College is a place for finding out who you are, what you like and don't like, experimenting, and growing. There are a lot of mistakes expected to be made within your four years there, but that doesn't mean you have to keep making the same mistake for falling for the wrong guys.
Guys that ghost you, then text you back 3 weeks later.- All I have to say is NEXT. This is the worst type. He will make you feel like he is an angel sent from heaven one week, then make you wonder where you went wrong the next. These guys are lonely and can't make up their mind. I know how good that random Snapchat may feel, but in the long run these guys have maturing to do and and you deserve so much more.
Guys that are scared to DTR.- Ew. It's 2018 for crying out loud. I think a college guy is mature enough to let a girl know he just wants a fwb or a real thing. Don't string the girl along for weeks giving her endless amounts of false hope just because you "don't know how to end it".
Guys that have poor communication skills.- I don't see a need for an explanation with this one. You don't want to feel like a puppy dog having to constantly ask him if you two are okay. We are in college, it's not hard to put your big boy pants on and tell me how it is. The reason the relationship fails is often times because of poor communication. If you are upfront about your feelings and concerns 24/7 but he isn't, move on this year.
Guys that ignore your texts/calls/snapchats and act like it's nothing.- Chances are he's probably doing the same exact thing to 4 other girls and they are feeling the same way as you. He picks and chooses who to talk to when it's convenient for him. But the second he Snapchats us...it's a never ending cycle that we know should end. So let's end it in 2018.
To the guy that only hits you up for a good time.- Unless you're looking for a fwb ONLY, this guy is not for you. Sex is one of the most intimate things and involves feelings. You might start falling for him, which is the worst case scenario. These types of guys can be fun in college when you are trying to decide what you like and don't like. But if you are looking for something serious, you're wasting your time, effort, energy, and emotions on this guy.
All guys suck sometimes. You just have to find the one that sucks the least and hold onto him. I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, sometimes finding them takes A LOT of trial and error.
