Today someone told me, “I’m pretty sure you’re actually from a Disney movie and are forced to live in this world.”
I’m almost positive that his comment wasn’t intended to serve as a compliment, but it is the most unique comment that I have ever heard. What does this even mean? I am childish? Always happy? I’m not entirely certain of his intended meaning, but I do know that all of these characteristics are interconnected by one recurring theme: innocence.
I have always seen a significance in keeping my innocence as I age. There are several reasons as to why anyone would want to retain theirs as well:
The world is filled with heartbreaking living situations, horrifying deaths and so many things that are beyond imagination. Remaining innocent doesn’t necessarily mean staying oblivious to the reality of these hardships, rather it could mean deliberately focusing on the good instead of the bad.
The value of the news is quite evident, but eventually if too much energy is consumed digesting how, why and to what extent a man could kill a crowd of harmless individuals, I become discouraged. Perhaps, staying innocent suggests that some things are beyond control and are bound to happen despite how much caution we take. Essentially, innocence plays a huge factor in positivity. The less I focus on the news, the better I sleep at night.
To me, innocence can be defined by the actions we take. It is so easy to be caught up with our monotonous routines; however, Intentionally choosing to seek value in the little things is what makes the days more distinguishable: calling a friend before work, driving with the windows down while blasting music, observing how exceptional the sky looks everyday, or simply having a night in with a few friends. Innocence opens my eyes and allows me to see in an appreciative manner.
Remaining innocent helps me focus on my connections with people. It has made me realize the importance of unconditional support. The day’s routine might be the same, but your conversation and connectivity could always strengthen.
Innocence involves bringing the best out of people. Just how a child isn’t born to discriminate, an “innocent” individual should be extremely inclusive. It’s easy to compliment and focus your energy on a well-liked person, but it is a lot harder to befriend someone like “The Grinch” or “Scrooge.” Trash talking and creating drama are not qualities that innocent individuals share. After all, if another person does have a bothersome flaw, it is almost guaranteed that others notice it too. Conversing with additional people over the issue will not change anything. Ultimately, by staying innocent there is a greater chance that you will come off as a more trustworthy and reliable person.
To conclude, there is no definite approach to innocence. It may come naturally, it may take conscious effort, or it may not be desirable at all for you. Remaining innocent can be advantageous by allowing different perspectives and suggesting to stay hopeful through tough situations. It can also make you feel childish. Regardless, there are pros and cons to everything. I see the importance of the phrase, “innocence is bliss” because having the ability to soak up the kindness that the world offers, and radiate it for others to see as well, is utterly breathtaking.
