My Only Resolution This New Year Is To Be Positive About The Days To Come

My Only Resolution This New Year Is To Be Positive About The Days To Come

So for those who believe that New Year's resolutions are ineffective and a waste of time, I can understand why you would think so. But honestly, they're helpful.

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It's that time of year again — New Year's. The time everyone overestimates just how good they can be next year and how much they can change and better themselves. Or the time that people actually work on themselves and set goals that they manage to achieve through the year. I've always loved New Year's and have always celebrated by staying up to watch the ball drop and by making a list of resolutions I was always hopeful to fulfill.

Every year, I'm super enthusiastic to make a well thought out list of everything I want to achieve the coming year. Granted, I never follow through with the whole list. At most, I accomplish a few of the goals and give up on the rest partially through the year. Either way, it was something I looked forward to at the end of every year. It was what made me motivated and kept me positive for the next year.

However, this year was different. I'm not too sure why, but it didn't feel the same this year. Winter this year didn't quite feel like winter, Christmas didn't feel like Christmas, and I didn't feel like celebrating New Year's. I didn't even stay up till midnight this time.

I guess it has something to do with how I felt in general this year. I've had my ups and downs this year and at some points felt much more negative than I usually did. And I guess that negativity continued into 2019. So instead of setting out goals and motivating myself, I let myself stay unmotivated and never ended up coming up with any resolutions for 2019. And so far, that's what my 2019 has been — unmotivated.

After thinking about it, I realized that I shouldn't have just let myself go into the new year like that. One of the most important things is to stay positive and inspired to do great things and make the best out of the time you have. The worst thing I could do to myself is letting myself not care about it being a new year. Because it really is important.

As ridiculous as everyone makes the new year seem with resolutions everyone knows they won't keep, in my opinion, it's not completely crazy. From what I see, resolutions do more good than anything, right? For me, they aren't made to be accomplished. The point of resolutions is to keep us trying, to keep our spirits up and keep us working on ourselves. We don't have to always accomplish things, but we should always try to be better.

So for those who believe that New Year's resolutions are ineffective and a waste of time, I can understand why you would think so. But honestly, they're helpful.

This is the first year I've gone in without any, and it already feels like I've been so unproductive. So instead, I'm making my new resolution to be more happy and positive for the year to come and to strive to do the best I can do. I believe any resolution can help improve our lives in the smallest ways, and it should be something I always keep. They keep us excited and give us a reason to do what we do. If nothing else, the satisfaction that we get from accomplishing even a little task makes us proud and motivated to do more and accomplish more in our lives.

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Somehow, I Ended Up With The Best Roommate Known To Man

I've truly been blessed.

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College can be a very stressful experience to prepare for. From orientation to selecting your classes for the semester, your responsibilities quickly pile up. On top of all that, you also have to find somebody who you will be sharing a room with for your first year of college.

After not sharing a room with my sister for several years, I was worried about going back to splitting a living space with someone else. Immediately after I finished submitting my application to finalize my commitment to Temple, the stress of finding a roommate sunk in. Rooms in the residential hall I wanted were filling up quickly, and I still didn't have a roommate.

I was trying to find a roommate, but everybody seemed to already have their living situation figured out. However, one day, I received a message from a girl named Tori. Little did I know, she would become my best friend. I saw her profile prior to on RoomSync, an app for finding roommates, so I was really excited when she messaged me.

We didn't meet until move-in day, which made me a little bit anxious, but right from the start, everything clicked. We have lots of similar interests and living standards. Even though our majors are totally different, hers being biology and mine is English, that didn't stop us from being friends and enjoy spending time with one another.

In just the first weekend, Tori discovered that I hadn't seen a lot of movies that I should have seen growing up. From that point on, she created a list of various movies, and every weekend we watched at least one movie together. I don't think she has shown me a movie that I haven't liked yet, and I'm so glad that we started this tradition.

On top of movies, Tori has also expanded my music taste, which is a very hard thing to do. I couldn't be happier that she introduced me to Dean Lewis and Noah Kahan and then persuaded me to go to their concert in October with her. In general, she has got me more into music and is increasing my knowledge about music overall.

