I Discovered The Secret To Becoming Your Best Self

I Discovered The Secret To Becoming Your Best Self

Not only will you look good, but you will be able to do things you never could before.


I experience unmotivated and lethargic times as well as my upbeat and smiley days, just like we all do. However, I want that balance just like we all do as well.

Eating healthy, drinking lots of water, exercising daily, and getting plenty of sleep each night will increase the longevity of your lifespan and can even clear your skin up. These are amazing benefits that younger generations take for granted and then regret by the time they reach their 30's and are getting the full brunt of the side effects from their lazy, junk-food past. So keep in mind that these four key elements should be incorporated into your life to help you live longer and look better, but also because it helps you stay focused, be efficient, have more overall energy, and have more confidence. Forcing yourself to make these habits will do nothing but pay off. You will perform better in school, sports, and in your relationships.

Eating healthy makes you feel healthy. Eating sugary sweets only makes you crave more sugary sweets, so when you eliminate them from your daily diet you won't crave them as often and when you do indulge, you will feel much more deserving of a treat.

Drink most of your water at the beginning of the day so that when you get busy in the afternoon and forget to drink all that water you already will have that accomplished. Waiting until nighttime to drink your water will keep you rushing to the bathroom all night long and will disrupt your much-needed beauty sleep. You need water to survive, so why are you spending time at the soda fountain when you know that you need to stay hydrated, and hydrated does not mean a glass of water with each meal. Water removes toxins from your body, helps get your energy up, and clears your head. The Fountain of Youth is nothing but water, so drink up!

Getting your heart rate up a for at least 30 minutes every single day will give you a youthful glow. Not only that, but exercise helps with fat loss, and it makes your body stronger. The human body is not designed to sit around all day watching Netflix, but if you simply can't get away from that show, do something while watching it. It really is that simple. Exercise reduces your risk of chronic diseases, improves your sleep quality, and keeps you mobile into your late age.

Sleeping is the rest that your body requires to repair itself from damage caused by stress and environmental factors. Sleep improves memory, makes you more alert, and reduces your stress levels. Sleeping can also help with depression, but depression can be caused by the absence of all these lifestyle markers. Once the motivation has depleted, it is difficult to find it again.

Making these things a routine will improve the quality of your life and could make you feel invincible. Give it a shot!

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10 Abnormally Normal Things About College

Some stuff just doesn't fly in the real world.

College is a weird, weird place. For whatever reason, the young adults who are supposed to be cultivating their minds with all of the worldly knowledge available to them, seem to get away with quite a bit using the justification "it's college." Even the best students live abnormally while on the alien planet that is a university. So, while to us college students it may just seem like another day, here are ten things that are only normal in college.

1. Straight up theft.

In the future, if I walk into my forty-something-year-old neighbor's home and see a collection of stolen signs, stuff from the local restaurant, and property from the construction site down the road, I would definitely be concerned about the character of my neighbor. However, in college, people proudly display campus signs, traffic cones, or dining hall napkin dispensers that they have impressively commandeered - it's a cheap decoration and a great conversation starter.

2. All-nighters.

Maybe with the exception of parents of little babies, very few people willingly stay up for close to 24 hours on end. In the real world, if a friend came to you and said that they literally did not sleep the previous night, it's completely logical to be worried. On the other hand, when a friend in college says that he was up all night you laugh a little, give him an understanding pat on the back, and walk with him to the coffee line.

3. Atrocious eating habits.

Sometimes you don't have time to eat. Sometimes you order pizza at 2 in the morning. Sometimes you eat three dinners. Sometimes you diet. All I can say, is thank goodness that our metabolisms are decently high at this age.

4. Breaking and entering.

In high school, you hopefully knew everyone who entered your home. After college, hopefully, that's still the case. However, when you live in the middle of thousands of bored college students, people knock at your door, walk into parties, cut through your yard, and stop by without invitation or hesitation. It keeps life fun, but still not normal.

