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9 Study Tips To Help You Succeed This Semester
We could all use a little help.
25 January
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Unfortunately, the time is here. It is officially the spring semester, and you know what that means: lots and lots of studying. If you are in the same situation I am, then you are probably doing your 3rd semester of online/hybrid school. Not being at school or not attending classes in person definitely makes learning and studying a lot harder. Because I know this struggle all too well, I put together a list of study tips to hopefully help us all succeed a little more this semester.
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1. Alternate study locations.
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<p>While you might have a favorite study spot, changing locations has actually been proven to increase memory. So switch it up every now and then, it definitely won't hurt!</p>
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2. Use flashcards.
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<p>Flashcards might seem elementary, but they have actually shown to be very helpful in memorization. They also help you to declutter your notes and pick out what is actually important.</p>
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3. Take breaks frequently.
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<p>We all love to cram, but cramming for long hours before an exam is going to do little to help you. The best thing to do is to take a small break, maybe 10-15 minutes, every half hour or so. This will help your brain soak in the information and give it time to rest as well.</p>
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4. Figure out your learning style.
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<p>There are currently seven different learning styles, and figuring out which one you like best could easily boost how well you do on exams. For example, if you are an auditory learner, you would probably do better listening to an audio textbook rather than reading it yourself. When you know your learning style you can make sure your study habits are actually beneficial. </p>
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5. Put your phone away.
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<p>Our phones are one of the biggest distractions in our lives. That's why when you are studying, you should leave it off and tucked away somewhere you can't see it so that your total focus is on what you are studying rather than the phone.</p>
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6. Chew gum.
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<p>There have been many studies that link chewing gum while studying to improved concentration and memorization. It has also been shown that chewing the same gum that you did while studying when you take the exam can help you recall the information you were studying.</p>
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7. Paraphrase after reading.
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<p>Sometimes you find yourself having to reread passages from your textbook because you can't recall what you just read. A way to fix this could be to paraphrase each section in your notebook after reading it. This will not only help you remember what your reading, but will also help you to find the main points of each section.</p>
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8. Teach others.
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<p>An easy way to tell if you fully understand a topic is to teach it to someone else. Doing this will help you because it will allow you to find holes in your knowledge and it can show you just how well you know the subject based on how much you have to think while teaching it.</p>
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9. Master note-taking.
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<p>If you are someone like me, you probably try to write down everything the teacher says and anything they write on the board. While this seems like the right way to take notes, it is most definitely not. </p><p>Instead, try picking up on main ideas based on headings/subtitles and shortening how much you write about every topic. Your notes should be easy to find information in; you shouldn't have to search very hard for specific things.</p>
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8 Valentine's Day Gift Ideas For Your Long-Distance Partner
Looking for a gift idea for your long-distance Valentine's date this year? Here are some creative, thoughtful gifts for you!
25 January
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Photo by Ben Collins on Unsplash
As Valentine's Day approaches, I realized that it's the first Valentine's Day I have had with my boyfriend that we're more than 6,000 miles apart. Despite the distance though, my mind has been reeling over what to get him, as one of my main love languages is gift-giving. So here are some ideas that I've seen that I think would be perfect for any relationship, whether you're together or apart.
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1. Lovebox spinning heart messenger
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<p>Seen all over TikTok, if you're looking for a sentimental gift with a sweet origin to match your own relationship's this one is for you! With this <a href="https://www.uncommongoods.com/product/lovebox-spinning-heart-messenger?clickid=R2iRvh1LWxyLT2NwUx0Mo3b7UkEUfqSJQSpGxc0&irgwc=1&utm_source=Skimbit%20Ltd.&utm_medium=affiliates&utm_campaign=8444&utm_term=Online%20Tracking%20Link&trafficSource=Impact&sharedid=dodoburd.com" target="_blank">messenger box</a>, you're able to send messages through the app to your loved one anytime and anywhere in the world; all you need is a WiFi connection.</p><p> When your partner's Lovebox receives the message, the heart on the outside of the bamboo box begins to spin and alert the recipient. Once they see your modern love letter, they can respond with their app or spin the heart to send a shower of digital hearts to your box!</p>
