Serena Williams: The Queen We All Need

Serena Williams Is The Queen We All Need—And She's Taught Me That I Can Be Strong And Beautiful

Serena Williams is the role model we all need in our lives.


Beauty. Strength. Grace. Fire. Despite all odds, Serena Williams has continued to be one of the most inspirational athletes for the past two decades. Serena Williams is someone I've looked up to since elementary school. I grew up with posters of her hanging all over my room, staying up late to watch her win yet another Grand Slam, and watching her continue to grow as one of the biggest female icons of our time.

She's taught me that no matter who is on the other side of the net, another side of the desk, or another side of the phone, I shouldn't be afraid to show everyone who I am and that I'm a force to be reckoned with.

Imagine being on a world stage and having people critique you for your body type and skin color. A lot of people are insecure about their image, but not everyone has millions of people watching them on TV and in magazines and newspapers. Serena has had countless reporters comment on her body-build, saying it was masculine or unnatural, and she had to find ways to overcome this hatred. One of my favorite Serena quotes was when she said: "This is me, and this is my weapon and machine."

A lot of people can look up to Serena when it comes to body image. If Serena can face so many negative comments about her body and still feel confident, it can motivate you to feel confident about your own body. Growing up, I saw Serena as my role model because I was always bigger and taller than most guys in middle and elementary school.

Guys would often tease me about this, but I would respond saying things like "I want to be strong like Serena." At times I would still feel insecure while playing high school tennis with and against a lot of girls who were slimmer than me, but I continued to use Serena as my inspiration.

I could be strong and beautiful.

Serena's collaboration with Bumble portrays a strong message that all women need to hear. I've already watched this video 20+ times and I strongly recommend you watch this one minute video. The slogan "Women, the ball is in your court" is about how women already have power and shouldn't wait to seize it. I've realized that in my life, whether it be in class, in the gym, in a group project, or on the field, I always wait to be called upon or to be included.

If Serena Williams had waited for people to include her, she never would have won 23 grand-slam titles. Sometimes, we all need to be more assertive and confident in ourselves and abilities.

Another strong quality that we can see in Serena is how she doesn't feel the need to apologize for who she is. She isn't afraid to call people out for being rude to her, and her fire lights up the tennis court. As a female, I've always found myself having to be extra assertive to show my ideas, and then once I'm finally heard, I apologize for coming off as aggressive. As females, we shouldn't have to do this. We shouldn't apologize for the fire that keeps us going.

Whether it is confidence, self-discipline, or persistence, we can all learn something from Serena's journey to become one of the greatest athletes of our time. At the young age of 17, she won her first grand slam title and defeated the world's #1 player of that time. Now, at the age of 37, she's the founder of a clothing line, a mother to Alexis Olympia Ohanian Jr., and still one of the most powerful athletes in the world.

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Hollywood's Hottest Actors Under 40

Today's 15 trending eye-candies

Valentine’s day has passed, but it is always a perfect time of year to indulge in the hotness that Hollywood has to offer. There are countless, notable, eye-candies from the big screen, but here are my hottest 15 under 40.

From youngest to oldest:

Liam Hemsworth

The 27-year old actor starred in the Hunger Games series as Gale and the Nicholas Sparks film, The Last Song, alongside his current girlfriend, Miley Cyrus.

Zac Efron

The 29-year-old actor is perhaps most notable for his young role as Troy Bolton in High School Musical. More recently, he has starred in Neighbors in 2014 and Baywatch, which is scheduled to be released this year.

Scott Eastwood

The 30-year-old actor starred as Luke Collins in the Nicholas Sparks film, The Longest Ride, and 2016 hit Suicide Squad .

Dave Franco

The 31-year-old actor starred in hit movies: Now You See Me (where he played Jack, one of the magicians) and 21 Jump Street (where he played Eric, the drug dealer) and their sequels.

Theo James

The 32-year-old actor is most famous for his role as Four in the Divergent series. He also appeared in the 2013 CBS show, Golden Boy.

Andrew Garfield

The 33-year-old actor is probably better known by his superhero name: Spiderman (in 2012). He also appeared in The Social Network and Hacksaw Ridge.

