Social media is buzzing about the men's activist group "Return of Kings." The group, which believes in neomasculinity, reverting to traditional gender roles, and that a woman's worth is rooted in fertility and beauty. These outdated ideals are not only offensive but dangerous in a world where the men who hold these beliefs can be connected with the click of a button.
The organizer of Return of Kings, Daryush Valizadeh, had planned an international meet-up for his followers, encouraging these men to abandon their computer screens and meet up in real life. After worldwide outrage, Valizadeh decided to cancel the meet-ups, fearing for the safety of the men attending.
As a woman, I am not only disgusted by Valizadeh's attitude and belief's regarding human rights, but I also can't help but laugh at the irony of his statement. He fears for these men's safety at night. That fear is one that I am all too familiar with. I avoid going outside alone past sunset. Walking to my car after work makes my heart race. If someone is behind me while I'm heading back to my room on campus I can't help but walk faster, glancing over my shoulder to see if they're still behind me. Fear of the night is very real, and I know I am not the only woman who experiences it.
Although the followers of Return of Kings are present throughout the world, it is comforting to know that many people have stood up to denounce Valizadeh and his followers. Australia even barred Valizadeh from entering the country on the grounds that men who promote violence against women are not welcome. Likewise, petitions have been signed international regarding Valizadeh and his followers.