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2. Flowers
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<p>If your partner loves flowers and plants, perhaps looking for a flower delivery service is a good idea this Valentine's Day! On websites such as <a href="https://www.1800flowers.com/?d=13120&atlas=361979901&r=newengengoonblocal&adcampaign=%5Bcampaign_name%5D&adcampaignid=1493225510&adgroupid=56507125126&adid=318978822204&adtype=text&kw=&matchtype=b&addisttype=g&gclid=CjwKCAiAo5qABhBdEiwAOtGmblIuLwYkRFzwxygOwLgPuqT78zDjVhOTDARKUsbLWsLdVUglLB5mCRoC-BIQAvD_BwE" target="_blank">1-800flowers.com</a> or <a href="https://www.fromyouflowers.com/search.htm?cat=seasonal+specials&refcode=11G&CMP=ppcsrch&KEYWORD=&NETWORK=search&adtext=217027787031&SRCHENGINE=google&lfd=15065&gclid=CjwKCAiAo5qABhBdEiwAOtGmbmKPNFSyzvMwG-Hr6kgwbZqeobaNTZbNOEIfN9EFSjoBZ3wZe7ONXRoCaXgQAvD_BwE" target="_blank">Fromyouflowers.com</a>, you'll be able to deliver flowers to your person, sometimes even with same-day delivery!</p>
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3. Edible Arrangements
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CKFe16yFU36/" target="_blank">Edible Arrangements / Instagram</a></p></small>
<p>If your partner loves chocolate and sweet treats (who doesn't?) maybe getting them an <a href="https://www.ediblearrangements.com/" target="_blank">edible arrangement</a> would make their day! From fruits and chocolates to bouquets to match, this delicious Valentine's day treat would be perfect if you're looking to make a memory with your loved one! There are a variety of choices of treats and if they live in another country, you'll probably find an edible arrangements company near them!</p>
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4. Handwritten letters
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<p>Easily my favorite gift to give when we're apart, handwritten letters are the perfect way to convey how you feel without expensive customs fees. Whether you include a gift card or some money is up to you, but taking the time to write a letter shows that you truly care about them. To change up this long-held tradition, I love to put cute stickers relating to the season on the letter, usually from Target or the Dollar Store.</p>
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5. Matching Lego necklaces
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<p>On TikTok, the trend of having matching <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/909018212/two-brick-half-heart-pieces-forms-full?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_e-jewelry-necklaces-charm_necklaces&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAo5qABhBdEiwAOtGmbnRcwIuRh73200d37seymYZBsGdPAvt5V2ySZFyX66NxbsCHGx8mcxoCTP0QAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_1730355986_69478012682_337579322529_pla-352964544853_c__909018212_12768591&utm_custom2=1730355986&gclid=CjwKCAiAo5qABhBdEiwAOtGmbnRcwIuRh73200d37seymYZBsGdPAvt5V2ySZFyX66NxbsCHGx8mcxoCTP0QAvD_BwE" target="_blank">Lego necklaces</a> has been popular. You can often find these on Etsy and Pinterest, but essentially you have matching Lego necklaces that, when put together, make a heart. If you both love matching or Legos or both, this gift might be good for you!</p>
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6. “Open when” letters
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lineswithdesigns/" target="_blank">Lines With Designs / Instagram</a></p></small>
<p>If you like the idea of sending letters but want more meaning behind them, these might be for you! Though they involve a few hours of work on your part, your partner will probably be delighted to read all of your <a href="https://datingatadistance.com/open-when-letter-ideas/" target="_blank">original letters</a>. From occasions like when they're feeling sick, coming to see you, and feeling hungry, your loved one will be able to open a letter made by you as if you're right by their side.</p>
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7. Keychain with a photo of you and them
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<p>One of my favorite gifts I have given my boyfriend is a<a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/772815485/boyfriend-gift-valentines-day-gift-for?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=valentines+day+gift+for+him&ref=sr_gallery-1-6&organic_search_click=1&frs=1&bes=1" target="_blank"> photo keychain</a> from Etsy. With free nationwide shipping, this handmade gift is the perfect keepsake. As you choose your keychain, look for one of your favorite photos or memories together to make it more heartfelt!</p>
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8. Matching Build-A-Bears
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<p>Though making these bears in the store might be a better experience, surprising your partner with a special cuddly gift is an experience in itself! Not only can you choose a <a href="https://www.buildabear.com/stuffed-animals" target="_blank">Build-A-Bear</a> that matches their personality and style, but you can also include a scent or sound in your stuffed animal.</p>
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21 Truths To Manifest In 2021, Because Your Thoughts Have More Power Than You Know
Each and every day, we have a choice. Make it a good one.
25 January
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Photo by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash
To be perfectly honest, I wasn't sure how to write this article.
In the past, I've written about the lies we tell ourselves. I've written about how thoughts can be destructive, how they can have power over who we are.
