Hey, Brad, Please Don't Comment On Women's Clothing Choices, Thank Yooouuu
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Hey, Brad, Please Don't Comment On Women's Clothing Choices, Thank Yooouuu

A woman's worth cannot be judged by her clothing.

Hey, Brad, Please Don't Comment On Women's Clothing Choices, Thank Yooouuu

Spring break is behind us, and the warmer summer-like weather will be here before we know it! So let’s dive into one of my favorite rants: women should not be judged on their clothing!

Summer is my favorite season because of long days, high temperatures, tans, and an excessive amount of ice cream; however, a great day can quickly be transformed when someone makes an offhand comment about your clothing choices. If you went to public school like me, you probably know about the fingertip rule on shorts, as well as the three finger rule about tank tops. Society is so concerned about what women wear as the seasons change.

I just have to ask, “Why?”

Why is it a thing, making a girl feel insecure about her body by calling it a distraction? The fact is that it is going to be hot outside. I personally don't feel like wearing extra layers of clothing just so I can sweat the moment I walk outside so that someone else does not get offended by my shoulders. A comment I seem to hear incessantly is “I don’t think she should be wearing that” referring to people who are not built like a stick trying to be comfortable in the heat.

I’m sorry, Brad, if your expectations of how you think people should dress are not being met. The fact is that many people do not resemble sticks and they are slaying their outfits while remaining comfortable.

Here is another quick thought; most women do not enjoy being catcalled! I know that this is super surprising news to the men of today, but your attention is not wanted!

There is no reason why a woman should get negative attention for her clothing choices as she is minding her own business.

She probably didn’t pick out her outfit this morning just so you could shoot some derogatory terms at her as she walks down the street, Brad.

She is dressing for herself because she feels confident, which is how all of these women should feel everyday. Calling attention to a woman’s body, no matter your intention can make them feel self conscious and I don’t think anyone would like to hear a comment negative comment about what they’re wearing when they can’t change it.

The bottom line is, if you wouldn’t want it said about you, why would you say it about someone else? Be nice this year everyone, you’d be surprised at how easy it is.

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