-biting isn’t all that bad when it’s the one you love.

18. They listen to you

No matter what it is.

19. You can act 100% yourself in front of them

You can ugly laugh and ugly cry in front of them, and they’ll still love you to the moon and back.

20. You feel like the luckiest person on the planet

Because you found the one.

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10 Signs You Found Your Person

These are just some of the signs you might see if you've truly found "the one".
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I have been lucky enough to spend the last year and few months dating my best friend. He makes me smile on my hardest days and he cheers me on in whatever I do. I have found my person and I’ve compiled a list of the top 10 signs I saw when I realized he was the one.

1. You can be completely yourself around them.

The type of relationship that you want to be in has a judgment-free zone. The person that is made for you will not pick apart your flaws, but they’ll embrace all of your quirks. After all, that’s what makes you YOU! And they love the real you.

2. They make you happy.

This probably seems like a “duh” thing, but let’s be real. All of us have dated someone that kinda made us happy, kinda made us not so happy. I’m not saying there won’t be issues in your relationship, but when you can have a disagreement and then be laughing together an hour later - that’s when you’ve found them.

3. They treat you with respect.

This is probably another “duh” moment, but when you have that respect, you’ll get what I mean. This person respects you enough to communicate honestly and openly. They respect you enough to build you up, not tear you down. They respect you enough to let you know when you’re wrong, but they’ll do it in a loving way. Basically, everything that this person does is with you in mind, because they love and care about you, but they also respect you. And because they respect you, they will be mindful of how their decisions affect you.

4. They are excited about your success.

Who doesn’t love to have someone super excited with them about their goals and accomplishments? Your person will be your biggest fan! After all, your success makes you happy, and when you’re happy, they’re happy.

5. They get real with you when they need to.

While it may not be our favorite thing to admit, sometimes we are wrong. We mess up, we can hurt people’s feelings, and when we do mess up, our S.O. is the first one to let us know, but in a loving way. Your person is going to know your “love language”, therefore they are going to know the best way to communicate with you. Sometimes someone has to tell us when we’re being the worst, and I don’t know about you, but I’d prefer that person to be someone that loves me.

6. You don’t always have to be doing something to have fun.

You are completely fine with just hanging out. Being with that person is enough for you.

7. You can’t imagine being with anyone else.

Your person fills every part of your life that you need them to and then some. They are your better half and you cannot imagine sharing all of your life experiences with anyone but them.

8. You make each other want to be better people.

You’re your own dream team. You hype them up to be their best and they do the same for you.

9. You would do anything for them and they would do the same.

When you’ve found your person, no task is too great. And neither of you ever expect anything in return. It’s just a given that you are there for each other 100% of the time.

10. You love them more and more every single day.

Yes, it sounds SOOO corny, but trust me, it’s so true. When you’ve found the one, your life will never be the same. You never know how much you can love someone until you’ve found them, and you often wonder how you’ve gone this long without them.

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15 Tips For Interacting With Guys According To "Hamilton"

Be willing to wait for it.
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So, here's the deal: I've been reflecting on Valentine's Day this past week, and I've come to a conclusion. Interacting with the opposite gender is really freaking hard.

No, really. Most guys I talk to will tell me that they're really simple creatures. And they are, I'll admit that. But let's face it, they aren't always the most straightforward creatures in their simplicity. So, sometimes us girls are left to decipher our interactions with them. And it gets real confusing, real fast.

So, on the topic of conversation, you know who liked to talk a lot?

Alexander Hamilton.

You know who had tons of women falling all over him?

Alexander Hamilton.

Let's let him and his compatriots tell the tale.

1. First of all, never assume someone is into you.

It is a fair possibility you're just reading too much into it.

2. Also, remember even if they are, being nice is worth it in the long run.

If I'm being perfectly honest, this is still something I'm working on. Don't lead them down the garden path, but seriously, don't be a jerk, either.

3. Be careful about who you put in the friend zone.

Because they could show up later when you've made a complete fool of yourself and rub it in your face. Rather like King George.

Kidding. Just don't rule out someone who's actually awesome for shallow reasons.

4. If you have friend zoned someone, make sure it's for a good reason.

Like, perchance, the fact that you're in love with their sister. That's a good reason.

5. Don't be afraid to talk to the dudes you like.

Seriously, it's not as difficult as it looks. Just making conversation.

6. If you're not sure whether someone you're interested shares the interest, just ask.

Yes. This is what it will feel like.

7. It's not the end of the world if they don't.

You probably deserve better. Rather like Eliza.

(But newsflash: You're not perfect, either. If you deserve better, the overall likelihood is that so do they.)

8. Unless they were stringing you along.

Write them a very strongly worded letter or let a friend slap them. Get you an Angelica, kid.

9. Talk to someone older than you about guys.

The overall likelihood is this chick is going to have more experience than you, and hopefully will be wiser for it.

10. Remember, if someone's being a creeper, your girls have your back.

You see these guys? Squad goals. Like you and your ladies.

11. Just be clear in your communication.

Actually, if you take Burr literally, their reaction will be EXACTLY like Hamilton's. So actually, do talk. Tell them or have a friend tell them you're uncomfortable. However, if they don't get it...

12. Try taking it to a higher power.

As my roommate asked the other day, "Wait, God?"

Yes, He would be beneficial. I highly recommend that. But what I'm referring to in this particular instance is someone who has direct (earthly) authority over your particular stalker. They'll probably be able to do something. And if this fails...

13. Carry pepper spray.

This GIF does not relate at all. I just guarantee you that Hamilton and Jefferson carry pepper spray in case the other one pushes them too far.

And probably Daveed Diggs and Lin-Manuel Miranda to fend off the adoring, obsessive fanpeoples.

14. Appreciate the male friendships you have.

Some of my favorite people are my brother friends. Or my dad friend. Or my uncle friend. Or just plain guys. They're pretty great.

15. And honestly, when it comes to finding that elusive "One"...

Y'all should be, too.

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