Now that you're in college its time to grow up, especially around this time of year. It's finally the holidays which means it's time to deal with repulsive questions from your favorite family members, the family member who you only see once a year and it gets more awkward every year, and lastly, the family member whom you always get into a fight with because they never know when to stop.
Also, it's the time that you actually have to start spending your own money on your siblings and your parents. Which can also be more rewarding because you used your earned money for something for your family. One question that is terribly common at this time is "what do I get for my parents?". This question comes with a million thoughts, as for how do I give back so little when they do so much for me.
How to deal with family one way is to ignore them. Although it can be hard because it's your family and they love you dearly but, why put yourself through the cycle of getting annoyed when you can just say a simple response and move on with your life. Another way to "adult" when it comes to family is to try to start a conversation with something that can't lead to something you could be asked back. For example, ask "what are you doing at your job/ what projects are you working on" or if they live out of state ask them what it's like living in another state and traveling for the holidays because since they're at your house they cannot ask you the same.
Finally, a way to adult with presents is simple. Try to pay attention to the little details that your mom/dad talk about. For example, if your dad loves watching football and he LOVES the Cleveland Browns, then try to incorporate that into your gift. However for your mom, when they get tired of Jewlrey, try to figure out what else they like. For example, if your mom talks about scrapbooking then go to Michael's and let loose, get her either a starter kit or something that could help her out. I know it's hard because they're your parents but they will honestly love anything that you get them because one, they're your parents they have to love it and two, it's from you.
Try to enjoy the holidays!
