When I first left college, I always told people that I was “leaving the bubble." Not everyone understood this phrase or could fully determine the complexity of my situation. “The bubble," as I call it, is a term to describe my hometown Cary, N.C. However, this term is not exclusive to my hometown, but rather an all-inclusive description of the typical suburban area.
Just like a bubble, my suburban experience was sheltered and moderately protective. I wasn't necessarily shown different lifestyles, or how to deal with real-world situations.
Now I'm not saying suburban life is the worst thing, because it isn't. Yet, there is a certain monotony associated with it. You see the same homes, the same cars, and the same chain restaurants at each glance. It can be a tad tedious for someone who gravitates to a more unique lifestyle.
Although I was very privileged to grow up in the area that I did, I think the suburban area promotes, or even thrusts, a standardized lifestyle upon its inhabitants. For those of you who also became restless in your suburban confines, you may know this trend that I'm attempting to explain.
Suburbia will always have a place in my heart, but I think exploration of the world is necessary. Diversity and experiencing different ways of living is a key ingredient in enriching our lives. Not only for self-proclaimed free spirits such as myself, but for all people.
So for those of you that have felt alone in your suburban struggle, you are not. Just because that's the life you grew up with doesn't mean you have to continue in that environment. There's a whole world out there awaiting your discovery, and it's your choice whether to take advantage of this opportunity.