5 Things I Want All My Pre-Med Friends To Know

5 Things I Want All My Pre-Med Friends To Know

Here are a few words of encouragement.

Sometimes becoming a doctor can seem impossible. You are taking triple the science classes, working 24/7, trying to get involved at a local hospital, trying to get teachers to notice you for recommendations, always studying, and simultaneously keeping your GPA from dropping too hard. You put in all this work for the off chance that you may get into any medical school because they all have something of a 4% acceptance rate. And, it doesn't help that whenever you tell someone you want to become a doctor, they just assume you are either doing it for the money or because your parents told you to.

Well, I'm here to tell you can do this! I believe that if you want to become a doctor, your drive, passion, and determination will help you get there. It is not impossible. Here is some advice that I hope will help you stay motivated to follow your dreams.

1. Do not let your grades define you

Being pre-med is hard academically. You have to take some really tough STEM courses, and getting a decent grade in those classes is important for being accepted into medical school. But if you get a 'B' a 'C' or even straight up fail a class, do not be discouraged. I know it sucks and I'm not going to gloss over the fact that you need a good GPA for medical school.

But, passions are not easy they are challenging, and no one is going to blame you for a few bad grades here and there. Those rigid letters and numbers cannot truly reflect an inherent human error. When you get a bad grade you just need to take it with a grain of salt and learn how you can improve. Do not give up after a misstep, grow from it.

2. Do not think your life will only begin after becoming a doctor

This is something I hear from a lot of pre-medical students. Many of them complain about how much time it will take to become a doctor like their lives will only begin after that. This is a not a great way to start a 12 to 15-year journey.

Your life does NOT begin after you become a doctor. Your life is NOW.

So, make sure you are enjoying yourself. Love your major, visit your family, hang out with friends. You have time to have a life, and you will regret this track if you aren't actively trying to do so.

People think that once they become a doctor they will finally live happily. But to be honest being a doctor is just as stressful or even more stressful than being a student. So why suffer now? I guarantee you'll never have to if you just change your outlook on the journey.

Becoming a doctor is not a means to an end, it is just a phase of life yet to come. So be patient and relish the phase you are in now.

3. Do not try to become a doctor for the money.

To be honest, if you are I don't blame you. But try to discover a passion in the medical field that will allow all your hard work to be driven by something other than an annual income. Medicine is amazing and has so many fields you can go into. I am sure you can find something that sparks your interest. And when you discover that one thing in medicine that just 'clicks', you will find that being pre-med is a lot less of a drag.

4. A lot of people are pre-med. So what? You are still special!

I know it can be overwhelming when everyone you meet is pre-med. It is like you are struggling to try to keep up with work and life and then you realize a ton of other people are doing the same thing. It makes being pre-med feel competitive and cliched. But you are still special, and you deserve to be pre-med just as much as anyone else.

If you really want this, you are entitled to your goals, no matter how many people are striving for the same thing. Just remind yourself why you started doing all this in the first place.

5. Never say "I'm pre-med for now"

A lot of people tell me they are pre-med but "that is subject to change". I understand this if you are genuinely trying to discover whether you want to become a doctor or not. However from what I gather a lot of people just say this as a disclaimer. Like they don't want to be judged because they assume that others will not internally believe that they could achieve such a feat. Or they add this disclaimer because they are worried they may not get into medical school or be able to handle the program.

But if you want to become a doctor, you need to own it. You need to be confident and confirm your aspirations. Every time you tell someone you are pre-med "for now", you are not only enlisting doubt in the other person but also yourself. So just don't even say it. If you fail fine, and if you eventually decide a different path, that's fine too. But do not give up before you have even begun. If you are pre-med tell people you are. If someone asks "Are you sure?" Tell them you are sure. This is the first step to fabricating your ambition.

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College As Told By Junie B. Jones

A tribute to the beloved author Barbara Parks.

The Junie B. Jones series was a big part of my childhood. They were the first chapter books I ever read. On car trips, my mother would entertain my sister and me by purchasing a new Junie B. Jones book and reading it to us. My favorite part about the books then, and still, are how funny they are. Junie B. takes things very literally, and her (mis)adventures are hilarious. A lot of children's authors tend to write for children and parents in their books to keep the attention of both parties. Barbara Park, the author of the Junie B. Jones series, did just that. This is why many things Junie B. said in Kindergarten could be applied to her experiences in college, as shown here.

