An Open Letter To My Mom

An Open Letter To My Mom


Dear Mom,

Mom, I know I never say it enough, but thank you for everything that you do for me.

When I was little, and even as a twenty-one year old, I take you for granted. As a little girl, you were my first teacher. You taught me how to read and write, and read me bedtime stories (even though you would try and skip part or didn’t read it with voices or in song like dad I still appreciate that). You lead me to have a love of reading, which made me become the writer I am today.

I am grateful that you got to watch me grow up. You stayed at home when I was a kid, went to classes at night, and eventually worked as the secretary in my elementary school. Sure, we had a babysitter every now and then, but you and dad were always there. Throughout all those years, between the three of us kids were different club activities and sporting events. Since I was little you were at each and every event dance rehearsal, basketball game, softball game, anything you name it, and you would be there not only cheering me on, but the whole team. For this, I am extremely thankful because not everyone’s parents were always at the game. It changed a little when I entered high school depending on when or where a game was scheduled, or if Sean or Allison had something they had to be at, but there was always a text before and after the game, and millions of questions from both you and dad wanting to know every detail.

I want to say thank you for allowing me to be myself, to find my own path, and play the sports I wanted to. I know that playing all the sports I played and the added sports of the other two goofballs added up and was expensive, but in the end you only cared about our happiness and I know some aren’t that lucky. So, thank you for that because through sports I also learned about life.

Thank you for showing me nursing. I remember those late nights at kitchen table when you would make me “tests” for me to study from and then you would study your own stuff. At that time, I didn’t understand what studying for nursing was like and I honestly don’t know how you did it. Keeping track of me, studying for anatomy and such, could not have been easy. Now that I’m in college majoring in nursing, I am even more grateful. Both you and dad taught me that hard work in life will pay off and I am lucky enough to have had that drilled in my head as a kid because it got me where I am today. I worked hard and got to go to my number one choice for college and I couldn’t have done it without you. Don’t worry, once my hard work has paid off, you will be paid back.

I also want to say thank you for calming me down when I am panicking about a test or class. You always bring me back down to a place of some sanity and say that I can do it and I just have to breathe. You also remind me that at times I am too hard on myself and that, yea, grades aren’t always perfect and that as long as I put in the effort and tried my hardest that’s all that matters. This probably means the most because I always put so much pressure on myself and feel so down when I don’t do as well as I thought, but knowing that it's okay to hit these rough patches is okay. Do I still get nervous and upset and call you? Yes, but hearing you say it just makes me feel better.

There is so much more I am thankful for, but this could go on forever. Mom this whole letter can be summed up in 5 words. Thank you, I love you.

Love always,

Your Thankful Daughter

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You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

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To The Dad Who Works Out Of Town, Thank You For All You Do

Thank you for everything you do, I wouldn't have the things I do if it wasn't for you.


I want to say Thank you. Thank you for sleeping in hotel beds every night. Thank you for eating sandwiches some days for lunch while I ate my pizza Lunchables in my brand new Hello Kitty lunchbox.

Thank you for taking your truck with no cruise control some weeks for work because I wanted to drive your car. I'm sure driving for four hours straight with your foot on the pedal was pretty boring. Thank you for filling up the car before you let me drive it as well.

Thank you for waking up at 3 and 4 a.m. to head out of town to work and being so quiet while doing so. Thank you for adding lunch money to my account while you're over 100 miles away. Thank you for working sometimes 10-14 days straight without a day off. I can never thank you enough for what you do.

Thank you for filling my truck up in high school every Sunday night before you left for work. Thank you for spending your lunch breaks calling and making orthodontist appointments for me. Thank you for taking days off work to take me to some of these appointments. Thank you for always fitting me in.

While being out of town can make you feel like an absent parent, I promise you are not that. You always make sure to call me during the week. If I'm sick and didn't go to class, you call and check on me. You even call and remind me of things I need to get done like returning my rental book.

If it wasn't for you working out of town, I wouldn't have the luxuries I do now. I want you to know I am thankful for you.

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