There are so many quotes about the letting go and not focusing on the past...
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.” -Bill Keane
“Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.” -Mother Teresa
“The present changes the past. Looking back you do not find what you left behind.” -Kiran Desai
There is truth to all of those. Despite that people still continuously linger and obsess over what happened in the past. People hold grudges. They worry about things that they said or things they have done. Something I do all the time is think about the past and what I could have done to change the outcome of certain things. "If I did this then this wouldn't have happened"
My eighteen years of life have taught me numerous lessons. One of the huge ones for me though is the fact that obsessing over the past is truly useless. Thinking about the past doesn't change what happened. Of course the past can teach valuable lessons and help us learn from our mistakes, but there comes a point where we need to just let. go.
No matter how many times I read over messages from the past, look at pictures from my old relationships, or replay past events in my mind what happened can not be changed. Thinking about the past doesn't make me feel better. It just prevents me from focusing on what is right in front of me.
Reminder: Don't look back. You're not going that way




















