Why You Should Judge A Book By Its Cover

Why You Should Judge A Book By Its Cover

First impressions are everlasting; dress to impress.

Waking up and throwing on an outfit can be as easy or difficult as you choose for it to be. Often times I find it a hassle to put together a cute outfit to wear to school. Yet, going the extra mile can make the world of a difference. Too often I get asked the question, "Why do you look so nice?" or "What made you want to put on a dress in the morning?" Putting effort into yourself results in more than just quenching vanity. It goes so much further.

1. Dress For Success

Wearing jeans or a skirt forces you to be more uncomfortable than a pair of sweatpants allows you to be. It creates a more alert and focused student. Instead of being in a sweatpants and t-shirt, the change of outfit may improve your attention span. Feeling like you are in your pajamas also dresses down the situation. Try to dress it up- think outside the box. Dress for success.

2. Work Toward Professionalism

The goal of a student is most commonly to enter the "adult" world. Eventually, you will need to look the part. Shock your teachers and show up looking like the career person you wish to be. Do not allow laziness to keep you from dressing as mature students. Do not fall into the pattern of everyday sweats, at some point, you will have to pull out the "adult" clothes. Why not get a head start? After all, you are working toward professionalism.

3. Take Pride In Your Appearance

There is nothing wrong with looking nice. Never feel like you need a reason to put on a cute outfit. No matter what the situation, I would much rather be overdressed than under. Putting effort into yourself can stretch a long way. First impressions are important, you never know who you will encounter. Looking prepared for any situation may land you a spot in the professional world. Whether it is wearing your favorite sweater or putting on some makeup- take pride in your appearance.

4. Look Good, Feel Good

Once you have conquered the fear of looking "too nice" you may inspire others to give it a try. Feeling good can boost your confidence. Just because the person next to you is wearing pajamas does not mean you are limited to that. Another's wardrobe does not have to reflect your own. Dress for yourself- look good, feel good.

Showing up to class looking prepared is not something to question. Dressing for success helps you work toward success and professionalism. Taking pride in your appearance separates you from the rest. Making a lasting first impression can begin with looking good and feeling good. The next time someone asks why you are dressed up, maybe ask them why they are not.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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Yes, I'm A Feminist, No I Don't Hate All Men

Because if we want to promote equality, why fight that with mass hating a particular gender?


I'd like to consider myself a feminist.

I am all for equal opportunity, equal pay, and equal rights. I believe that women should be granted the equal opportunities that males do, be free of harassment, not be scared to exist literally just because of their gender, have reproductive rights, be taken seriously when we think something is medically wrong with us, and be treated with the same respect and dignity as men do. Just because I believe all these things, however, doesn't mean I automatically hate men.

I've seen a big increase in trends that, just for men existing, people will post about how "men ain't shit," or how men ultimately suck just because of their gender. When reflecting upon this, however, I've come to realize isn't this a step in the wrong direction?

Obviously, I can't continue on until I say this: there is, in fact, times where men can really suck. White men in positions of power abusing that, men who are rapists, men who meddle in women's reproductive rights, abusers, men who think it's okay and even funny to harass others, etc. But it all comes down to this: just because you're a man doesn't mean I automatically hate you, and I don't think others should.

Sure, as mentioned above, there are garbage humans who abuse their positions of power as men in order to get what they want. THOSE are the people I hate, not others for existing just because they are men. When in reality, there are a lot of good men who recognize their positions of power and try and make up for it by advocating for those in need of advocacy, whether they are women or even minorities. There are men who are decent human beings, whether that is being nice to others, volunteering in their community, caring for those around them, or even men who are also feminists.

I think my argument has been made pretty clear: I do not and will not hate you just because you are a man. No one gets to choose whichever gender they are, so why should I hate a group of people for just being born male? If I want to promote equality as a feminist, why should I then believe that I am better because I am female? Why should I say I believe in equal treatment between genders, yet automatically hate you because you're a man?

So yes, some men truly, "ain't shit." I believe these men, however, are not good human beings. Men aren't terrible just because they are men, and I ultimately wish that those promoting total equality would realize that we cannot strive towards equal treatment, opportunities, and pay if we continue clumping one group together under the impression of, "they're men, they're terrible."


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