When Junie B. introduces herself hundreds of times during orientation week:

“My name is Junie B. Jones. The B stands for Beatrice. Except I don't like Beatrice. I just like B and that's all." (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 1)

When she goes to her first college career fair:

"Yeah, only guess what? I never even heard of that dumb word careers before. And so I won't know what the heck we're talking about." (Junie B. Jones and her Big Fat Mouth, p. 2)

When she thinks people in class are gossiping about her:

“They whispered to each other for a real long time. Also, they kept looking at me. And they wouldn't even stop." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 66)

When someone asks her about the library:

“It's where the books are. And guess what? Books are my very favorite things in the whole world!" (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 27)

When she doesn't know what she's eating at the caf:

“I peeked inside the bread. I stared and stared for a real long time. 'Cause I didn't actually recognize the meat, that's why. Finally, I ate it anyway. It was tasty...whatever it was." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 66)

When she gets bored during class:

“I drew a sausage patty on my arm. Only that wasn't even an assignment." (Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren, p. 18)

When she considers dropping out:

“Maybe someday I will just be the Boss of Cookies instead!" (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 76)

When her friends invite her to the lake for Labor Day:

“GOOD NEWS! I CAN COME TO THE LAKE WITH YOU, I BELIEVE!" (Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy, p. 17)

When her professor never enters grades on time:

“I rolled my eyes way up to the sky." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 38)

When her friends won't stop poking her on Facebook:

“Do not poke me one more time, and I mean it." (Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy, p. 7)

When she finds out she got a bad test grade:

“Then my eyes got a little bit wet. I wasn't crying, though." (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 17)

When she isn't allowed to have a pet on campus but really wants one:


When she has to walk across campus in the dark:

“There's no such thing as monsters. There's no such thing as monsters." (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed, p. 12)

When her boyfriend breaks her heart:

“I am a bachelorette. A bachelorette is when your boyfriend named Ricardo dumps you at recess. Only I wasn't actually expecting that terrible trouble." (Junie B. Jones Is (almost) a Flower Girl, p. 1)

When she paints her first canvas:

"And painting is the funnest thing I love!" (Junie B. Jones and her Big Fat Mouth, p. 61)

When her sorority takes stacked pictures:

“The biggie kids stand in the back. And the shortie kids stand in the front. I am a shortie kid. Only that is nothing to be ashamed of." (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed, p. 7)

When she's had enough of the caf's food:

“Want to bake a lemon pie? A lemon pie would be fun, don't you think?" (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed p. 34)

When she forgets about an exam:

“Speechless is when your mouth can't speech." (Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren, p. 54)

When she finds out she has enough credits to graduate:

“A DIPLOMA! A DIPLOMA! I WILL LOVE A DIPLOMA!" (Junie B. Jones is a Graduation Girl p. 6)

When she gets home from college:

"IT'S ME! IT'S JUNIE B. JONES! I'M HOME FROM MY SCHOOL!" (Junie B. Jones and some Sneaky Peaky Spying p. 20)

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Things I Miss Now That I'm Home From College Again

There are so many reasons to be glad that the school year is over, but if you've done it right... there are a lot of reasons to miss it too.


So, school is over now and I've come home. As expected I was so relieved at first. No more showering with flip-flops, no more listening to screaming girls running up and down the hall, and a space that is mine and mine alone. But after a week or so of being back, there are a few things I've already started to miss.

I know that not every single person has the ideal roommate but I got really lucky with mine. Coming home I was excited to have my own space, but now when I'm doing my midnight scrolling, I'm realizing that I miss being able to talk to her about the funny things I see in that very moment. Tagging, DMing, and texting her doesn't feel the same as a long night of giggles spent together.

Also, while seeing old friends when you get home is amazing, and there is always a lot to catch up on, you do start to miss your other friends too. Being in college means that your friends are going through similar things as you are all the time. You have tests together, clubs together, and sometimes you spend way too much time procrastinating together. The bond you begin to form is one you definitely begin to miss - especially when you guys don't live close off of campus.

Coming home also means you don't have a set schedule or at least not immediately. You may come back to a previous job and that puts something on your calendar, but the free time you still have during the week can be a little too much. I know I've spent way too much time obsessing over the Tati/James drama than I ever would have at school. The routine I had at school kept me busy and entertained, and I'm honestly missing it a lot right now.

There are a lot of other things to miss too - even things you thought you wouldn't. You miss the classes, the teachers, and sometimes the food. I know I miss the environment. It isn't a perfect one, but it's full of people just trying to find their way. We are all working through the roller coaster of life and we are all stuck on one beautiful campus together while we figure it all out. I miss meeting new people at the bus stops or running into old classmates and catching up.

I guess the bonus for me is that I just finished sophomore year which means I have more time to spend at school. Come senior year, I guess I'll have to learn quickly how to deal without the things I miss - and also create a schedule so I can travel to see all of my friends, but those are all problems for future me.

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