5. Calling mom when stuff goes down.

I really doubt a time will ever come that I don't need to call my mom for guidance on how to do something. But, hopefully the frequency of those calls with go down a little bit post-graduation. Maybe after four years of doing it on my own, I'll know how to fill out government forms, cook real dinners, and get stains out. But for now, I'm going to keep calling while I still can without seeming totally pathetic.

6. Being intoxicated at weird times.

Drunk at noon on a Friday is the quintessence of an alcoholic at any time - unless it's college. Not that this is necessarily a good thing, and it certainly doesn't apply to everyone, but there aren't many other places where people would instantly assume someone is intoxicated if they're acting even a little weird. I've even seen people drink in the library....

7. The messed up dating scene.

There are people who meet the love of their life at college and live happily ever after. They are people who meet the supposed love of their life at college and never talk to them again after Sunday. There are people who use Tinder. Hormones are high, freedom is bountiful, and football players are cute - what else needs to be said?

8. A warped sense of time.

The career I'm pursuing will require me to be at work by 7 am, five days a week. I am fully aware of this. Now, will I enroll in an 8 am next semester? Absolutely not - I'm not a demon. In college, nights often start at 10 p.m., dinners are eaten at 4, and mornings can begin anywhere from 8 to 2. We don't get that whole 9-5 idea.

9. Costumes... for no apparent reason.

High schoolers have a dress code. Adults have dignity. College students have fun. Here, people will wear a corn costume to get on ESPN, a fanny pack to get into a fraternity, or a tutu to match a theme party. Is it actually a weird thing, though? No one even blinks an eye.

10. Insanely close friends.

Name another point in your life when you live with your friends, study with your friends, drive with your friends, eat with your friends, go out with your friends, and even grocery shop with your friends. I'll wait. At college, it's easy for friends to seem like family because you're with them constantly. Love it or hate it, it's weird about college.

So, enjoy this weirdness while you can - it won't last forever!


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To The Person Who Doesn't Think They Are Good Enough

I am here to tell you that you are not alone.


To whoever is reading this,

You're probably reading this because you feel like you are not anyone's favorite person, or you feel like you're the DUFF (Designated Ugly Fat Friend) of your group, or something of that nature. I am here to tell you that you are not alone. You are not the only one who feels that way, and you are not the DUFF of your friend group.

We all go through times when we are really down on ourselves, or just feel like we are not good enough. Sometimes we cannot stop comparing ourselves to the people around us. Whether it's the person in front of you in line at Starbucks, your siblings, your friends, or anyone else, we are constantly comparing ourselves to the people around us.

Most of the time when we are comparing ourselves, we are picking out the positives about someone else and the negatives about ourselves, which makes us feel worse. I can think of multiple times that I've looked at my friend and thought, "She's really pretty. I don't look like she does." This is toxic thinking because we fail to realize that we are different. Everyone is a different person, with their own unique traits and characteristics.

Sometimes, you just feel like you aren't good enough or you feel bad about yourself without comparing yourself to others. The truth is, you ARE good enough. The negative thoughts you are telling yourself are not true.

Often, we are too hard on ourselves and too self-critical. We see the light in others, but we only see the darkness in ourselves. Move past that mindset. Start to see the good in yourself. There are things that are good about you, and things you are good at. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You have to realize that there are people out there who think you have it all or wish they could be as good as you are at something.

We don't see this because we are so good at picking the negatives out when we look in the mirror. Usually, we pick out negatives that other people can't even see. This is something that is difficult to change, but tries to find at least one positive about yourself every day, whether it's your physical appearance or a talent or skill you have.

At the end of the day, you ARE good enough. You are not the DUFF of your friend group, and you are not the ugly duckling in your family. You are the only one telling yourself these negative things. It's all in your head. Above all, you are NOT alone, and you never will be.

There is always someone who feels the same way you do. Just know that you are your hardest critic. Find something positive about yourself every day, and stop thinking about it all so much.

In the event of an emergency, never hesitate to call the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

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