<p><strong>I figured that by telling people some common lies, they could find some common truths. </strong></p><p>However, there are also truths that are not so common--truths that aren't always so clear.</p><p>And so, driving on my way back to campus this evening, I began brainstorming some of those truths. </p><p><strong>Some are personal. Some may seem obvious. Some may seem hard.</strong></p><p>They're all needed. So friends, as we move through 2021, fill your mind with these 21 truths. </p><p><strong>Even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard.</strong></p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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1. Setting boundaries doesn't make you mean.
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<p>I know what you're thinking. Oh no. She's starting off with a hard truth. Yes, this is a hard truth, but it's something that I've had to tell myself over and over. I'm a people-pleaser and a perfectionist--quite the combination, I know--and I thrive on making other people happy. Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with making people happy. The problem is when we put so much emphasis on disappointing others or fulfilling their needs that we start disappointing ourselves. Of course, if you say you're going to do something, follow through. If you don't want to do something, it's OK to say no. It's OK to disappoint people. It's OK to take time for yourself. It's OK to step away from friendships or romantic relationships. It's OK to set boundaries with yourself, too.</p>
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2. You don't have to be good at everything the first time--or at all.
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<p>I'm so guilty of getting frustrated if I'm not good at something the first time. Over break, I tried learning to crochet. I'm left-handed and let me tell you, learning to crochet from a right-handed book is hard. It's frustrating, and the perfectionist in me wanted to give up soon after I started. My grandma was so patient in trying to teach me, and I just didn't get it. It took days for me to make a simple chain, but I finally did it--and I was better for it. I know there are a lot harder things in our world than crocheting. Maybe the thing you're trying seems daunting. Maybe you just don't get it at first, or maybe you don't think you'll ever get it. That's OK. I've learned that being enthusiastic about something is often better than being good at it. Try the thing. Try it again. Be eager to learn. You don't have to be the best to enjoy something.</p>
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3. You don't have to have everything figured out.
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<p>I'm one of those people who would have the rest of my life planned out today if I could. I've realized that no amount of planning or anxiety or worry can make me figure everything out. I know that it's easy to look at other people--whether it's in line at the store, on social media, at work, or in a lecture hall--and assume that they have it all figured out. As someone who has been in all of those places, take this as your friendly reminder that at least one other person doesn't have it figured out. None of us do. Give grace, be kind, and realize that the unknown is what makes us human.</p>
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4. It's OK to let go, even if letting go takes longer than you thought it would.
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<p>If there's one thing that I'm absolutely terrible at, it's letting go. I can honestly sit here and tell you what some girl in my second-grade class said to me on the last day of school 11 years ago. I can tell you what someone said when we got into an argument six months ago, and I can tell you all the ways that I hold on to things each and every day without even realizing it. Something that's been helpful for me is putting the 'palms up' method to practice. It's hard to hold on to things when your palms are facing up. When your palms are up, you loosen your grip. When your palms are up, you become OK with leaving some things behind. When your palms are up, you let go, even if loosening your grip takes weeks or months or years. Give in to the process and keep your palms up.</p>
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5. Sometimes, the thing that seems irrational is the best thing to do.
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<p>Some of the best memories come from things that aren't planned. Of course, use discernment and be wise with your choices. That being said, if you want to make an ice cream run on a Monday night, do it. If you want to take a break from studying or dye your hair or apply for a new job, do it. I'm a big believer that if it feels right, it's probably the right thing to do. Take the risk. Give in to the process. I promise it will be worth it.</p>
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6. Things don't always work out the way we want them to, but they often work out better than we could have ever imagined.
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<p>Life doesn't make sense a lot of the time. I've realized that I don't understand some things that have happened to me, and maybe you don't, either. That doesn't mean that meaning can't come from things we don't yet understand. Maybe you've faced loss or confusion lately. Maybe you're feeling hopeless or overwhelmed with work. That's OK. There's a purpose for every season. There's a purpose for every heartbreak. There's a purpose in every single thing, but it's not your job to understand that purpose right away.</p>
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7. Good is better than perfect.
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<p>Writing this one out is a good exercise in trying to take my own advice. I am a raging perfectionist in every way I can imagine. I'm still very much learning that sometimes done is better than perfect. I'm still very much learning that perfection is fleeting. I'm still learning that faithfulness wins over flawlessness. Maybe you are, too. I'm here to remind you that being perfect isn't a gold medal to wear around your neck. It's not something that people will remember you for, or at least, I hope not. There are so many better things to be than perfect. Kind. Honest. Faithful. Good. Be these things instead.</p>
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8. Listening is just as--if not more--important as talking.
