Memorial Day is obviously an important holiday to America. However, all too often I think people in general tend to assume we really understand what the day is about. Not putting very much thought into it. The truth is, other than war veterans or men or women currently in service, we have no idea what the experience was like.
So, why not ask a war veteran to get a better idea what we are really remembering and even celebrating.
Reverend Jerry Hopkins is a war veteran from the Korean war. He served three years of active combat, and seven of non-active. His brother, Jim, served 23 years, twice in Vietnam, as well as twice in Korea. He explained the war not as something he was forced to do, but his duty as an American.
“People do die, and sacrifice years of their lives.” Hopkins explained.
Both he and his brother survived their years of service as sergeant (Jerry) and master sergeant (Jim). Unfortunately, since then, Jim has passed away, but Hopkins continues to share his story.
“I found discipline for my life… and found comrades I would protect and never forget.”
He described how they went through hard times like any soldier does. Also that,
“War is terrible, but necessary.” Due to our sinful nature and desperate desire for greed and power. Using Jeremiah 17:9 – “The heart is deceitful above all things…” – to support this.
When asked how he feels on Memorial Day, his response was, “I feel good, I feel I did my duty, I am glad and proud to be part of such a great nation.”
He also spoke about how until recently, many people looked down on some veterans, particularly in the Vietnam war because of reasons for being sent there. Lately, however, these men have been honored for being willing to go serve, even when the reasons were not always clear. The dedication and sacrifice should still be recognized.
“Memorial day is a wonderful thing authorized by God,” Hopkins said. He believes soldiers have done a great service and he is proud to have been involved in the way that he was.
From my interview with him, who also happens to be my grandfather, I have learned so much more than I thought I could. Being born in a generation that has never really seen war, or had to be a part of it, I never quite comprehended what was being remembered and honored on the last Monday of May. Now, although I will never completely know what it was like, I have a new and better perspective as to what Memorial Day is all about. I can use my Grandfather’s life experiences to really appreciate this holiday each year.
So, To my Grandfather, along with all of those out there who served and are still serving…Thank you.
