The Positives Of New Year's Resolutions

My Only Resolution This New Year Is To Be Positive About The Days To Come

So for those who believe that New Year's resolutions are ineffective and a waste of time, I can understand why you would think so. But honestly, they're helpful.


It's that time of year again — New Year's. The time everyone overestimates just how good they can be next year and how much they can change and better themselves. Or the time that people actually work on themselves and set goals that they manage to achieve through the year. I've always loved New Year's and have always celebrated by staying up to watch the ball drop and by making a list of resolutions I was always hopeful to fulfill.

Every year, I'm super enthusiastic to make a well thought out list of everything I want to achieve the coming year. Granted, I never follow through with the whole list. At most, I accomplish a few of the goals and give up on the rest partially through the year. Either way, it was something I looked forward to at the end of every year. It was what made me motivated and kept me positive for the next year.

However, this year was different. I'm not too sure why, but it didn't feel the same this year. Winter this year didn't quite feel like winter, Christmas didn't feel like Christmas, and I didn't feel like celebrating New Year's. I didn't even stay up till midnight this time.

I guess it has something to do with how I felt in general this year. I've had my ups and downs this year and at some points felt much more negative than I usually did. And I guess that negativity continued into 2019. So instead of setting out goals and motivating myself, I let myself stay unmotivated and never ended up coming up with any resolutions for 2019. And so far, that's what my 2019 has been — unmotivated.

After thinking about it, I realized that I shouldn't have just let myself go into the new year like that. One of the most important things is to stay positive and inspired to do great things and make the best out of the time you have. The worst thing I could do to myself is letting myself not care about it being a new year. Because it really is important.

As ridiculous as everyone makes the new year seem with resolutions everyone knows they won't keep, in my opinion, it's not completely crazy. From what I see, resolutions do more good than anything, right? For me, they aren't made to be accomplished. The point of resolutions is to keep us trying, to keep our spirits up and keep us working on ourselves. We don't have to always accomplish things, but we should always try to be better.

So for those who believe that New Year's resolutions are ineffective and a waste of time, I can understand why you would think so. But honestly, they're helpful.

This is the first year I've gone in without any, and it already feels like I've been so unproductive. So instead, I'm making my new resolution to be more happy and positive for the year to come and to strive to do the best I can do. I believe any resolution can help improve our lives in the smallest ways, and it should be something I always keep. They keep us excited and give us a reason to do what we do. If nothing else, the satisfaction that we get from accomplishing even a little task makes us proud and motivated to do more and accomplish more in our lives.

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The Burning Of Notre Dame Has Actually Strengthened My Catholic Faith

Corinthians 5:17 says, "Old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new."


Every year, Palm Sunday is the start of Holy Week in the Christian faith. As the most sacred time of the year, those who believe Jesus died on the cross for our sins hold these days dear in our hearts. 2019's Palm Sunday, however, is now held in infamy. The very next day, the precious Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris started to burn.

As the world now knows, the famed and historic Notre-Dame de Paris was spontaneously engulfed in flames on April 15, 2019. The cause has not yet been identified precisely but is most likely due to complications during the $6.8 million renovations the cathedral is currently under. Completed back in 1345, the nearly 800-year-old church has withstood the test of time relatively well.

Until now.

The modern world watched as one of the biggest treasures of the past burned away before our eyes, Twitter even erupted in an unprecedented coverage of this world-wide tragedy as many took to social media to pour their condolences and share memories of this French icon. Religion, race and personal beliefs aside, the world collectively grieved and lent support.

While this is truly a loss on a global scale, the blow comes as a particularly harsh one to the Catholic community after a particularly difficult season of Lent. From the Pope addressing allegations of sexual assault, to backlash over the controversial theatrical release of the film "Unplanned", this latest development seemed like a cruel joke in the days leading up to Easter Sunday. I myself felt affected by this fire hundred of thousand miles away in North Carolina. One of our most beloved holy churches was ebbing away in front of us and all God could do was watch.

However, despite all that, we must look forward.

Despite much of the church being reduced to ash, some of the priceless artifacts and objects that were hidden away in the cathedral have been able to survive the ordeal; such as the crown of thorns, numerous pieces of art, the rose windows, the altar cross shown above and the iconic bells of Notre Dame. Once news of this broke out, I was strengthed to my core knowing God was indeed there.

It seems like such an oxymoron to see such a tragedy as a sign of hope, yet the Bible itself is full of those. The 7 plagues that tormented Eygpt, the Great Flood, and even the death of Christ as examples.

As children of Christ, we are told at a very young age to never question his plan. He is all knowing and has a way of making everything fall into place. God sensed that Catholics were in the midst of a troubling time and brought us this opportunity of a new beginning. The burning taking place during Holy Week can also be taken as perfect timing.

The whole premise of this week revolves around the death of Jesus at the hands of Pontius Pilate, yet miraculously returned three days later before joining Our Father in Heaven, the cathedral can very well do the same and return better than before.

It is a devastating loss but already we are seeing evidence of joyous aftermath. As I noted before, people from all walks of life are offering support and condolences to a faith they were scorning just a week prior. Priceless artifacts have miraculously been recovered and plans for rebuilding have already started. This is a sign of a new beginning, that God is backing us through it all.

Do not question His plan, just have faith. The rest will fall into place.

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Poetry On Odyssey: Why Humidity, Why?

Humidity why do you exist?


Humidity... Why?

Why are you here?

Why won't you leave?

Why humidity, why?

You are what causes my hair to get frizzy,

And you always keep my busy.

You cause my hands and face to get sticky,

And you don't forget to make my face oily.

You sometimes make people grouchy,

And make them shout at others loudly.

You make it hotter outside,

And even the fan does not cool one inside.

Because you can not take anymore water,

You make me be feel hotter.

Because you make me feel hotter,

I look worse than an otter.

So humidity,

Please stop existing,

And stop persisting.

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