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<p>Here's something else I'm still learning. I'm a major extrovert, and I love to talk. People joke that sometimes, I love to hear the sound of my own voice. They're probably right. Lately, I've been trying to be intentional about listening not only to respond, but listening just to listen. I've been trying to be intentional about how I can show people that they're valued, loved, and worth it through my actions. It's a daily challenge, but it's so worth the effort. Don't get me wrong. By all means, use your voice to speak life into the lives of others, but realize that people often need someone to listen more than they need someone to give advice right away.</p>
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9. You don't have to justify your choices to others.
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<p>Every day, it seems like I have people ask me to justify my choices. Of course, they might not come out and say it directly, but it seems like almost everyone has an opinion about everything. Having opinions isn't wrong, and seeking guidance from others isn't wrong, either. The problem comes when we put so much worth into justifying our lives that we stop living them. If you're really living, you'll probably let others down. You'll probably let yourself down, too. You don't have to explain everything to others, and you don't have to explain them to yourself.</p>
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10. Your attitude matters more than you know.
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<p>The whole reason that I'm writing this article because I know our thoughts have power. Our words have power. Our expectations have power. Approach every day not out of obligation, but out of opportunity. Embrace the truth that you get to wake up and experience another day on Earth. Embrace the truth that you get to wake up and have challenges and make mistakes. Understand that you have the opportunity to make new mistakes each day and learn from them. Embrace the truth that you get to be human to the fullest. Embrace the truth that you can, and you should. Think about these things.</p>
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11. You have a purpose, even if you don't know it quite yet.
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<p>It seems like everywhere we go, people are trying to find their purpose. Some may try and find it in a relationship or in money or in a career. Others may try to find it in desires or hobbies or routine. Some may not even know where to start. If you're one of those people, you're not alone. I'm a big believer that everyone has a purpose, and my faith plays a huge role in that belief. I'm also a big believer that sometimes, we unintentionally avoid our true purpose by trying to rush into finding what we think is our purpose. Give in to the process. Give in to the confusion. Try some things. Fail at some. Get back up. Try again. Rest. You'll find it eventually.</p>
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12. It's normal to outgrow relationships and old ways of thinking.
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<p>When we talk about growth, it's often about our successes or victories or major life lessons. None of these things are wrong, but growth isn't just those things. Sometimes, growth hurts. Sometimes, growth is confusing and messy. Sometimes, growth looks a whole lot like loss. If you're not the same person you were a week ago, embrace it. It's OK if you moved on from who you used to be, too. Give yourself grace.</p>
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13. Chances are, no one noticed.
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<p>I've realized that we tend to put so much gravity into the little things, whether it be a little mistake or a pimple or a wardrobe malfunction or a clumsy act. Chances are, no one noticed. Chances are, people are so consumed worrying about their own little things that they aren't taking the time to notice yours. If you want to wear an acne patch and a messy bun to get ice cream, go do it. I'm speaking from experience here. If you trip on a curb, laugh it off. That's also speaking from experience. Life is too short to obsess about the little things, so be human to the fullest. People will notice that instead.</p>
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14. Taking time to do what's good for the soul is so, so needed.
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<p>It's so necessary to take time for your soul and your mental health. That might look a little different for everyone, but take time to find out what works for you and do it. For me, it's going on random ice cream runs. Yes, I know that I've mentioned ice cream at least four times in this article. For you, it might be taking a nap, watching the sunset, going for a drive, or taking time to write. Find your thing and do it.</p>
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15. It's OK if you don't have a huge group of friends.
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<p>Growing up, I envied people who had large groups of friends. Now, I realize that having large groups of friends isn't all that worth envying over. I've always been someone who prefers to stick to a smaller group because that's what works best for me. If you have a huge group of friends and that works for you, I'm happy for you! That being said, it's OK if you're not incredibly popular. It's OK if you don't have plans every Friday night. Do what works for you. Take time to yourself, too. Know that the ones you surround yourself with have a huge impact on your mental health. Choose some good ones.</p>
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16. Social media doesn't tell the whole story.
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<p>I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Social media is but a highlight reel. Yes, social media is wonderful for sharing ideas and keeping in touch, but it can also be harmful to one's mental health. I hope you have the discernment to know when to walk away. I hope you have the courage to realize that who you are authentically is more than enough. I hope you know that we all have moments where we feel less than or confused or anxious. You're not alone.</p>
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17. There are far more interesting things about you than your clothing size.
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<p>Sure, maybe you aren't the size you were back in middle school. Maybe you aren't the size you were pre-quarantine. That's OK, too. There are far more interesting things about you than your clothing size. I don't know about you, but it's still a daily struggle for me to look in the mirror and love myself. Some days, it's hard. Some days, it's easy. Know that on both of those types of days, you are loved all the same.</p>
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18. Feel deeply.
