A Letter To My Best Friend

A Letter To My Best Friend

Thank you for being my rock, my person, and my best friend.
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Dear Best Friend,

Have you ever had the gut-wrenching feeling after a mistake or an unfortunate event? Have you ever done something that made you feel like you won the lottery? And all of the other feelings in between? Have you? Well of course you have—you are human! When I have those moments, there is always one person I turn to. That one person happens to be you. Many people want someone dependable who will be there when the sun rises and sets. Many people hope to click with a person for all of those scary movies, late night snack runs, or the silly jokes that make you laugh until you cry. I understand it completely, because I have you. I have you to goof around with, talk about classes with, and honestly talk about everything and anything.

Through experience, I have realized even the shortest of friendships can outshine the longest ones. One can be friends with a person for seven years, but find a more compatible friend in six months. In the short time, I have developed trust, created memories, and formed a goofy friendship with you. The trust and loyalty I feel from our relationship is one similar to that of one formed for over a decade or more. It amazes me how I found someone who accepts me for me. You can make me laugh like no other friend and that is another reason why I can genuinely call you my best friend.

With the distance we have between us, it is inevitable we come across times when we feel more distant and unconnected. However, I know that it is only a little bump in the road. When we see each other over break or pick up the phone to call, it will be as if we never stopped. I do not vocalize how much I appreciate you and all that you do for me. You leave me snacks when I am grumpy and need to study, hype me up to be the crazy girl I am, and give me honest opinions or advice on any situation. I love you best friend! Thank you for being my rock, my person, and my best friend.

Yours truly,

Your Best Friend

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Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

SEE ALSO: To The Girls Who Float Between Friend Groups

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We all have lives that we're trying to balance.

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For as long as I can remember, whenever I would have no plans and go on Snapchat to see all my friends having fun without me, I would get FOMO. I'd get really sad and think that they didn't care about me because they didn't invite me. It would get me in such a bad mood that it would ruin any chance of going out with someone else who wanted to hang out.

I don't know if it was just my anxiety of people hating me or if it was a fear of missing out (FOMO). Even recently, it has gotten me down. However, over the past month or so, I finally realized something: you don't have to hang out every day to still consider each other friends.

Everyone has a life that they're trying to balance, especially after high school. People work (maybe even more than one job) and go to school. Some have to take care of family members or do things for their family. Some people are focusing on themselves. Some have relationships to maintain. Whatever it is, we all have lives that we're trying to balance.

We all want to have fun, but school, work, and our families are the priorities.

Even if they're out hanging with other people, it doesn't mean that they don't want to hang out with you. Free time is served on a "first come, first serve" basis. It's hard to balance hanging out with multiple people.

I also learned that it doesn't matter the number of friends you have. What truly matters is the quality. Ask yourself, "Who's there for me when I really need someone?" The people who are there for you when you really need someone to talk to are your TRUE friends.

It's not easy to be there for someone and make them feel better. If they offer to listen or give advice, they care!

I know that it may feel like you have no friends sometimes, but that's not true. Life after high school is hard at times. You're an adult. You have to do adult things and take care of yourself first.

You have to realize that everyone has a busy schedule and not all your friends' schedules will align with yours, but that's okay! You don't need to hang out with friends every day to consider them your friends. What truly matters is if they are there for you when you need them.

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