As well as going to a concert together, we also recently went to see my favorite Youtubers when they came to Philly. When we found out that Cody Ko and Noel Miller were going on a comedy tour and coming to our city, we immediately planned to buy tickets. It was a night full of laughs, and I'm so happy I got to spend it with her.

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Having a random roommate who is also your best friend is rare. I've heard a lot of horror stories about random roommates, but I honestly can't picture not being friends with Tori. Along with being an amazing roommate, she is incredibly selfless and caring. Her focus is always on helping people, and I admire her for all the hard work she puts into everything she does.

Being surrounded by people in the College of Science and Technology, I know it isn't easy. Because I have a strong dislike of science, I give major props to Tori and her friends in CST. I'm so happy she is studying something she's truly passionate about and will love doing in her future career. Whenever I meet people that want to pursue a career in science or the medical field, I immediately give them immense credit. It's extremely difficult to take that career path, and I'm already excited for Tori and her ultimate success.

College is a time for making new friends that will last even after you stop going to school together. Even though I'm only in my second semester, I know I can trust Tori with anything, and she'll be there for me when I need her. I also know that she'll be 100% honest with me when I need guidance or advice.

I cannot even begin to express my gratitude to Tori for messaging me to room with her. My college experience has been incredibly positive thus far because she has been with me through it all. I'm extremely grateful for the way things worked out because I couldn't have asked for a kinder roomie.

Thank you, Tori, for not just being an incredible person and roommate, but my best friend as well.

P.S. I can't wait to bake with you in our apartment together next semester!

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'The Great Gatsby' Is More Than Just Another Love Story, It's Fitzgerald's Way Of Teaching Us A Timeless Life Lesson

Universally known as a forced read for high schoolers, we forget this book is so much more than paper and ink.

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"The Great Gatsby" is the epitome of the highlights of the 20s: the massive parties, the extravagant wear and abundance of illegal alcohol. A book set within the midst of celebration, F. Scott Fitzgerald's novel portrays Jay Gatsby as nothing more than living the American dream: a life of luxury and a constant, unlimited party. However, as soon as we realize Gatsby's success, we're sucked into a whirlwind of issues coming with being rich, most importantly one Gatsby most struggles with: finding love.

We soon find that what Gatsby most struggles with his letting go of the past: he stuck in a time warp before the war began, when he served as a soldier, where he lived a happy life because he fell in love with Daisy. As quickly as their love formed is as quick as it fell to ruin. In Gatsby's absence, Daisy grew tired of waiting and fell to Tom, another rich man who consistently cheats on her with other women. Undeserving, Gatsby spends the remainder of the book and his life chasing after Daisy in hopes of reviving the past, their love and finding happiness.

If you've ever taken a language arts class, you know metaphors are an author's best friend. As you can most likely assume, Fitzgerald uses Daisy as a metaphor for the American dream: the white picket fences, steady job, family and overall contentment with life. Gatsby fell in love with Daisy and chased her until death: caused on her behalf as well, even after their break and her marriage. Through trying to bring back the past and continue his obscured view of Daisy, his obscured view on life, Gatsby fell into the trap, leading to his ultimate disappointment and failure to attain the American dream.

So what is Fitzgerald saying? What was the message high school language arts teachers across the country trying to teach us?

Through Gatsby and his futile attempts to control the past, we learn the truth: no one can change the past as well as the true feelings one holds in their heart. As humans, we hold the tendency to chase after smoke and mirrors — impossible thoughts and expectations because it is what we believe to hold true. More specifically, we are all given life and liberty, but it is the pursuit of happiness that separates us all because it is a separate journey; no two people can share the same pathway to happiness. It's what Gatsby failed to learn: in his attempts to live a lavish style to match that of Tom's, he died without ever attaining true happiness.

Tangentially, Fitzgerald points to the truth of the maxim that money can't buy happiness: when it comes to loss, love and other strong emotions, they can not be bought, only felt. By trying to buy Daisy's love, Gatsby created his own false identity, forgetting to look into himself and instead pouring himself into others with his massive parties, his name and fame. It's why in the end, no one came to Gatsby's funeral. No relationships were made; he was only harvested by others around him.

To be truly happy is a concept that has no dollar value, has no correct path and no predicted end. It's a step in life, one that we can only take personally and reap the benefits of.

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