Unlike my friend and fellow Odyssey writer, Becky, I do not read for pleasure often. According to the National Literary Trust, reading for pleasure has many positive benefits, such as an increase in general knowledge, understanding of other cultures, community participation and insight into the human condition. However, instead of picking up one of the thousands of books that line the shelves at Barnes and Noble or your local library, we plop ourselves down in front of our computer and TV and binge watch Netflix. Yup, I know I'm guilty!
It seems to me that we think reading is some stress-induced, boring task, while watching "Gilmore Girls" (in preparation for the reboot) requires no work. To be honest, I blame all that assigned reading we have to do. The Telegraph reported in 2009 that "reading is the best way to relax." In just six minutes, stress levels can be reduced by more than two thirds. Dang! Becky, I think you're on to something.
Last summer, I binge watched "Breaking Bad," "Archer," "Gossip Girl" and "One Tree Hill," but this time around it's going to be different. Here are the five books that are on my list:
1. "Scary Close: Dropping the Act and Finding True Intimacy" by Donald Miller.
Ironically, I bought this at the beginning of last summer. According to GoodReads, "Scary Close" is about "the risk involved in choosing to impress fewer people and connect with more, about the freedom that comes when we stop acting and start loving." This book is for people, like myself, who want to be more intentional in their relationships. "It is a story about knocking down old walls to create a healthy mind, a strong family, and a satisfying career."
2. "And the Mountains Echoed" by Khaled Hosseini.
This has been on my to-read list ever since I finished Hosseini's other bestsellers, "The Kite Runner" and "A Thousand Splendid Suns" senior year of high school. Like Hosseini's other works, the story is set in Afghanistan. This tale focuses on relationships and "explores the many ways in which families nurture, wound, betray, honor, and sacrifice for one another." The book has thousands of reviews on GoodReads, heralding it a must-read.3. "Everything You Ever Wanted" by Jillian Lauren.
Lauren is one of those writers who has lived a full life, packed with lessons to shared. In her first memoir, "Some Girls: My Life in a Harem," the author takes you through her 20s when she landed a gig to go to Borneo and spend 18 months in Prince Jefri Bolkiah's, youngest brother of the Sultan of Brunei, harem. This is a true story and leaves no detail out. In her second book, "Everything You Ever Wanted," Lauren talks about her post-harem life during her 30s. She gets married, adopts an Ethiopian child with special needs and loses a friend to drugs. GoodReads says the book "explores complex ideas of identity and reinvention, 'Everything You Ever Wanted' is a must-read for everyone ... who has ever hoped for a second act in life."4. "The Lipstick Gospel" by Stephanie May Wilson.

5. "Perfect Days" by Raphael Montes.

Now, if you don't mind, I'm going to stop here and take a trip to the library.





