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<p>I've been told that I'm too sensitive at times, and honestly, I've started to consider that a compliment. Don't let other people tell you what or how much to feel. I'd much rather be known for my empathy and emotions and ability to connect with others than my ability to hold it all in. Take it all in. Take in moments of joy, moments of pain, and everything in between. Take everything in, because those are the moments that make you who you are.</p>
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19. Not everyone needs access to your life.
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<p>I've said it before, and I'll say it again. You need to protect the energy and community around you. Not everyone needs access to your life, and you don't need access to theirs. This might look a little different for everyone, but the idea is that you're mindful of the boundaries that you put in place. Delete his number. Tell her that you don't want to hang out today. Unfollow her on social media, and be OK if they unfollow you, too.</p>
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20. What you do matters.
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<p>What you do every single day matters. How you act matters. How you speak to others matters. How you speak to yourself matters. Open yourself up to the reality that the choices you make have weight. The choices you make matter. Will you mess up? Sure. Will every choice be obvious? Probably not. At the end of the day, I hope you know that your actions and words have power. Use them well.</p>
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21. The best is yet to come. You got this.
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<p>I'll end this article by saying that you are wildly capable, oh so brave, and worthy of every good thing that comes your way. I know that 2021 seems daunting right now. There are so many unknowns, but there are some knowns, too. One of those knowns is that the best is yet to come. There is joy that comes after pain. There is hope that comes after loss. There is so much worth living for each and every day. You got this. Go make 2021 a good one.</p>
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Put Down Your Phone And Read These 8 Statistics About Texting And Driving You Wish Didn't Exist
We text all the time, so it's no surprise you may find yourself wanting to pick up your phone even when you're driving.
25 January
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You're driving to the grocery store when your phone buzzes in your pocket. You instinctively reach to check it, but it can wait until you park. These are eight statistics to read before you text and drive because they'll change how you view your time on the road.
Everyone's made the mistake of looking at their phone while in the driver's seat, but not everyone gets home safely afterward. Learn why it's better to avoid distracted driving so you don't become one of these statistics this year:
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1. 88% of millennials engage in risky driving.
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<p>Young people grew up with new technology, so it feels natural to use it every day. Still, your phone should always stay out of sight when you're on the road. Habits involving texting and checking social media are just a few reasons why 88% of millennials <a href="https://aaafoundation.org/2016-traffic-safety-culture-index/" target="_blank">engage in risky driving</a> every year, like running stoplights or speeding.</p>
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2. 9% of people send emails and texts while driving.
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<p>No one wants to look like they don't care about their job. Impressing your boss or helping your team is why 9% of people <a href="https://www.nhtsa.gov/sites/nhtsa.dot.gov/files/documents/13123-2015_natl_survey_distracted_driving_031418_v5_tag.pdf" target="_blank">check their phones for work-related texts</a> while they drive. If your job demands such attention that you're risking your life, it's time to look elsewhere for employment.</p>
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3. There are three types of drivers.
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<p>You might check your phone because you believe you have a pressing reason, but distracted drivers are more similar than you'd think. Your reasoning could <a href="https://resultsyoudeserve.com/blog/put-down-the-phone-and-drive-adhere-to-pas-distracted-driving-laws/" target="_blank">fall into one of these categories</a>, so think about if you text and drive because you: experience visual distractions, have manual distractions, or think distracting thoughts.</p><p>Avoid these types of driving, and you'll become safer on the road.</p>
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4. Distraction-affected crashes killed 9.9% more people in 2019.
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<p>Drunk driving is frequently in the news, but distracted driving should be just as important to the public. In 2019, distracted drivers <a href="https://crashstats.nhtsa.dot.gov/Api/Public/ViewPublication/813060" target="_blank">killed 9.9% more people</a> than in 2018. This number continues rising each year and should become a widely addressed national issue.</p>
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5. Phones make crashing 12 times more likely.
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<p>If you look away from the road to text and drive or dial a phone number, crashing <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2016/02/24/science/driving-distractions-study.html" target="_blank">becomes 12 times more likely</a> because you're distracted. Even if you're the only car on the road, you could drive onto the shoulder and overcorrect into an accident. Whoever you want to contact can wait in exchange for potentially saving your life.</p>
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6. Distracted driving comes with expensive fines.
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<p>Depending on where you live, texting and driving could cost a pretty penny. Drivers in Alaska <a href="https://www.drivinglaws.org/resources/alaska-text-cell-phone-laws.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">risk a $500 fine</a>, but people in Iowa could <a href="https://dps.iowa.gov/divisions/commissioners-office/governors-traffic-safety/distracted-driving" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">pay $10,000 and serve time</a> depending on if your accident kills another driver. Save yourself money and pain by avoiding your phone while you drive.</p>
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7. 48 states have all-driver laws against texting and driving.
