When we were young and naive, we couldn't wait to grow up. But now that I'm at the doorstep of adulthood, I'm starting to panic. Where's the pause button for life when you need it?
We all mature at different paces, so some people may experience adulting at a young age. I had to grow up early and learn how to take care of myself. School definitely didn't prepare us for the real world.
Here are some signs that you're hitting adulthood.
1. Paying bills
From phone to credit card bills, they will all attack at once. It's hard to keep money in your pocket when you have bills to pay. Especially if you live on your own, you have to start budgeting your money carefully. This also includes paying off those wonderful student loans.
2. Moving out/finding your own place
These days it's popular for young adults to stay under their parents' roof. But eventually, there will come a time where you will want your own space. The cost of living, especially in cities, can be super expensive, so learning how to save and budget will play a big role in this.
3. Filing taxes
They definitely didn't teach us this in high school, therefore a lot of young adults have no clue what taxes are or how to file them. As soon as you graduate from high school, start learning from your parents or adults around you how to file taxes. It will definitely benefit you in the long haul.
4. Friends start getting married or pregnant
Have you ever scrolled on Facebook and saw a friend announcing their engagement or pregnancy? Then you suddenly start thinking about your life and having a panic attack?
5. Health insurance is important
Young adults usually don't have to think about this since they are most likely within their parents' household. But when you get your own health insurance, it's very important to make sure it's updated. Stay on top of those renewal forms because it's very easy to lose your insurance.
6. A career over a job
Summer jobs are great and it definitely helps keep money in your pocket. But once adulthood hits, it's time to think about your career and where you see yourself working long term.
7. Drinking isn't taboo
When you were younger, it was so scandalous to get your first beer because it was something you weren't allowed to do and that was the fun in it. But for some, that excitement slows down after you turn 21 and get to walk into any bar without a fake ID.
8. Thinking about life plans
After graduating from college, that's when life really starts to settle in. You don't have classes to attend anymore, but you need to start thinking about what you want to do with the rest of your life. Pursue your career, travel, move out, etc.
9. Eat or pay your bills
When you feel the struggle of figuring out whether to eat or pay your bills, welcome to being an adult.
10. Hanging out with friends less
Sometimes it's hard to find time to hang out because everyone is busy and dealing with their own lives. But you will cherish those times when you hang out with friends more.
