I’ve been conditioned ever since middle school to not expect a social life because I always keep myself so busy. I’m a theatre major at Radford University, and this has been arguably one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself, however, that’s not to say that it’s been easy for me, as some people believe my major is.

For instance, I’ve been cast in a few shows here, and these shows have been easily some of the most amazing experiences I’ve ever had in my life, but it was definitely not easy.

One part of this, is that I still take as many classes as everyone else. I’m taking all of my required classes along with my major requirements. So I’m still focusing severely on my grades

Secondly, there is the rehearsal aspect. Every night for about 3-4 hours there would be rehearsals for the show that you’re in. Then you have to memorize your lines as well, which also takes a considerable amount of time.

Thirdly, there are the performances. No matter what has been going on in your life that day, you need to put it all aside so that you can perform the best you can so that the audience gets a quality piece of theatre.

Many people ask me why I don’t go out that much, or why I’d rather stay in sometimes. To be honest, I try to just meditate on the blessings I have in my life, and I know that this impacts my very little social life, but it’s just what is right for me as a person. Some people greatly thrive from being social all the time, and while I’m like that sometimes too, it’s not a regular occurance unless I know that I haven’t anything super important coming up for me.

It’s okay to be invested in your work.