#MeToo has been trending on social media for the past week. It's used to give a voice to survivors of sexual assault, violence and harassment, women and men alike. While there is a debate about whether or not it is empowering, it is uplifting for survivors like me to see other women come forward with their experiences. Many people are afraid to for various reasons, and to see that we're not alone is an enormous relief.
I have had experiences with sexual assault and harassment. While they make me be feel uncomfortable with, and distrusting of, everyone I first meet now, they also helped me become a stronger person and to power through life. #MeToo has shown that there are many brave women and men out there and that they feel comfortable enough to share their stories. None of us are alone. I'm lucky that I have a group of very close friends around me for support, most of whom are also survivors of sexual assault, violence or harassment. We all support each other because we know we are stronger than that, and we can do anything. What happened to us does not define us.
The ex who played mind games to make me agree to sleep with him.
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The boss who got drunk at work and backed me into a corner.
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The male customers who made inappropriate gestures and comments while I was on the clock.
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The faceless guys who take liberties on the dance floor at the club.
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No one is obligated to share their full stories, nor are they obligated to officially report them; but we believe you. #MeToo.