Is Black Friday Worth The Hype?

Is Black Friday Worth The Hype?

Spoiler: It's not.


I love to shop. A frequent time-wasting hobby of mine is going online to my favorite websites and scrolling through the different clothes or shoes that I might want to buy, but never actually do (which really makes online shopping even more of a waste of time). Sometimes, I'll go shopping by myself because I like looking at new clothing. Other times, I'll go to the mall with my friends because who doesn't like to go to the mall with their friends?

You would think that given my love of shopping, Black Friday would give me an all-my-favorite-holidays-rolled-into-one level of excitement, and it used to. My family normally travels on Black Friday, so on the rare occasion when I was home to shop I would always get excited about the prospect of shopping and getting lots of deals.

But now, the deals in stores aren't really even deals. The Tuesday before Black Friday, I went to the mall, and Lucky Brand was having the same deal it was going to have on Friday. The deal was actually running until the day after Black Friday! With online shopping, many of the deals offered in stores are available online or at other times, which is yet another reason Black Friday does not really live up to its hype. Unidays, the app that provides discounts to college students, often offers similar discounts year-round.

So, if you love Black Friday shopping, you might still believe the hype. If you're looking for another way to participate in the spending frenzy, though, try out Small Business Saturday and support local businesses instead of the mall where you can get deals year-round. If you don't buy into the hype at all, then donate to organizations on Giving Tuesday to make the greatest impact with your money truly. Black Friday doesn't only need to be about shopping!

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6 Habits For Women Who Want To Live And Love To Their Fullest

A simply sweet story about finding more joy because I was inspired by a friend's beautiful heart, and I hope that you too are inspired and find what makes you happy.


I was inspired by a friend the other day to write this post. It's so funny how some people seem to bring out the best in us or that words they say can trigger us. Meeting up with my old friend and reconnecting always brings an overwhelming amount of joy.

Here are my recommendations to bring around better vibes!!!

1. I'm recommending being around high-quality people. Personally, I'm most joyful when I'm around people that bring me up and who love and support me. This sounds like a duh, but seriously we have all had that friend or so-called friend who really doesn't do that for us. So my number one tip would be to find friends that seek to make you rise. That tell you when your behavior needs checking. That celebrated with and for you when your accomplished something. That cry by your side when things are not right, it may be a boy, a job gone bad, a failed paper, big or small they have your back. So find yourself your girl gang. Mines small, but I have complete trust in them and that's what makes all the difference.

2. Practice being joyful. What I mean by this is if your not very happy fake it and keep PRACTICING being happy. Eventually, you will be. So how do you practice being happy?

Journal what you're thankful for.
Do a random act of kindness for someone else.
Being the bigger person.
Give people genuine compliments.

Trust me these little or simple things can brighten your day.

3. Realize that you're not alone. There are so many people around us so when you find the right ones talk to them. Get out whatever is holding you back off your chest. Tell someone you trust what's up and I'd recommending praying too. There is so much out there that's bigger than ourselves and many people can relate to you so, don't be afraid to ask for help or advice if you need it. As well try not to get too down on yourself.

4. Find peace in your heart. This doesn't mean forget what hurt you or allow a toxic person in your life but to be present and in the moment you need to settle your past. Make sure that you are forgiving to others and that you be a bigger person, to move forward.

5. Give to others. The next thing I'd recommend is to serve someone else. It always feels good after to give your time, support, a gift, or wisdom to someone that's in need of it. I know you are looking to be happier but sometimes the way to unlock this is by helping someone else so seek to always be kind to others. Only seeking more for yourself leads to selfishness and greed which ultimately never are going to leave you fulfilled.

6. Lastly, I'd recommend listening to happy music, helpful podcasts, go to church, or pick up a new exciting hobby, such a painting. Just do something that makes you feel good.

Hopefully, these tips help to make you find more happiness in your everyday life. They are simple and very Manageable if you just make the time to do them.

Best of luck girlies, xoxo

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Golden Globes Fashion RECAP

Here's a recap of some of my favorite, and least favorite, looks from the 2019 Golden Globe Awards.


The red carpet at the Golden Globes was filled with a lot of different looks. Here's my recap of the fashion where I give my favorite and least favorite looks different awards.

My Favorite Look Of The Night

KiKi Layne Golden Globes 2019

My favorite look of the night was KiKi Layne in Dior. She wore a light purple chiffon gown which was simple yet elegant. My favorite part of the dress was the open corset bodice, which gave the dress a unique look. Her makeup looked flawless, and she paired the dress with a Bulgari diamond choker and her hair in an up-do. Her look was my favorite because of the simplicity yet elegance.

Most Head-Turning Look Of The Night

Lady Gaga Golden Globes 2019

Lady Gaga showed up to the Golden Globes and caught everyone's attention in her Valentino purple blue gown with big puffy sleeves. Although I wasn't the biggest fan of her look, Gaga definitely caught everyone's attention and took a risk by wearing the purple blue shade. Her hair also matched her colorful dress, she died it a frosty blue shade. She paired the dress with a Tiffany diamond encrusted necklace and bracelets to complete the look.

The Perfect Combo of Color and Sparkle

Lupita Nyong'o Golden Globes 2019

Lupita Nyong'o looked stunning in a royal blue sparkly Calvin Klein dress. Her dress was strapless and form-fitting, which showed off her model frame. Her hair was gathered above her shoulders and she paired dangly Bulgari diamond earrings to compliment the sparkles on her dress. Although sparkly and colorful, she was able to pull it off by pairing it with simple accessories.

The Unconventional Approach

Julia Roberts Golden Globes 2019

Julia Roberts took a risk by wearing a Stella McCartney ensemble that was not a dress or pants, but a combo of the two. The top was a tan chiffon material which then cascaded down her back to give the outfit a train in the same material. The top was attached to a black skinny pant. This look was interesting, but it worked. The more I looked at it, the more I loved it. Her hair was curled into beauty waves and she looked stylish and chic.

Simple- But Not Enough Glam

Rachel Brosnahan Golden Globes 2019

Rachel Brosnahan showed up to the red carpet in a yellow Prada dress. Although her look wasn't awful by any means, it wasn't show stopping. Her look didn't have any aspects that made it different or made you want to do a double-take. Her makeup, hair, jewelry, and dress were all simple. To balance her simple dress, she could have done a makeup look with more color, or done her hair differently.

My Least Favorite Look of The Night

Emma Stone Golden Globes 2019

As much as I love Emma Stone as an actress, her Louis Vuitton dress was my LEAST favorite of the entire night. She was completely covered in the dress. The dress looked sheer with sparkle scallop shapes all over the dress. Paired with Emma's fair complexion, the dress blended into her skin. The dress also hung off her slim frame, and made it look like it was too big for her body.

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