Going Back Home For Break Is A Lot Of Missing Your College Friends

Going Back Home For Break Is A Lot Of Missing Your College Friends

And coming back to college means missing your high school friends.

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Being a college student is a weird limbo of being an adult but not really, not completely. I mean, yes, you have freedom but also you are living in the bubble of college life. It is hard to comprehend that there is another life out there, where you need to pay bills and work full time and not take classes that stress you out completely.

Another part of being in college is missing your friends and family back home and it's a familiar feeling that settles underneath your skin and becomes a part of who you are. There is no question of are you missing them. You are constantly missing them and that's who you are now: a UCLA undergraduate student who misses her friends and family back home. And the food, oh god, the food.

But it's ok, you learn to live with it.

The weird thing is missing your college friends.

I mean, it's not weird because they are amazing and obviously you miss being near them, but the fact that most college friendships were forged and continued during high-stress situations and I thought that missing them would, even if it is true nonetheless, be lessened if I am not under that stress.

I was wrong.

I forgot that college isn't just classes and clubs and dumb responsibilities that give way too much stress than they should. College is also about forging bonds and realizing who you are and making a friend circle who knows your college self: a person who wears way too many sweatpants and never does laundry until absolutely necessary and stresses a lot.

Really way too many sweatpants. My Dubai self is terrified of the attire I choose to show up to classes in and frankly, my Dubai self is right but does my college self-care? Nope.

Coming back to the topic at hand, college is about meeting people who are as stressed as you and bonding because of it but staying bonded because you realize being around them makes you less stressed.

So, this is to my college friends, I miss you and I can't wait to see you again.

To my high school friends? I miss you terribly. I can't wait to see you again.

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8 Things You Should Never Say To An Education Major

"Is your homework just a bunch of coloring?"
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Yes, I'm an Education major, and yes, I love it. Your opinion of the field won't change my mind about my future. If you ever happen to come across an Education major, make sure you steer clear of saying these things, or they might hold you in from recess.

1. "Is your homework just a bunch of coloring?"

Um, no, it's not. We write countless lesson plans and units, match standards and objectives, organize activities, differentiate for our students, study educational theories and principles, and write an insane amount of papers on top of all of that. Sometimes we do get to color though and I won't complain about that.

2. "Your major is so easy."

See above. Also, does anyone else pay tuition to have a full-time job during their last semester of college?

3. "It's not fair that you get summers off."

Are you jealous? Honestly though, we won't really get summers off. We'll probably have to find a second job during the summer, we'll need to keep planning, prepping our classroom, and organizing to get ready for the new school year.

4. “That's a good starter job."

Are you serious..? I'm not in this temporarily. This is my career choice and I intend to stick with it and make a difference.

5. “That must be a lot of fun."

Yes, it definitely is fun, but it's also a lot of hard work. We don't play games all day.

6. “Those who can't, teach."

Just ugh. Where would you be without your teachers who taught you everything you know?

7. “So, you're basically a babysitter."

I don't just monitor students, I teach them.

8. “You won't make a lot of money."

Ah yes, I'm well aware, thanks for reminding me. Teachers don't teach because of the salary, they teach because they enjoy working with students and making a positive impact in their lives.

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No, A Colored Student Did Not 'Steal Your Spot,' They Worked Hard To Get Here

I keep hearing this ignorant question of, "How come illegal immigrants can get scholarships, but I can't?"

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Real talk, this whole "they're stealing our resources!" thing has to stop.

It ranges from welfare to acceptance letters into prestigious universities. People (and by people, I'm referring to those who identify as white) have made the assumption that they are having their opportunities stolen by people of color. That's ridiculous.

I love my university. I love the people at my university. However, when I sit in a classroom and look around at my colleagues, the majority of them are white. Of course, there are some classes that are filled with more people of color, but for the most part, they're predominantly white. So, let's say that out of a classroom of 30 students, only 7 identify as people of color.

In what world can somebody make the argument that those 7 students are stealing the spot of a white student? I don't think people realize how hard those 7 students had to work just to be in the same spot as their white counterparts.

Let me use my experience: I am a Latina woman who is attending university on a full-ride scholarship. I don't always tell people about this, because I don't feel like being asked, "wow, what did you do to get that?!" A lot. I keep hearing this ignorant question of, "How come illegal immigrants can get scholarships, but I can't?"

First off, those "illegal immigrants" you're bashing, don't even qualify for financial aid. They don't qualify for most scholarships, actually. Second, have you considered that maybe, that "illegal immigrant" worked hard in and outside of school to earn their scholarship? I received my full-ride scholarship on the basis of my GPA, but also because I am a lower-class woman of color and was selected because I am disproportionately affected by poverty and access to a quality education.

So, this scholarship was literally created because there is an understanding that minorities don't have the same access to education as our white counterparts. It's not a handout though, I had to work hard to get the money that I have now. When white students get scholarships, it's not a handout but when you're Latina like me, apparently it is.

This way of viewing minorities and their education is damaging, and further discourages these people from receiving a quality education. We didn't steal anybody's spot, we had to work to get where we are, twice as hard as our white colleagues that are not discriminated against on a daily basis.

Instead of tearing down students of color because you didn't get a scholarship, why not criticize the American education system instead? It's not our fault tuition is $40k a year, and we have no reason to apologize for existing in a space that is predominantly white.

To students of color: you worked hard to get where you are, and I am proud of you. To white students: I'm proud of you too. We all worked hard to get to where we are now, let's lift each other up, not put each other down.

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