What It's Like Planning A Wedding In College

Planning A Wedding In College Has Been The Most Stressful And Exciting Time Of My Life

Yes, it can be extremely stressful, but these are once-in-a-lifetime experiences.


College is known as a stressful time for most people. Between deciding on a major and taking the dreaded math courses it can cause a person to question their sanity. Wedding planning is also known for its stress-inducing nature. Budgeting, picking out colors, and choosing the perfect dress is all one hectic ride.

Now, picture both of these factors colliding together to create the ultimate emotional rollercoaster that I am so thankful to be on.

When I was a junior in college, my best friend and love of my life asked me to marry him. Of course, I was beyond thrilled, but we made a deal to wait until I graduated to get married, so I put the excitement of planning our big day on hold until closer to time. Well, now I am a Senior approaching the last semester in my college adventure and its time to start planning our wedding.

Between searching for the perfect internship and the perfect venue I have experienced a vast array of emotion. I feel constantly stressed, but at the same time euphoric. Often I feel that I should I pinch myself to see if this is real. I've worked so hard for my degree and I have faced so many obstacles, but the man I am going to marry has been with me through it all and it makes it that much sweeter.

Through the worrying over midterms, finals, and research papers, to obsessing over the bridesmaid dress colors, I just have to keep reminding myself that this is such a wonderful time in my life. Finishing up a degree I have worked so hard for and planning the most special day for me and the one I love is something I should find joy in daily. Yes, it can be extremely stressful, but these are once-in-a-lifetime experiences that I should enjoy every second of.

I am grateful to get to experience the stress of graduating from an excellent university and planning a wedding with my better half.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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I Don't Know Who My Groom Is Yet But I Have The Perfect Bridesmaids

I that makes me feel really special.


Something I've dreamed about for most of my life is my wedding day. I've made books and had PowerPoints with all my plans since I was like eight. I don't know if I thought I'd be married by now, or anytime soon. But I definitely don't think I had any idea how hard finding a husband would be.

Truthfully, I'm not even close. People I know are married already, or they at least feel like they could be with who they're currently with.

And whether I feel like I'm ready for that part of my life or not, it's not time. I just have to trust the process. I'm not in a place mentally or physically to have a guy at my side. I've got a few more trips around the sun I need to make on my own.

But that doesn't mean I'm unhappy with that, because I'm checking boxes off my age-old wedding checklist as I go along. I might have to save the husband best for last. The bride will still be moving forward until the day comes. With her perfect potential bridesmaids in tow.

The friends I have now made my wait that much sweeter. They've shown me what love is like, and through them, I've learned how to love people like family. They've shown me that I can be loved by people who don't have to love me and that that's something I deserve. Even on my roughest days.

My friends have seen every side of me. The goofy side, the side of me running low on patience AND caffeine, and the side that can talk for hours about things no one would ever care about. There have been long nights and early mornings. Stupid fights where I was probably in the wrong. Times I couldn't stop laughing and times where I've ugly-cried for hours. There's been distance and probably too much time being too close to one another.

Through it all, they've still chosen to stick around, proving that people do.

They are why, when the time comes, I'll do a great job at holding someone's heart. And why I'll be extra selective when picking the person who I want holding mine. They were the people who took care of me and gave me love and attention. .

I know how lucky I am and would never take it for granted. I know some people find their husbands first and then don't think they need to perfect set of friends to be bridesmaids. So they'll shove some cousins in ugly dresses and call it a day. But those bridesmaids are essential. They're the ones who will literally be on your side at the wedding, and then through every little, metaphorical thing after that.

And that's how I know the friends I've so thoughtfully picked will one day be my bridesmaids. I won't be more confident with any decision I make until I say "I do."

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