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<p>No matter your age, 48 states <a href="https://www.ghsa.org/state-laws/issues/distracted%20driving" target="_blank">consider texting and driving illegal</a> and punishable by fines or jail time. The remaining two states have similar laws applicable to novice drivers. Either way, it's still dangerous for anyone.</p>
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8. Distracted driving remains underreported.
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<p>While you review these statistics, remember most studies underreport distracted driving. Most police reports don't <a href="https://www.nsc.org/road-safety/safety-topics/distracted-driving/underreported" target="_blank">require reasons for a crash</a>, so studies can only work with limited data.</p>
<p>The correct numbers might reflect even greater odds for crashes and deaths when you pick up your phone behind the wheel, but the public won't have that information unless reports better clarify future crash information.</p>
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I Have An Eating Disorder And I Refuse To Let It Kill Me
Even at my lowest, the number on the scale never seemed low enough... but was it ever worth the risk of losing my life?
24 January
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Trigger warning: This article discusses topics that may be triggering for some readers.
I looked down at my thumb today. I know haven't been eating enough. I told everyone I would get all my vitamins and calories in. I totally wanted to eat more of the guacamole I bought the other day, but I counted what I had eaten and those numbers seemed a little too high. I decided I didn't need the extra helping, so I went to bed and the guacamole went bad.
<p>Right now, there's this vein popping out in my hand. I've never seen it before. Have I lost more weight? I just rushed into the bathroom, and I pulled my shirt up. I realize my ribs are nearly xylophones they're so prominent now. </p><p>My breasts are all but gone. Even at my lowest weight at 17, I know I was a cup size B. I don't know if I would fit into a training bra from Target from when I was 10 right now. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2650047907-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p>The pants I'm wearing are a size two. They keep slipping down my body. I pull them up. They slide back down. It hurts to sit now. My ass is only bones. I know the next thing I'm about to do is the worst for me. Yet, I still do it. </p><p>I turn sideways and see my stomach. It's not flat. I try to fight the voice, but it takes over. </p><p>Everything else is small now, why is my stomach not flat?</p><p> I fight back. It's organs. People with reproductive systems have organs. I'm on my period. Of course, I would be a little more bloated anyway. These organs are keeping me alive. This uterus is working. I want kids someday, right? </p><p>The voice kicks back in: It would ruin your body. Your stomach. And why is it not flat, anyhow?</p><p> Shut up. I didn't even eat today. My stomach is empty. </p><p>YOU LOOK FAT.</p><p> I pull my shirt down and leave the hell-scape that is my own bathroom mirror before the voice has more to say. Then, I settle back into bed. I know I shouldn't, I know I start comparing my body over the years, but I scroll through old photos anyway. </p><p>I stop at one from the beach in 2018, one I realize I don't look at often. It was a true off-guard moment from the beach. I was wearing a blue bikini, and I was smiling. Really smiling. </p><p>I was running my hand through my hair, my posture wasn't perfect, and my stomach was... not flat. I hated that set of pictures when I first saw them. My body didn't look good enough. My hair was too messy. My smile was so goofy looking, my crooked teeth on display. I have a different thought today...</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Cal Uher</small></p><p>I look so happy. I look so beautiful.<br></p><p> I scroll to the next set: I'm wearing a tight olive dress, posing with my beautiful cousins in front of the water.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Cal Uher</small></p><p>I remember feeling the need to suck my stomach in that day. In the dress, my tummy poked through. I remember focusing on it after it was taken. Even at my smallest, I remember doing the same thing: zooming in on the smallest detail and wondering if it was too big. My "hip dips." My stomach. My thighs. Now, I can only think of how beautiful that dress looked on 18-year-old me.<br></p><p> I scroll through the years, remembering exactly which photos immediately triggered me to stop eating.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Cal Uher</small></p><p>Too fat.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Tiffany Noel Photography</small></p><p>Too fat.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Tiffany Noel Photography</small></p><p>Too fat.<br></p><p> I really gained a lot of weight in 2019. I had just gotten a birth control implant and put on a bunch of weight. I didn't think much of it until the comments rolled in — "you look more womanly now." But, the worst were the little comments from my ex. He'd show me pictures of us from years ago. "Look how skinny we were!" </p><p>Did I no longer have the moniker of skinny? </p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Tabitha Stevens Photography</small></p><p>I immediately decided that I was going to lose weight. It was easy. I was pretty broke, and I was working often. I drank only black coffee although my job as a janitor was physically demanding. I celebrated the days I made it through not eating at all, the days I was dizzy while carrying 30 pounds of weights across the gym. I was so tired all of the time. I tracked my calories to make sure they were close to zero. </p><p><strong>I lost 20 pounds.</strong><br></p><p> I couldn't stop sleeping through half of the day, waking up only to go to work. My friends were worried, showing up at my house with my favorite foods and nearly shoving them down my throat. </p><p>In January 2020, I came down with strep throat. I started to not be able to walk. My partner at the time would have to carry me to the bathroom and back to the bed. We were planning to go to the doctor the next day if it persisted, but by the end of the day, I could walk again. When I woke up, my partner had already gone to work. </p><p>This time, it got worse.