To The Person Who Doesn't Think They're Good At Anything

To The Person Who Doesn't Think They're Good At Anything

Because nothing hurts more than giving life your best shot and still somehow falling short.

To the person who doesn’t think they’re good at anything,

First off, you can do anything you set your mind to. I know that might seem unrealistic, but if someone told me I could run a mile, I’d probably respond by saying “Hell no.” It doesn’t mean that I couldn’t actually do it, I just haven’t set my mind to doing it. I know how it feels to never win anything, to never be on varsity anything, and what it’s like to never be seen as successful or powerful, but rather just someone who likes to have fun.

I struggled with this a lot when entering college, especially during my first few months. At first, a lot of the people that I met assumed that I was dumb, which I have never been referred to as for my whole life. I may be many things, but dumb was not one of them. I started questioning why I was never perceived as “Most Likely To Be Successful” and was instead always something that had very little impact. I began confusing myself with who others were perceiving me as, which caused me to question my identity.

I am not dumb. I am not an airhead. I am not weak. I am not "just a pretty face."

I am smart. I am brilliant. I am powerful. I am much more than what I seem, and it took being called all those names to finally realize who I really was.

People are allowed to have perceptions and first impressions; after all, it’s human nature to make assumptions about others when getting to know them. People are also allowed to be wrong about you. However, do not allow others perceptions to change how you view yourself. That’s their opinion, not yours.

If you find yourself questioning what you’re good at, ask someone who really knows you. Just because one person’s inability to see what you’re good at, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist.


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County Fairs Are Still Important

There's more to fairs than just fried food and Ferris wheels.

Like many people, I used to have the same thoughts, "Oh it's just a county fair." However, this year was the first time in eleven years I stepped foot on to the Rock Island County Fairgrounds with out any animals or other 4-H projects to exhibit. Instead, I spent the week watching from an entirely new perspective that gave me a whole new appreciation for what I used to consider "just a county fair".

More and more, society has begun to question the relevance and value of a county fair when less than 2 percent of the population is actively involved in production agriculture. This question alone proves to me that county fairs are more important than ever. Fairs and livestock exhibitions are the foundation for agriculture promotion in our society and, as our population continues to shift to a more urban demographic, it is the responsibility of a county fair to remind the public of the key role that agriculture, and rural communities, will continue to play in our economy and daily lives.

Fairs not only promote agriculture, but also supply jobs; support rural economic development and local commerce; and provide opportunities for youth and adult education. The success of a fair is dependent on its volunteers and youth through programs like 4-H, whether they’re exhibiting livestock, crops and clothing or newer projects like film making. Speaking from my own personal experience, I am so thankful for the opportunity to show livestock at the fair.

My experiences aided in providing me with hands-on learning about the realities of food production as well as gaining major life skills such as communication and responsibility that molded me into a well functioning member of society.

Many years ago, a simple gathering for commodity trade began as a way to bring friends and neighbors together to showcase hard work and effort. These things still matter. Fairs are the connecting point of the people and products that showcase our heritage. I wholeheartedly believe in fairs and what they can do for a community and even the participants.

I encourage everyone to take time this summer to visit your local county or state fair. Take a stroll through the barns, strike up a conversation with a young exhibitor about his, or her, project. Watch the 4-H auction, maybe bid on an animal, and see how the hard work put in by the owner truly pays off. Experience a demolition derby, a concert, or play some carnival games with your family. Whether you are lifetime attendee or have never set foot on a fairgrounds, now is the best time to get involved in one of our countries oldest traditions- you will not regret it.

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In The Words Of Casting Crowns, My Life Will Be For 'Only Jesus'

"Only Jesus" by Casting Crowns has inspired me to live my life for Jesus.


When I watch the music video for Casting Crowns "Only Jesus" I am reminded of the reason why we are on this earth, alive, breathing air through our lungs, our hearts beating, and time going on and on.

We are on this earth, not to seek our own glory, our own accolades, and our own selfish greed, but to know God, love God, and to make Him known in this world, through sharing how God's son Jesus has set us free from our sinful lives and has resurrected us spiritually.

At the beginning of the video, we see Mark Hall, the lead singer of Casting Crowns, driving down a road, eventually driving into a junkyard. The junkyard is both a setting for the music video and an allegory. The junkyard is allegorical to show that everything we obtain in this world, both material things and in achieving our own selfish pursuits of self-glory, self-pride, and self-adulation, will one day rot away and decay into nothingness.

No one will remember you in 500 years when you are dead and gone. The only exception to this is if you do something spectacular with your life that makes you famous. Only then will people remember what you did, not the person that you really was.

But living for Jesus and dedicating our lives to the "good fight" is the everlasting legacy we should pass on.

We should be remembered how we dedicated every minute of our lives being fishers of men for Jesus. When Christian men and women live this way, their children learn about God's love, which in turn causes them to surrender their lives to God, then passing God's love to their children, repeating this infinite loop of love for all time until Jesus comes back. Only Jesus is eternal. Only His love is eternal.

So when I die, "I don't want to leave a legacy. I don't care if they remember me, only Jesus."

Because my Lord Jesus Christ, God the Father, and the Holy Spirit is the only thing that matters.

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