Don't judge a movie before you watch it

You Shouldn't Judge A Movie Before You Watch It

You shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, and the same idea can be applied to watching movies.


In 2015 the Marvel movie 'Ant-Man' didn't do so well in theaters. I was one of the many that didn't go see. Despite being a lover of superhero movies, had many reasons for not wanting to see it: I'm afraid of ants (especially a lot of ants), the previews didn't make me think that Paul Rudd made a good superhero, and the previews showed me that there was too much of small Ant-Man getting tossed around. I had opportunities to see it while it was in theaters and afterward, and I choose to not see it because I stood by my stubborn snap-judgment that it was a dumb movie.

However, my experience with 'Ant-Man' changed how I will think about movies from now on.

My problem with the movie stemmed from my problems with the character Ant-Man. He, unlike Spider-Man, uses small ants to help him out and shrinks down to their size. That's jarring to me, but the ants bring in another factor. They make the movie seem childish, and that is something that I still think after seeing the movie and no longer disliking it. The dark themes of Scott's life, such as imprisonment, being unable to find a job and being kept from seeing his daughter are lightened by childish humor seen in the interactions with the ants as well as the jokes that the various characters make throughout the movie.

'The Ant-Man and the Wasp' was not something that I was excited about, even after not having much of a problem with Ant-Man's character in 'Captain America: Civil War,' which is one of my favorite Marvel movies. However, the preview of the movie looked actually interesting to me. This surprised me because I had seen 'Ant-Man' and had not been impressed. The thing is, I didn't actively watch it. It was played in an AP class at the end of the year after we had taken our AP tests but still had school. I read 'The Raven King' instead of watching it, but I still picked up on what was going on. By the time Scott gets all the way down to the quantum realm, I was paying attention. I thought that scene was stupid and went back to my book.

Three years later I watched the movie again with my family. I was surprised by how much I actually enjoyed Scott's character, the humor, and Hope's character. I do still have my problems with it, and they all revolve around the ants for the most part, but I no longer think the movie is bad. I don't think it's stellar, mostly because the villain's character was lacking, but it is certainly enjoyable and not one of Marvels worst.

An important takeaway of my experience watching 'Ant-Man' is this: wait to watch the entirety of a movie yourself before deciding how you feel about it, and certainly before talking negatively about it. I wish I would have given myself the opportunity to watch something that I knew I enjoyed (a movie about a comic book superhero) before deciding that I wouldn't like it.

I do look forward to seeing the sequel, 'Ant-Man and the Wasp,' although the ending was (willingly) ruined for me by my younger brothers. Hopefully, I'll have time to go see it while it's still in theaters, and I encourage everyone who didn't like the first Ant-Man movie to do the same, or at the very least re-watch the first movie with open eyes, leaving all previous judgments of it behind.

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Marvel Studios

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I Went To "The Bachelor" Auditions

And here's why you won’t be seeing me on TV.

It’s finally time to admit my guilty pleasure: I have always been a huge fan of The Bachelor.

I can readily admit that I’ve been a part of Bachelor fantasy leagues, watch parties, solo watching — you name it, I’ve gone the whole nine yards. While I will admit that the show can be incredibly trashy at times, something about it makes me want to watch it that much more. So when I found out that The Bachelor was holding auditions in Houston, I had to investigate.

While I never had the intention of actually auditioning, there was no way I would miss an opportunity to spend some time people watching and check out the filming location of one of my favorite TV shows.

The casting location of The Bachelor, The Downtown Aquarium in Houston, was less than two blocks away from my office. I assumed that I would easily be able to spot the audition line, secretly hoping that the endless line of people would beg the question: what fish could draw THAT big of a crowd?

As I trekked around the tanks full of aquatic creatures in my bright pink dress and heels (feeling somewhat silly for being in such nice clothes in an aquarium and being really proud of myself for somewhat looking the part), I realized that these auditions would be a lot harder to find than I thought.

Finally, I followed the scent of hairspray leading me up the elevator to the third floor of the aquarium.

The doors slid open. I found myself at the end of a large line of 20-something-year-old men and women and I could feel all eyes on me, their next competitor. I watched as one woman pulled out her travel sized hair curler, someone practiced answering interview questions with a companion, and a man (who was definitely a little too old to be the next bachelor) trying out his own pick-up lines on some of the women standing next to him.

I walked to the end of the line (trying to maintain my nonchalant attitude — I don’t want to find love on a TV show). As I looked around, I realized that one woman had not taken her eyes off of me. She batted her fake eyelashes and looked at her friend, mumbling something about the *grumble mumble* “girl in the pink dress.”

I felt a wave of insecurity as I looked down at my body, immediately beginning to recognize the minor flaws in my appearance.

The string hanging off my dress, the bruise on my ankle, the smudge of mascara I was sure I had on the left corner of my eye. I could feel myself begin to sweat. These women were all so gorgeous. Everyone’s hair was perfectly in place, their eyeliner was done flawlessly, and most of them looked like they had just walked off the runway. Obviously, I stuck out like a sore thumb.

I walked over to the couches and sat down. For someone who for the most part spent most of the two hours each Monday night mocking the cast, I was shocked by how much pressure and tension I felt in the room.

A cop, stationed outside the audition room, looked over at me. After a brief explanation that I was just there to watch, he smiled and offered me a tour around the audition space. I watched the lines of beautiful people walk in and out of the space, realizing that each and every one of these contestants to-be was fixated on their own flaws rather than actually worrying about “love.”

Being with all these people, I can see why it’s so easy to get sucked into the fantasy. Reality TV sells because it’s different than real life. And really, what girl wouldn’t like a rose?

Why was I so intimidated by these people? Reality TV is actually the biggest oxymoron. In real life, one person doesn’t get to call all the shots. Every night isn’t going to be in a helicopter looking over the south of France. A real relationship depends on more than the first impression.

The best part of being in a relationship is the reality. The best part about yourself isn’t your high heels. It’s not the perfect dress or the great pick-up lines. It’s being with the person that you can be real with. While I will always be a fan of The Bachelor franchise, this was a nice dose of reality. I think I’ll stick to my cheap sushi dates and getting caught in the rain.

But for anyone who wants to be on The Bachelor, let me just tell you: Your mom was right. There really are a lot of fish in the sea. Or at least at the aquarium.

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11 Amazing TV Shows That Are Ending in 2019

All good things must come to an end.


It might just be the beginning of 2019 but there are many TV series wrapping up already. There are many breathtaking and original pilots around along with several reboots coming. This might be one of the greatest year for TV.

However, all good things must come to an end. Some series have been planned out and are going to be finished while others have been cut short. Sadly, here's a list of TV series to say goodbye to this year.

1. The Big Bang Theory (CBS)

Final Date: May

12 Seasons//279 episodes

2. Orange is the New Black (Netflix)

Final Date: End of 2019

7 seasons//91 episodes

3. Jane the Virgin (CW)

Final Date: Mid-late 2019

5 seasons//100 episodes

4. Games of Thrones (HBO)


Final Date: Summer

8 Seasons//73 episodes

5. Broad City (Comedy Central)

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Final Date: March

5 seasons//50 episodes



Final Date: Spring

7 seasons//67 episodes

7. Homeland (Showtime)


Final date: Summer

8 seasons//96 episodes

8. Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt (Netflix)

Final date: January 25

4 seasons//52 episodes

9. The Affair (Showtime)


Final Date: End of 2019

5 seasons//42 episodes

10. Friends From College (Netflix)

Final Date: End of 2019

2 seasons//16 episodes

11. Crashing (HBO)


Final Date: End of 2019

3 seasons//24 episodes

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