</p><p> I couldn't walk without falling to the ground. I decided to take a warm bath, call my mom and then head to a doctor. I stood up, then fell down. I used the wall to make it to the bathroom and crawled up to sit on the toilet. I video called my best friend, telling him what was happening. Except he didn't really hear me, because my words were slurred.</p><p> I fell off and onto the floor and had the first seizure. Somehow, my friend and I disconnected, and I couldn't stop from hitting my head over and over on the tile. I couldn't control my limbs anymore. I reached for my phone, trying to call my partner knowing how expensive ambulances were. It was getting blurry. I could hardly see my phone anymore. </p><p>Every time I went to reach up, I would seize again. I had no control over my body. I called 911. She could hardly hear me. I don't really remember much of what else happened, but when I fully came to, I was in the hospital.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Cal Uher</small></p><p>I couldn't walk anymore. The tests came back: I had no neurological problems. I was too low on vitamins, and the perfect storm of my medications occurred, causing a sudden, onset seizure. I know if I hadn't called then, I would've lost consciousness. I would've kept slamming my head, and I probably would've died. I would've died because when I turned in the mirror... my stomach wasn't flat.<br></p><p>Looking at my thumb, now, I realize I'm headed back towards hospitals and heart problems. And even between it all.... those photos held so many happy moments.</p><p> They're snapshots of being alive.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Tabitha Stevens Photography</small></p><p>being lucky to have a family... </p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Cal Uher</small></p><p>...snapshots of a healthy body.<br></p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Cal Uher</small></p><p>I know I never want to risk my life like that again. I'm so happy my heart is still pumping. I have too many more pictures to take. Ones at my wedding. Ones with my cat. Ones on vacations I'll never forget.<br></p><p> I still haven't eaten, but now my partner and I are cleaning the room a little. It's been a mess. I'm pretty dizzy, and I have to sit on the floor, drinking water. He walks in.</p><p> "Are you hungry?"</p><p> I pause for a moment, then give a weak smile. </p><p>"Yes."<br><br></p><p><em>If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the </em><a href="http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>National Suicide Prevention Hotline</em></a><em> — 1-800-273-8255</em></p>
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Hey, Guess What, My 'Useless' Degree Actually Makes Me Money
Acting school wasn't a waste of time or money, Dad!
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When pursuing a degree that most deem 'useless' or a 'waste of time' there happens to be a lot of self-doubt and fear, especially with the pending doom of graduation around the corner. I remember when I was about to graduate from college with a Bachelor's in Acting, I was absolutely terrified.
<p><strong><em></em>While I loved my collegiate experience, there was very little training (or selective) training to prepare you for the world beyond academia. </strong></p><p>Upon the weeks of graduation, I started to shoot my shot with jobs in my field, auditions, and prepping to come back to my hometown and take it by storm. Before I graduated, I even had a callback for a dream show of mine at a professional company! But, there was a dry spell shortly after for a few months. I still persisted with auditions, but instead of getting an acting job right away, I got a job in retail, at Francesca's Collections. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2650033393-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p>While it wasn't exactly acting, it did put the skills that I gained in college to use. </p><p>Just like everyone else in retail, I put on a face to make a sale.</p><p>There are concepts I was taught at school that has helped me excel in my job today. As an actor, you have to be flexible. In improvisation, one of the main rules is "Yes, And…" - in normal speak that basically means to go with the flow and build upon what others give you. </p><p>It's so easy to follow a cycle where you find the negative and stick with it and tear others down to fit in a group, but when you're actually helping build others up you can discover more about yourself and the people around you.</p><p>A popular phrase used in auditioning, or acting in general, is "Fake it until you make it." That phrase is one that I'm positive isn't exclusive to the acting world. </p><p>Whenever I am having a rough day, sometimes, I just have to smile, put my best foot forward and stick to my script. Even if you aren't feeling your best, or have an interaction that gets you down, use that thick skin and connect with people.</p><p>Speaking of connection, ensemble work was a high-focus at school. You might be asking, "What does that word even mean?" </p><p>(I'm here for you!) </p><p>Ensemble is just a fancy theatre word for "group" or "team." So, whenever a job application is looking for a team player, or you find yourself getting along with a group of coworkers or guests, you're basically a pro-ensemble member. Personally, it was my favorite part of school since I loved being around people and getting to know them.</p><p>Those three are pretty simple, right? Within my three years of retail thus far, I have become an asset at both companies that I have worked for, climbing up the ladder, and even have become an influencer for the company I'm at now and have appeared on their website twice! </p><p>Just goes to show you: even if you feel like your degree might not be traditional, you can take what you've learned and apply it anywhere and make money. Don't let others tell you otherwise.</p>
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TikTok Made Me Buy It: Flawless's Skincare Fridge
I bought and tested one of TikTok's popular products so you don't have to.
