So, it's been a little over a one month since I've graduated college and honestly, it doesn't feel like I did. I went through two ceremonies, took tons of pictures but yet, it's all still surreal to me. It's summer, so I just feel like I'm on vacation. Once August hits and I see people going back to school, and knowing there wont be a check from financial aid in my account, that's when it will probably register that I am done. That my college years are just a memory.

I can't help but think about my entire college experience. These past few years have definitely been quite one heck of a roller coaster. I feel like my freshman year was just yesterday! I remember everything so vividly. Moved out of my parents house at the age of 17 and finally got a taste of freedom. Now, I can't help but think about my future. You see, in my early years of college, I wasn't too focused on life after graduation. I just wanted to have fun 24/7. Now, I'm constantly thinking about what path or direction I want to go in. Which is okay. I'm young, single and free of bills, for now. I have my whole life ahead of me! This is the perfect time to really self-reflect and focus on myself. I'm not surrounded by a bunch of friends like I have been for the past couple of years, so I'm definitely using this time to my advantage.

One thing I notice about recent college grads is how we look at others and where they are at in their life right now. We can't do that. Comparing our lives to others is not going to help and it's pointless to do so. Sure, be inspired if that's the case, but we all are on different paths and growing at different rates. Just focus on yourself and all will be fine.