Dear little girl,
I know things are about to change for you, and soon you're going to be a big sister to another baby. You're going to be the oldest of three and it's going to be a big responsibility. You are not only going to be a big sister, but also, a role model. Big responsibilities for a five year old, but I believe in you, and you got this.
Since you're only five, I'm not sure of how much of this open letter will resonate with you, but let's hope mom and dad try to explain my words to you the best that they can.
I never got to be the older sibling, your dad got that job, so you have a big shoes to fill. You have to make a good example of yourself for your siblings, because whether you like it or not they're going to look up to you in one way or another. I know I always looked up to your dad.
I know I'm not always the best role model and occasionally I'll accidentally slip up and swear in front of you, but I hope you remember the lessons we've all tried to teach you. Don't let my slip ups over power the lessons.
Always have compassion for others, and try to understand them before making any quick judgments. I know you're going to get frustrated sometimes with all of us, but we're always looking out for you. So when something makes you upset, I hope you can find a better way to handle it than most of us, and when you see other's upset, I hope you comfort them like we try to do for you.
I hope you try to connect with the family as much as you can. That's sort of been my role growing up is trying to make sure everyone is spending time with each other, so I hope you have learned from this. I hope when I'm too busy and focused on too many different things, and everyone is sprawled out, that you will try to bring us all back together, even if it's just for a quick meal.
Don't ever let anyone discourage you of what you want to do. You're such a happy little kid and I hope you don't lose that childhood wonder anytime soon. Keep smiling and keep trying everything, and find what you're passionate about. I don't care if someone tells you it's not a realistic career goal. Do what makes you happy. Also, it's okay to change what makes you happy too.
I know I moan and groan to you all the time about my love life and boys, but when you're growing up, fall in love. I think falling in love and learning about your likes and dislikes is important. I think having your heart broken teaches you something, and I even think being boy crazy is important. Learn about what you want from a guy and NEVER accept anything less. I know it may seem like my heart is hurting 99 percent of the time from boys, but don't let me heartbreak scare you. However, be smart with your body, you'll know what I mean by this one day.
I'll keep this short because there is only so much that I can explain to you right now, but I hope you keep on loving everyone, keep on smiling, and keep on being as happy as you can. You're going to be a great big sister to your siblings, and you're going to make all of us very proud. Don't ever give up. I love you.
Your weird aunt,
Maya