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I spend a lot of time on TikTok and I never know whether the products I see are worth it or not, especially when I'm looking at the price. For Christmas, my aunt got me a gift card to Ulta. I didn't know what to buy. I have way too many palettes and lipsticks. I have my essentials. What else could I need? Then it hit me that I saw a lot of people these past few months showing off their skincare fridges. So, the second I thought of it I went on the Ulta app and bought it. So, here are my thoughts.
<h3>What is a skincare fridge?</h3><p>A skincare fridge is exactly as it sounds: a mini-fridge that is intended for your skincare products such as face masks, sheet masks, jade rollers, gua shas, serums, and creams. It's smaller than an average mini-fridge and can fit on a desk or vanity. Keeping the products cold allows for products to help with inflammation, puffiness, and tired-looking skin. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2650048830-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><h3>My skincare fridge</h3><p>My skincare fridge is from the brand Flawless. It's white with rose gold details. The inside has a shelf unit and the door has a little pocket for extra storage. All I had to do was plug it in and switch it on and it was working. It fits all of my serums, rollers, and creams. The one criticism I have is that the little pocket on the door is a bit small so my sheet masks and roller wouldn't stay upright. I just put them on the top shelf instead and put a one-use clay mask in the pocket. </p><h3>Is it worth the hype?</h3><p>For me, I say it was. It's really been beneficial for my serums the most and my eye cream. As someone that's skin is prone to getting red or inflamed skin every so often, it has helped with redness a lot. I feel like the cold serums feel better on my skin and feel more refreshing. I think this product is especially good for people that really love skincare and skincare products. If you don't really use your products a lot then it could feel like it's a bit of a waste. For those that are interested, Walmart, Ulta, and Amazon all sell skincare fridges. Happy shopping!</p><p><br></p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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37 Cute And Unique Pinterest Board Titles
Let's be real, the hardest part about Pinterest is thinking of a cute title for your board.
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I don't know about anyone else but I have recently become re-obsessed with Pinterest. Like, I am spending a stupid amount of time on Pinterest daily now. While I have been binging Pinterest I have found that I love making cute and aesthetic boards but it is SO hard to come up with a name to match it. So, I scoured the internet and my brain for you. Happy pinning!
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Food Boards
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>Break the Fast</li><li>Food Frenzy</li><li>A Board Just for Food ... duh </li><li>Good Eats </li><li>Eat Up</li></ul>
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Clothes Boards
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>Gucci Gang</li><li>Louis Ladies </li><li>Outfit Overload </li><li>What I Wish was Currently in my Closet</li><li>Wants</li></ul>
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Travel Boards
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>The Great Outdoors</li><li>Italia </li><li>Mamma Mia </li><li>The Mountains Are Calling </li><li>Mediterranean Moment </li><li>indeNILE</li><li>An NYC NYE</li></ul>
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>Island Time </li><li>Living in a Bikini</li><li>It's 5:00 somewhere </li><li>Let's Go to the Beach Beach</li><li>Just Add Water</li></ul>
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College Boards
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>Big Gameday Girls </li><li>Girl Gang</li><li>College Life</li><li>The Dorm Room to end all Dorm Rooms</li><li>B!tches Love Elevated Surfaces</li></ul>
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Accessories Boards
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>Shoe Envy</li><li>Hair Obsession</li><li>Bag Secured</li><li>Dainty Things</li></ul>
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Miscellaneous Boards
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<ul class="ee-ul"><li>Doggos</li><li>Happy Words</li><li>Mini Me</li><li>House and Home</li><li>Disney Daydream</li><li>Wake Up and Makeup</li></ul>
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