We all know that when your best friend starts dating a new guy it can feel like your friendship is breaking up. Don't worry! Here are some tips and tricks on how to avoid those feelings and be the best third wheel ever!
Make Friends, Not Enemies
Instead of immediately hating your best friend's new boyfriend, take time to get to know him, you could become friends! Being friends with both of them means no awkward tension. You can hang out as a group of three instead of a couple plus one.
Remember, It's Not All About You
It's okay to be a little bit sad, but don't give your friend the guilt trip. Avoid being jealous that she is in a relationship and try not to harass her about hanging out all the time. Give the new couple some space and be happy for her!
Learn To At Least Like The Backseat
Yes, it's time to share that coveted passenger seat. No one loves the back seat of the car, but now that your best friend has a boyfriend you can't always be the one calling shotgun. This is not to say that you can't ever have the front seat (because hey, you've earned the right to sit there), but make sure that you let her guy sit up front every once in a while.
Learn How To Schedule
Don't be offended if your friend already has plans with her man when you call last minute wanting to meet for dinner. Make plans ahead of time. If your bestie knows she has a date with you, she'll be sure to spend time with her boyfriend beforehand so she can give you her full attention.
New Matchmaker
Use the new boyfriend to your advantage. Ask him if he has any friends he could set you up with, he'll love double dating when one of his buddies is sitting right across from him.
You're Not Breaking Up
Although it's hard to accept that you have to share your best friend, remember that you're still in that number one spot. It may take some time for you to get used to not having her around as much but you'll always be the one she comes to when she wants to eat a pint of ice cream and binge watch F•R•I•E•N•D•S.
