How to hide your feelings from your crush?
Start writing a post
Relationships

How to hide your feelings from your crush?

Introduction

414
How to hide your feelings from your crush?

Sometimes with strong feelings for someone can be overwhelming. To hide your feelings, you need to stay calm with the person you love. To get over your anxiety, you first need to accept that being around them might make you nervous.

Being nervous is a very normal emotional reaction. Don't fight or ignore the feeling.

Focus on the positive.

If you hide your feelings from the person you love, you have a reason to. Maybe you are shy or just not ready yet. Whatever the reason, don't let it affect you negatively. Instead of worrying about the things you can't control, focus on the things that make you happy. Like, tell secret crush quotes for her that create a beautiful memory. Because if you put yourself in a hard situation you will only be affected by it not anyone else. So try to be calm and act easy in every situation you face.

Whenever the person you love comes into your mind, try humming your favorite song or thinking back to a happy memory.

Some examples are your pet, the smell of a flower, the memory of your last birthday party, and other happy memories. You don't need to be angry with yourself or be embarrassed by your nervousness. When you accept your emotions it will help you to control the situation too.

Avoid excessive eye contact.

The eyes can explain numerous things without saying anything verbally. Sometimes that's a good thing! However, if you want to hide your feelings from a crush, eye contact probably won't help. Try to avoid excessive eye contact with this person, as they may betray your feelings.

You don't always have to take someone's eyes off. That way, you might end up communicating something negative, like you're embarrassed or unsure of yourself.

Limit your interactions.

You probably know exactly where your loved one tends to hang out. Being in these places all the time could make your feelings very obvious to the person you love. If possible, limit the time you spend in these places. You may want to avoid them altogether, at least until the person you love comes through.

You should not completely avoid the place because of your crush, but if you want to hide your feelings from it, avoid its hangouts for a while.

Speak in a calm voice.

Whenever you need to talk to the person you love, keep your voice-controlled and your tone normal. Being nervous causes many people to speed up their speech, so focus on speaking slowly and evenly. It is found in human nature that if you talk with them politely.

If necessary, practice speaking calmly before you have to be with your loved one.

Work in a calm tone of voice.

Smile and act naturally.

Smiling is an easy way to make yourself appear calmer and more confident in others. If the person you love is a friend who you need to be around quite often, try to act as normal as possible when you're together. Follow your usual conversation topics and typical activities.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
beer on the beach

Summer is hot and humid, and it's almost like summer was made specifically to drink the refreshing, cold, crisp wonderful, delicious, nutritious nectar of the gods. Which is none other than beer; wonderful cold beer. With summer playing peek-a-boo around the corner while we finish up this semester, it's time to discuss the only important part of summer. And if you haven't already guessed, it's beer. There are few things I take more seriously than my beer, in order are: sports... and beer. Here are my favorite summer brews:

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

7 Reasons SoCal Rocks!

75 degrees and sunny, plus, no humidity. I mean do I really need to say more?

1528
woman in black and white long sleeve shirt carrying girl in red jacket in Venice beach
Photo by Jeff Hopper on Unsplash

SoCal summers are the best summers by far, and honestly, no argument is needed. But, if you aren't sure why SoCal summers are the best, here are 7 reasons why!

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

25 Lyrics for Selfie Captions

Because let's be honest, we all use lyrics.

53815
woman takes a selfie for social media
Pixabay

Sometimes you can't think of the perfect caption for your Instagram post. I love using lyrics as my captions because there's so many great lines in songs that just seem to fit in the moment. Here are some lyrics that could work for your selfie or pictures of you with your friends!

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Bruce Springsteen's Top 7 Lyrics

Everything Bruce says in his classic rock songs.

20270
bruce springsteen album cover born in the usa

Anyone who was born and raised in New Jersey (or anywhere really) knows of Bruce Springsteen, whether or not they like him is a whole other situation. I hope that his hundreds of classic rock songs and famous high energy performances, even in his sixties he can put on better concerts than people half his age, are at least recognizable to people of all ages. Love him or hate him (I identify with the former) you have to admit that some of his songs and interviews have inspirational quotes and lyrics.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

New England Summers Are The BEST Summers

Why you should spend your next summer in New England.

5315
Marconi Beach

Three years ago, I chose to attend college in Philadelphia, approximately 360 miles away from my small town in New Hampshire. I have learned many valuable lessons away from home, and have thoroughly enjoyed my time spent in Pennsylvania. One thing that my experience has taught me, however, is that it is absolutely impossible to beat a New England summer.

You cannot beat the beach. Believe it or not (which many people may not), New England has a long and beautiful coastline. Most of my high school summers were spent sitting on the Wall at Hampton Beach, getting sunburnt and eating Acai bowls from The Secret Spot. The Wall was the place to be both during the day and at night. We begin our days there with a KB's bagel and coffee, and end them with pizza and ice cream. It’s not a New England summer without that 4 p.m. text from someone, “Who wants to meet at the Wall tonight?” Nighttime is for Tripoli’s Pizza, the sound of waves, and wishes on shooting stars. Wednesday nights are especially important, as those are the nights that Hampton Beach sets off the weekly firework display.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments