Be Kind To Strangers, You Never Know What Someone’s Going Through

Be Kind To Strangers, You Never Know What Someone’s Going Through

There's always a nicer way to say things, and sometimes we forget that.


I'm sure everyone's been taught this simple rule by their parents: be kind. Be kind to your parents, to your friends, to strangers. I'm sure they also taught you not to talk to them, but as you grow up, you'll find yourself socializing with strangers quite frequently.

I work in retail so I pretty much talk to strangers on an everyday basis. And, strangers talk to me. Some of them are nice. They're traveling from another country, shopping for their family back home, enjoying the greater Seattle area.

For others, they're moms. They're shopping for school clothes for their kids. They're grandmas shopping for a nice sweater for their niece, or tweens trying to scope out the hottest trends--they're all people with lives. They're people with stories and each and every single one of them matter.

This is something I've had to remind myself every single day--especially at work. Every so often I'll come across an angry mom or a bargain hunting foreigner. In those cases, I've had to take a step back, breathe, and kindly handle the situation.

That doesn't excuse their rude behavior, though. It's never okay to yell at a sales associate or manager because your coupon expired, or the item you wanted to purchase wasn't on sale after all. It's not okay to threaten to call HR or demand a refund on an item that's unreturnable.

It's never okay to be mean to a stranger--to another human being. There's always a nicer way to say things, and sometimes we forget that.

And yeah, we all have our days. Not all of us can be chipper all the time--I can personally attest to that.

But is it okay to take it out on others? No. Absolutely not.

You also have no idea what someone may be going through. The girl you sit next to in class every day could possibly be working three jobs just to afford to live, let alone school. The waiter who served you your pasta could possibly be going through a lot of personal issues at home.

These are people in your everyday lives who, just like you and I, have things going on. So, please, be kind to others. It's not that hard. If you want to take it a step further, go out of your way to do nice things, too! Buy that homeless guy a meal, or round up your change for charity.

It could even be something as small and simple as holding open a door for someone. Whatever it is you do, it may not seem like much to you, but it could mean a whole lot to someone else.

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14 Fraternity Guy Gifts Ideas, Since He Already Has Enough Beer

Frat boys are a species of their own and here are some exciting gifts they will be ecstatic to receive!


What more do frat boys love than alcohol, partying, and just acting stupid? Here are some gifts that help fulfill all of those needs for the frat boy in your life!

1. Beer holster belt

Whats better than one beer? Six beers! This fashionable camouflage accessory can be used for tailgates, beach days, formals and everything in between.

Price: $8.49

2. Phone juul holder 

You know those cardholders everyone sticks on the back of their phones? Well, now a Juul holder for your phone is on the market! This will save your favorite frat boy from ever again losing his Juul!

Price: $10.98

3. Animal house poster 

This Animal House poster is a classic staple for any frat boy. This poster will compliment any frat house decor or lack thereof.

Price: $1.95

4. The American Fraternity book

Does the frat boy in your life need a good read for Thanksgiving or winter break? Look no farther, this will certainly keep his attention and give him a history lesson on American fraternity heritage and tradition.

Price: $28.46

5. Beer pong socks 

These snazzy socks featuring beer pong will be loved by any frat boy. As for the way to any frat boy's heart may, in fact, be beer pong.

Price: $12.00

6. Condom case

This condom carrying case will not only protect condoms from damage but also make frat boys more inclined to practice safe sex, which is a win-win situation!

Price: $9.99

7. Frat house candle

Ahhh yes, who does not like the smell of stale beer in a dark, musty frat house basement? Frat boys can make their apartment or bedroom back home smell like their favorite place with the help of this candle.

Price: $16.99

8. "Frat" sticker

Frat boys always need to make sure everyone around them knows just how "fratty" they are. This versatile stick can go on a laptop, car, water bottle, or practically anywhere their little hearts desire.

Price: $6.50

9. Natty Light t-shirt 

Even I will admit that this shirt is pretty cool. The frat boy in your life will wear this shirt at every possible moment, it is just that cool!

Price: $38.76-$41.11

10. Natty light fanny pack 

This fanny pack can absolutely be rocked by any frat boy. The built-in koozie adds a nice touch.

Price: $21.85

11. Bud Light Neon Beer Sign 

A neon beer sign will be the perfect addition to any frat boys bedroom.

Price: $79.99

12. Beer Opener

Although most frat boys' go to beers come in cans, this bottle opener will be useful for those special occasions when they buy nicer bottled beers.

Price: $7.99

13. Frat House Dr. Sign

Price: $13.99

Forget stealing random street signs, with this gift frat boys no longer have to do so.

14. Beer Lights 

Lights are an essential for any party and these will surely light up even the lamest parties.

Price: $17.19

Please note that prices are accurate and items in stock as of the time of publication. As an Amazon Associate, Odyssey may earn a portion of qualifying sales.

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Growing Up Is Realizing You Have More In Common With 'The Bad Guy'

The positive and negative aspects of self-discovery and self-acceptance.


The words self-acceptance and self-discovery are largely associated with the idea that you have to go on a journey of some kind; a backpacking trip through Europe or a camping trip with many nature hikes are some of the most cliché versions of this. Something that involves leaving your life and the people you know behind and going somewhere alone, for a couple of introspective weeks or months, and then coming back with full knowledge of who you are.

Although I think the journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance is a solitary one, I don't think you have to go somewhere to learn more about yourself, or even not be near people you know. Rather, I think other people are essential in this journey. Be it people who you feel comfortable talking about uncomfortable things, or people who challenge you in any way.

The most solitary component of this journey I would say is when you get to know the "bad" parts of yourself. I put the word bad in quotation marks because I think the definition of this is slightly different for everyone, and in the context of this post, I think your own personal definition should apply for my use of the word. Realizing you are capable of doing things you consider "bad", or that some of your morals don't stand as strong as you would like to believe, and most importantly, as you would like others to believe, is something hard to come to terms with. Life puts you in contact with situations and people who will challenge your morals and most strong standing ideas, and this is what I interpret to be the journey of self-discovery. It is not hiking through a forest or visiting the Eiffel tower alone, it is moral dilemmas and complicated discussions in your day-to-day life.

Going somewhere where you don't know anyone can be a way to speed this journey through. I have written previously about how growing up with the same people inhibits you from trying new things and exploring parts of your personality that developed later in life because you are confined, at least to some extent, to what the people around you think of you.

I would say that self-acceptance is the second part of the journey of self-discovery. It is one thing to realize things about yourself when you are lying in bed alone at night, in that space between waking and sleeping, between consciousness and unconsciousness, where thoughts seem to run beyond our control. But to accept these things in broad daylight is a completely different matter. To talk to someone else about them, another completely different level.

Self-acceptance can be a slippery slope though. Accepting things about yourself and attributing them to your personality can be a way to excuse your bad behavior. To think, "I am a bad person, its just who I am" and then proceeding to do a bad thing isn't self-acceptance, in my view at least. But realizing that you don't really have a problem with lying, and do this more often than you would like to admit is self-acceptance. You don't have to necessarily stop lying because of this realization, so long as you don't use it as an excuse to lie without guilt. Realizing a problem is perceived by many as the first step to solving it though, so this might be a good opportunity to stop lying.

But what do I, a twenty-year-old sophomore in college, know of self-discovery and self-acceptance? This article is a concise and as impersonal as possible reflection on my journey so far, and I imagine it is still in the beginning. It doesn't take a couple of weeks or months of introspection to get to know yourself, but rather, I think it takes a lifetime and still some.

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