Chris Hemsworth

The 33-year-old actor is best known for playing Thor, but also starred in Snow White and the Huntsman and the most recent Ghostbusters, where he played Kevin, the Secretary.

Jamie Dornan

The 34-year-old actor is the star of the ongoing Fifty Shades of Grey series, where he plays Christian Grey. He also starred in the British drama series, The Fall.

Chris Evans

The 35-year-old actor is most notable for his role in the Marvel universe as Captain America. He also took roles in the 2015 Ant-Man and the Fantastic Four movies.

Stephen Amell

The 35-year-old actor is best known for his portrayal of Arrow in the hit television series. He also played Casey Jones in the 2016 Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.

Ryan Gosling

The 36-year-old actor is famous for his young role as Noah in Nicholas Sparks classic, The Notebook. More recently, Gosling has starred in Crazy, Stupid, Love and La La Land.

Chris Pine

The 36-year-old actor is known for his portrayal of James T. Kirk in the 2009, 2013 and 2016 Star Trek movies. He will also make an appearance in this year’s new movie, Wonder Woman.

Channing Tatum

The 36-year-old actor has filled numerous acting roles from Tyler in Step-Up to Jenko in 21 Jump Street to Mike in Magic Mike. He also appeared in several romance movies including The Vow and Dear John.

Chris Pratt

The 37-year-old actor has appeared in many recent hits including Jurassic World, where he played the role of Owen, The Lego Movie, where he played Emmett, and Guardians of the Galaxy, where he portrayed Star-Lord.

Jensen Ackles

The 38-year-old actor is most notable for his role as Dean in the hit television series, Supernatural. He also starred in television show, Smallville, as Jason Teague.

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Why Beyoncé Is Empowering To White Women Too

I dream it, I work hard, I grind it till I own it.


Beyoncé is undoubtedly known for her strong voice, and an incredible representation of her culture, and her beliefs.

Making it clear that being an African American woman, or man should be accepted and owned.

Her music gets us dancing out of our chairs, and singing right along with her.

While everyone, male, female, older, and younger has their own opinions on Queen B.

One thing that she stands for that's clear, is Empowerment.

And I think this message can be received by all of us.

You can be curvy, with a gorgeous afro, or you can be skinny, with long thin hair.

You can be pale or dark, the point is, you're owning not only the way you look but who you are.

I personally think white women are accused of not having enough culture, rhythm, or "spice."

And this can be true. No shame.

But there is beauty within all of us, even the skinny girl with amazing abs we all secretly hate.

She's beautiful.

Just as the redhead with no eyelashes, the blonde who can't really tan, is gorgeous.

Beyoncé makes being who we are, owning your ethnicity not only a good thing but something worth knowing.

Learn your history, find out what English colony you belong to, or which part of Europe your family is from, and express it.

Express it however you know how.

Whether that's through your food, your clothes, your art, or music,

If you're a cowgirl or a city girl, then be that.

American isn't supposed to represent white supremacy but rather a country that is accepting of all.

Those are the kind of white women we should be.

Not the stereotypes of a "white girl," or a "dumb blonde."

Know that no matter how pale you might be, no matter how short, or weight, you're amazing.

White girls can be skinny, or curvy, which is another beautiful thing about Beyoncé she's a beautiful curvy woman, and no one is fat shaming her. Just as no one else should be.

That thigh gap or that nonexistent one is great.

Because it's you.

And maybe you don't have spice or rhythm, but you can try, get out of your comfort zone and express whoever that is.

Even being shy, and timid, is still expressing yourself in your own way, and in the way that makes you feel comfortable.

The takeaway we can truly get from Beyoncé is being true to who we are, and that doesn't mean being her, or being someone like her.

It's taking away what we've learned from our pasts, from our mothers, or our grandmothers, learning from our history, and being a better example.

And maybe you're just a white girl, with European ancestors, but that still makes you a Beyoncé in your own way.


Learn more about it who you are and where you come from, and what you'll find is that we all have an amazing heritage.

No matter what color we are.

We're all Beyoncé's.

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