Dear little sister of mine,
Watching you grow has been one of the best experiences of my life, and I just wish you could see yourself through my eyes. You have grown to be so smart. I am actually terrified that one day you will win an argument (maybe). You have grown to be so tall. I am actually terrified that one day you will outgrow me. You have grown to be so mature. I am pretty sure you are already more mature than I am, and yes, that terrifies me.
You're at the stage in your life where you are still learning who you are (aren't we all?), and I don't know anyone who could do so with such grace and confidence. Since I have paved the way for you with most things in life (you're welcome), you have somehow avoided the awkward stage. While I am a little bitter that I had to learn most things firsthand (black eyeliner under your eyes is a NO), I am beyond happy that I am able to share my knowledge and guidance with you.
As a baby, you were my entertainment and an important lesson that not everything revolved around me (bummer). As a child, you were my little doll that I was able to dress up and take on adventures. As a teen, no matter our age difference, you became my best friend. The sharing of knowledge became a two-way street as you introduced me to new music, fashion and hobbies. Is it sad to say that you actually taught me how to apply bronzer?
What I am trying to say is, the day you were born was the best day of my life. And yes, on the first day of classes when the information sheets are passed around, that is actually what I write. A life without you would be so dull and lonely. Who else would stay up all night with me geeking over our favorite band? Who else would tell me the utmost honest truth about absolutely every outfit that I try on? Who else would I tease Mom and Dad with until I am laughing so hard my sides hurt?
Being an older sister has its responsibilities, but with a little sister like you it's (mostly) easy. Yes, you are a terrible grump when you are tired, and dragging you out of bed could be an Olympic sport. You have your opinions and trying to change your mind is like trying to change scientific law. You, my dear, are stubborn. But, despite it all, I wouldn't change a thing.
I don't have to work as hard to be a good example when, after all, you are going to do what you want regardless of what I did. You are going to act how you want to act regardless of how I do. You, my dear, are your own person. It makes my job a little easier.
We aren't able to choose our family, but if we could, I would choose you in a second. No questions asked.
