Our parents and teachers tell us many things while we're young. Some things stick, others don't. However, there are things that we must hold onto in order to live humble, fulfilling lives. They may seem cliché, but many people in society today need a refresher on these words of wisdom that we absorb in our early years.
1. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
We all know it: The Golden Rule. In order to be treated kindly and fairly, we must also treat others with kindness and fairness. Respect is earned, not given. We must remember to treat everyone with love and respect - especially on social media. It's OK to disagree with people and have different opinions, but it's not OK to expect to be treated with kindness when we are being hateful toward others.
2. Sharing is caring.
Although we most likely heard these words for the first time when trying to hoard crayons and toys in kindergarten, this is an important lesson to hold onto our entire lives. We must remember to stay humble and not do things with only ourselves in mind. Share your love, wealth and experiences with those around you.
3. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.
This one is self-explanatory, but it's also so important. Silence is better than hatred. Having an opinion is one thing, but saying things to intentionally hurt others is despicable and cowardly behavior.
4. Honesty is the best policy.
We all tell white lies, whether it's out of shame, to protect the feelings of others or any other personal reasons. However, as children, we are taught that honesty is the best policy, and even in complicated adult life, it still rings true. Telling the truth is always the best option and will ensure that those you love will trust you for life.
5. Dream big.
This was something I was always told as a child but didn't really start listening to until recently. When I first came to college, I was focused on meeting new people and making lifelong memories, rather than reaching my goals and making my "dreams come true." However, now that my college career is coming to a close, I have been seizing every opportunity and dreaming as big as I can for the future, and it feels amazing.
6. Don't be afraid to ask questions.
If there's one thing that has opened countless doors for me, it's not being afraid to ask questions. Don't be afraid to admit that you don't know something. People don't know anything until they ask and learn about it. Make connections with others in your field that are experienced and ask them to teach you things they think you should know. Not only will you learn something, but it shows that you care.
7. Don't take people for granted.
In my opinion, one of the most important lessons in life is to appreciate those who love you. Good friends are hard to come by, and many of us learn this the hard way. Losing someone who truly cares about you is devastating, and good relationships can be impossible to replace. Make sure to always tell your friends, family and peers that you love and appreciate them before it's too late.
8. It's OK to make mistakes.
Making a mistake can be heartbreaking, especially if you're a perfectionist (like me). However, not only are mistakes inevitable in life, but they are also great teaching moments. Think of mistakes as opportunities to take steps forward and grow, rather than taking steps backward.
9. Own up to your mistakes.
While it's OK to make mistakes, it's also important to own up to them and not shift the blame elsewhere. Apologize when you hurt someone. Take responsibility when you do something wrong. It can be hard for all of us, but owning up to our mistakes is a great sign of maturity and allows everyone in the situation to move on.
10. Be forgiving.
When you are on the receiving end of an apology, make sure to be forgiving. It may seem easy to stay mad or hold a grudge against someone who has wronged you, but imagine yourself in his or her shoes. It could be you that is plucking up the courage to apologize, and forgiveness is a loving trait.
11. Don't grow up too fast.
This one is more of a wish than a lesson. Our parents always told us to "not grow up too fast," but of course, we always do. Although we can't control time, we can control how we spend it. Don't spend too much time focusing on tomorrow. Live in the now and remember that it's OK to be a kid at heart.