Sisters are great. They are like this automatic, built in friend. That you kinda have to love, you may not get along with them all the time but you will always have each others backs. Big/little sisters are an extra closet, a person you can cry to and ask for advice, and no matter the age they will always teach you something. But they come with a lot of pressure. If you're a big sister, you have to look out for your baby sis. You have to give her the best advice, tell her whats up and how to get away with things. You have to make sure she is following in your foot steps... or not because you were kinda a bad kid. You also have to deal with her getting older, maybe even brattier, and teach her right from wrong almost. As your baby sis grows up, she will probably start trying to act more mature, and you'll laugh because she is 12 noticeably trying to act like she is 16. But you know that you acted that way yourself, so you don't judge much. No matter the age of your sister, you are always going to be compared to them. Like "why can't you be like your sister when she was that age" or "are you going to go to college and do this with your life like your sister". And your friends will always compare you to your sister, like wow you look just like or nothing like your sister, or you act just like her. Of course all of this I am assuming because I only have a younger sister, so she will probably hear a lot of this as she gets older. I am excited for my baby sis to get older and wiser, and I really hope she comes to me with the same questions I had when I was her age. I will always be her shoulder to cry on, her taxi, her friend, I will be whatever she needs me to be.
Sisters are important, and if you don't have a good relationship with your sister then talk it out. They are family and family is important. Just give her the shoes back or the shirt you took from her, say your sorry and move on, because you really don't want her to bang your husband one day and end up on Maury. Sisters will always be competition, but you can't compete with her while you're trying to get close with her. A sister is the best thing to have in this world, you'll look out of her and she will look out for you. Love your sisters, because ya never know..maybe they will get rich one day and take care of your broke butt. I love my baby sis and shout out to my sorority sistas who are practically family, we may not of grew up together but I am excited to make life-long memories with all of you!!!
