I have been judged. I have been singled out. I have been questioned.
Growing up in a fortunate household was definitely a blessing. I was taken care of, I always had the things I needed, and I was truly blessed with a wonderful life. From the time I was a young girl leading up to my adult years, I always focused on helping those less fortunate than me.
Giving back to others is a wonderful act of kindness, and I feel that if you can afford to help others, you should. The process of starting a world movement is to be the start of the change. The smallest gestures can mean the most.
When I arrived at college, five hours away from home, I knew that many people came from different backgrounds and upbringings than me. But what I didn't know was that I was going to be judged for the way I grew up.
Just because my family was fortunate, it does not mean I should be judged differently. I should be able to wear the clothes I want with no question. I should be able to walk into a room and share my story without a negative response. I should be able to feel proud of the example my parents set for our lives. I should be able to be ME.
Just because my family was fortunate, it does not mean I should be judged differently. I give back to the community. I work for the extra things I buy myself. I learn to save money and spend wisely from my two role models. I thank God every day for the life I received.
Now, you are probably thinking, "Why is she writing about this topic?" But hey, I just want those who may judge me for the way I grew up to understand who I really am, despite how I grew up. My family is always looking out for those in need and we help people each and every day.
I have worked since I was 15. I have given back to families in need since I was born. I have guided friends in the right direction financially. I have supported those in need. I have given my heart to many. I want the world to be a kind place. Whether rich or poor, everyone deserves to live the life they want to live. Remember, you never know what someone next to you in the store is going through. You don't really know someone until you take the time to listen. Let's be the change.
I want those who need a role model to be able to reach out to me for assistance or advice. I want to put smiles on many people's faces.
