Lilly Pulitzer Girls Are Happier

Lilly Pulitzer Girls Are Happier

If you hate Lilly Pulitzer, you're doing life wrong.

“The Lilly Pulitzer brand essentially suggests the absolute worst a person can be: privileged to the bone while also being either so fearfully status-mongering or flat-out dull as to live without even seizing upon the beautiful freedom that privilege confers.” This is quote that I have recently come across bashing my all-time favorite brand: Lilly Pulitzer.

The author of this appalling and erroneous quote is under the impression that Lilly garments act as uniforms that forbid their wearers from thinking creatively. Each season, the brand comes out with new patterns, none of which resemble identical color combinations or patterns (sounds pretty creative to me). And, using the word “dull” describe a Lilly girl? The Lilly Pulitzer girl is on a permanent vacation, wearing resort apparel that emulates a passion for pink, parties, and prints. As a Lilly gal myself, I tend to always feel happier when wearing the bright colors. Have you ever seen a girl wearing a classic Lilly shift with a frown on her face? I think not.

In spring 2014, I attended my junior prom. My prom dress was a Lilly Pulitzer Delfina Maxi in “Feelin’ Groovy,” a multi-colored print inspired from long, elegant hostess dresses from Lilly’s early collections. It was an absolutely breathtaking dress. Well, at least I thought so. When my prom group and I gathered for pictures before the dance, someone said to me, “Lilly Pulitzer dresses are so try-hard preppy and are so expensive since some dresses aren't even attractive, it screams for attention.” Well, thanks. Prom Night = Ruined. Kidding. Although typically I would've felt insecure that someone criticized my prom dress, I didn’t care. People’s heads turned when their eyes caught sight of my dress’ bright pinks, blues, and magentas. My maxi’s bright colors and “groovy” pattern made me feel unstoppable.

You aren’t just buying a dress when you shop at Lilly, you're adopting a lifestyle. Lilly Pulitzer herself said in 2004, “Style isn't about what you wear, it’s about how you live.” When you walk around town in a light blue “You Gotta Regatta” skirt with colorful sailboats printed all over it, you are saying goodbye to a dreary fate and saying hello to a happier and more confident way of life. Wear you Lilly with pride, ladies. Don’t let the haters bring you down. And remember, “Life’s a party, dress like it.”

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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5 Inexpensive Websites For Summer Clothes

If you are looking to online shop for your summer closet, check out these stores.


Summer is here and so is a whole new category of fashion; high waisted swimsuits, mom jeans, graphic tees, chunky sneakers, and many more styles that have become popularized in 2019. If you are trying to save some money while keeping up with the latest fashion trends, online shopping on the right platforms is a great way to get the most bang for your buck!

Listed are the five most cost-effective online stores that each have their advantages and disadvantages so you can spruce up your summer lookbook. The best way to get the most clothing items on these online stores for the cheapest is to search for promotion codes online and take advantage of any email sign up deals, student discounts, and general sales they are currently promoting.

1. Zaful

If you are looking for a very cheap option so you can put the most in your cart, Zaful is your best bet. This store is stocked with everything under the sun including swimsuits, tops, bottoms, jewelry, shoes, hats, and more starting at 4.99. Zaful offers 15% off of your first order as well as free shipping for orders over $49, so you can fill your cart with more items than you think you are paying for.

2. Nasty Gal

Nasty Gal is a great store for quality items that will live a very long life in your closet. Although the prices seem high at first glance, the online platform has constant deals occurring such as their current 50% off everything sale as well as their 60% off everything for students sale. Nasty Gal is a great brand to build your closet essentials due to the great condition and material of their clothing items.

3. Pretty Little Thing

Pretty Little Thing is a great online store to shop for summer events because of their beautiful dresses and tops. I recommend purchasing occasion wear from this brand because a lot of their loungewear and regular items are overpriced for what they are worth. In the sale section of Pretty Little Thing, you can find many dresses and dress pants for over 55% off. If you are looking for a few fancier outfits for summer occasions, check out the sale section of Pretty Little Thing to get some nice looks for cheap.

4. Misguided

Misguided is an online store that has a unique vibe in the clothing they sell that is worth a browse because of their eccentric and fun styles. The platform has recurring sales that range from 25 to 50 percent off, which allows you to get twice the amount that you pay for. If your style includes graphic t-shirts, oversized t-shirt dresses, and good quality loungewear, Misguided offers great quality items with low prices to spruce up your summer outfit aesthetic.

5. Boohoo

If you love rocking matching sets and co-ords, look no further that Boohoo for the best patterns, styles, and prices. Boohoo usually has a 50% off sale going on, which goes a long way when you can purchase a matching two-piece set for as low as $20. Although Boohoo sells beauty products and accessories, their sets and outfits are the best items to get your money's worth in quality and quantity.

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