My Letters Don't Make Me Better Than You, They Make Me Better Than I Used To Be

My Letters Don't Make Me Better Than You, They Make Me Better Than I Used To Be

What being a sorority girl means to me.

My organization has brought so much happiness into my life since the day I ran home, fall of my freshmen year.

It's not all the media makes it out to be, we don't really party every waking hour of the day, and we definitely are not "buying our friends." For me, sorority life has been nothing but happy times and memories I know I'll have for a lifetime. My sisters have shown me kindness and love on my worst days, and I know I can count on them for anything and trust them with even my darkest secrets.

I can't speak for everyone, but here's what being a "sorority girl" means to me.

Always having a sister to lean on

Whether I need to borrow a phone charger in the library, or my whole world has suddenly just come crashing down, there is always a sister willing to lend a hand, or a shoulder to cry on.

So many leadership opportunities

It seems like every day there's a new position up for grabs or an opportunity to get more involved in the chapter and get to know different sisters better.


Our philanthropies, Prevent Child Abuse America and Girl Scouts of the USA have grown so close to my heart since joining my sorority, Kappa Delta. I've had the eye-opening experience of touring the Child Advocacy Center of South West Florida and being able to volunteer at numerous Girl Scout events. Being able to see and learn about the impact that our organization has on children in need, and to hear little girls say "I want to be like you when I grow up", makes all the hours of fundraising and preparation worth it instantly.

Holding myself to a higher standard

Being apart of my sisterhood comes with certain rules and responsibilities, but I am honored to comply with them because being a member of my sorority means that I am apart of something bigger than myself. I know that I need to raise my own standards because Kappa Delta will never lower hers for me.

Campus involvement

We hold many fun tabling events on campus throughout the semester and host our annual Shamrock carnival where anyone is welcomed. Our Shamrock event raises money for PCAA, while our tabling events are meant to brighten student's days and give them a chance to get to know our sisters.


With 166 active collegiate chapters in the United States, being a Kappa Delta sister has opened so many doors for me. There is always someone to vouch for you and your character based on our shared values.

Endless encouragement

My sisters are always encouraging me to put my self out there, they see my potential and they have given me the confidence to go after what I want in life.

Role models

My organization has given me countless strong, confident women to look up to. My sisters are some of the most positive influences in my life. I see them juggling other groups and clubs, sports, jobs, and internships all while still keeping school their main priority, and having a social life, they can truly do it all, and do it all well.

Empowered women, empower women and my sisters are the best example of that. They've taught me to go confidently in the direction of my dreams, and never look back.

So yes, I'm a sorority girl, and I'm proud.

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22 New Things That I Want To Try Now That I'm 22

A bucket list for my 22nd year.


"I don't know about you but I'm feelin' 22," I have waited 6 long years to sing that and actually be 22! Now 22 doesn't seem like a big deal to people because you can't do anything that you couldn't do before and you're still super young. But I'm determined to make my 22nd year a year filled with new adventures and new experiences. So here's to 22.

1. Go sky diving.

What's crazier than jumping out of a plane? (Although I'll probably try indoor skydiving first.)

2. Go cliff jumping/diving.

I must be the only Rhode Islander who hasn't gone to Jamestown and jumped off a cliff.

3. Ride in a hor air balloon.

Up, up and away.

4. Try out skiing.

Cash me in the next Olympics, how bout dat.

5. Try out snow boarding.

Shawn White, I'm coming for you.

6. Go bungee jumping.

Because at least this time I'll be attached to something.

7. Go to Portugal.

I mean I'm Portuguese so I have to go at some point, right?

8. Go to Cape Verde.

Once again, I'm Cape Verdean so I have to go.

9. Vist one of the seven wonders of the world.

I mean hey, Egypt's on, my bucket list.

10. Try out surfing.

It's only natural that somebody from the Ocean State knows how to surf.

11. Learn a new langauge.

Because my little bit of Portuguese, Spanish and Latin isn't cutting it anymore.

12. Travel to a state that I've never been to before.

Fun fact: I've only been to 17 of the 50 states.

13. Go paddle boarding.

Pretty boring but I've never done it.

14. Go scuba diving.

I'm from the Ocean State so I guess I should see the ocean up close and personal.

15. Learn how to line dance.

There's actually a barn in my state that does line dancing, so this one will definitely get crossed off.

16. Go kayaking.

All this water around me and I haven't done a lot of the water activites.

17. Stay the night in a haunted hotel room.

I bet if I got my friends to come with me, it would be like the Suite Life of Zach and Cody episode, minus the ghost coming out of the wall but you never know.

18. Get my palms read.

Because who doesn't want to know their future.

19. Go to a medium.

Like a medium that can communicate with people that have died.

20. Take a helicopter ride.

Air plane: check Helicopter:....

21. Sleep under the stars.

Because sleeping in a tent is more like glamping than camping

22. Just to try new things in my everyday life.

Whether it's trying a new restaurant, getting something different at my usual restaurants, changing my usual style, going on the scary rides at amusement parks, and bringing things I used to do back into my life now.

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11 Songs Every Bama Student Hears At A Frat House Front Yard Darty

"Singing 'Sweet Home Alabama' all summer long." — Kid Rock


Darty season the time of year that all students look forward to. Wearing your favorite pair of shorts a cute shirt or even basketball jersey and skipping on over to fraternity row.

To open it all up, why don't we start with the song that gets evert white person ever, lit? And it begins...

1. The Killers — "Mr. Brightside"

We've got to jam to something while a latter song is banned! With the upbeat rhythm and unmatched lyrics, you can't go wrong with Mr. Brightside.

2. Walker Wes & Dyl - "Jordan Belfort "

Okay, I get it. This song is old, but that doesn't means it doesn't slap still. Am I right or am I right?

3. All American Rejects - "Gives You Hell"

Let's be honest this has been a bop since it dropped and no one can deny it.

4. OutKast - "Ms. Jackson"

Never meant to make your daughter cry... Obviously, but it still happened.

5. Drake - "God's Plan"

Scary hours, sad boy hours, whatever suites your fancy.

6. Soulja Boy - "Crank That"

We all think our music taste has evolved until we hear this MASTERPIECE. I bet that within the first few minutes of the song you will see people break out the dance that goes along with it too!

7. Post Malone - "Better Now"

Because, for real, who doesn't love Posty?

8. Cardi B, J Balvin, and Bad Bunny - "I Like It"

Since Bodak Yellow, all the rave is Cardi B and college girls, for one, are HERE for IT.

9. Khalid, 6LACK, Ty Dolla $ign - "OTW"

You can't go wrong with this one because guys love the rappers and girls love Khalid.

10. Mason Ramsey - "Famous"


11. Lynyrd Skynyrd - "Sweet Home Alabama"

Did you really think this wouldn't be on this list?

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