Is Dying Your Hair Killing Your Career?

Is Dying Your Hair Killing Your Career?

Please explain to me again how my gray ombré will stop me from kicking ass in my field...

A few weeks ago, my friend and I decided to check out Sally Beauty Supply to find some new, inexpensive hair dye to mess around with. My hair, which originally started out as a dark brown to light grey ombre, had recently turned a shade of blonde-green (thanks to mother nature and a subpar dye job), so I was attempting to fix the situation.

While I wandered around the store attempting to understand how "Titanium Gray" and "Lightning Gray" were somehow different colors, I noticed my friend picking up some very wild shades. I'm talking bright red and purple hues. She asked for my opinion and I responded with vague, slightly judgmental answers like, "Are you sure you want that color?", "That might take awhile to come out of your hair if it doesn't look right," and "If you really want it then do what you think is right."

How fucking hypocritical, right? I'm saying all of this to her while my hair is literally the shade of the inside of a ripe avocado.

I wasn't sure where this judgment was coming from. It wasn't that I didn't think she couldn't rock those colors; my friend was the type of person that could literally look amazing with any hair color or style, with a versatility that I was always super jealous of.

She didn't take any of my remarks to heart, thank goodness, but she did end up not buying any of the colors. She realized that her job at a chain restaurant wouldn't allow unnatural colors, so she nixed the whole idea. That got me thinking... Why are we, as a society, so judgmental of these wild, unnatural hair colors?

I remember after getting my hair done that I fell absolutely in love with the bright shade of gray; it made me feel cool, edgy and more confident. I was on top of the world until I stepped outside of the hair salon and was met with elongated stares from (seemingly) everyone. That feeling sucked.

I've had this grayish (blondish-greenish back to grayish) hair look for almost 6 months now and I still get that feeling, sometimes. Luckily for me, I'm studying to be a journalist or creator within the social media field.

These types of career paths encourage creativity and self-expression. They encourage authenticity and openness. These types of career paths will allow me to be judged less by the color of my hair and more by the content I create. I'm one of the lucky ones.

Some of my other friends aren't as lucky. They'll be judged if they try to pursue law with blue streaks in their hair, or apply for an internship in finance with a flaming red ombre. These career paths will judge your looks over your resumes.

Is that fair? Why and when did hair dye and tattoos and nose piercings become synonymous with being an "unfit employee?" If anything, it should show that you're willing to take risks to succeed. I think it's time we change the stigma around dying your hair and being taken seriously as a professional in your work field.

Judge a person by the way they treat themselves and others, judge an employee by their resume and their work ethic, but don't judge either by the way they look.

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20 Small Tattoos With Big Meanings

Tattoos with meaning you can't deny.

It's tough to find perfect tattoos with meaning.

You probably want something permanent on your body to mean something deeply, but how do you choose a tattoo that will still be significant in 5, 10, 15, or 50 years? Over time, tattoos have lost much of their stigma and many people consider them a form of art, but it's still possible to get a tattoo you regret.

So here are 20 tattoos you can't go wrong with. Each tattoo has its own unique meaning, but don't blame me if you still have to deal with questions that everyone with a tattoo is tired of hearing!

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1. A semicolon indicates a pause in a sentence but does not end. Sometimes it seems like you may have stopped, but you choose to continue on.

2. "A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor."

3. Top symbol: unclosed delta symbol which represents open to change. Bottom symbol: strategy.

4. "There are nights when the wolves are silent and only the moon howls."

5. Viking symbol meaning "create your own reality."

6. Greek symbol of Inguz: Where there's a will, there's a way.

7. Psalm 18:33 "He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he causes me to stand on the heights."

8. 'Ohm' tattoo that represents 4 different states of consciousness and a world of illusion: waking (jagrat), dreaming (swapna), deep sleep (sushupti), transcendental state (turiya) and world of illusion (maya).

9. Alchemy: symbolizes copper, means love, balance, feminine beauty, and artistic creativity.

10. The Greek word “Meraki" means to do something with soul, passion, love, and creativity or to put yourself into whatever you do.

11. Malin (Skövde, Sweden) – you have to face setbacks to be able to go forward.

12. Symbol meaning "thief" from "The Hobbit." It was the rune Gandalf etched into Bilbo's door so the dwarves could find his house.

13. “Lux in tenebris" means “light in darkness."

14. Anchor Tattoo: symbolizing strength and stability, something (or someone) who holds you in place, and provides you the strength to hold on no matter how rough things get.

15."Ad Maiora" is translated literally as “Towards greater things." It is a formula of greeting used to wish more success in life, career or love.

16. A glyph means “explore." It was meant as a reminder for me to never stop exploring.

17. "Aut inveniam viam aut faciam," meaning roughly, "Either I shall find a way, or I will make one."

18. Lotus Flower. It grows in muddy water, and it is this environment that gives forth the flower's first and most literal meaning: rising and blooming above the murk to achieve enlightenment.

19. The zen (or ensō) circle to me represents enlightenment, the universe and the strength we all have inside of us.

20. Two meanings. The moon affirms life. It looks as if it is constantly changing. Can remind us of the inconsistency of life. It also symbolizes the continuous circular nature of time and even karma.

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12 Items To Buy From Five Below That Will Inexpensively Modernize Your Dorm Room

You would be amazed at what you can get at this store!


When you're redecorating your bedroom, you might not think to stop by Five Below, considering everything is $5 and under. But you would be amazed at what you can find in that store.

I went not to long ago to get those cube storage boxes, that go into the shelf, and I left with almost $200 worth of stuff. Now mind you, I've been to this store a million and one times and never have spent this much, but while I was there I figured I would get Easter basket things for my niece and then the idea to redecorate dorm rooms popped into my head as I was looking around. Because let’s be real we all could use a more modern dorm....even if you school just bought new furniture. So here’s 12 things you need to buy from Five Below to modernize your dorm.

1. Wall shelves

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Use command strips to hang these up because you can’t drill into the walls at school!!

2. 3 clip photo frame

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Okay so one isn't out of its package yet, but this is what Five Below's website showed for it.

3. A white fuzzy rug

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4. Cordless hexagon cage lamp

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5. Cute storage basket

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6. Light up sign box

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7. Letter board

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8. An initial light

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So this I've had for years but I'm 100% positive it came from Five Below.

9. 3 piece frame set

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10. Salt rock lamp

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Mines pretty big, but they have smaller ones.

11. An ottoman

12. A mini cactus

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Or any plant really. They have basil, roses, daisy, strawberries, etc.

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