God's Plan > Mine

God's Plan > Mine

When God says, "wait".

Do you trust me when my answer is wait?

Society gives us a clear perception of what our lives should look like. As soon as I got married, I was expected to have a baby, own a Pinterest-worthy house and drive a cute yet stylish SUV. So when I think about how I have now been married for over a year and the fact that I still have none of these things the world makes me feel like I am falling behind. But when I really and truly evaluate the reality of these things, I realize that I don’t want them – at least not now anyways. So why am I rushing my husband and myself to have these things, to obtain these ‘goals’? But most importantly, why am I rushing God?

“I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits, and in His word I put my hope.” Psalm 130:5

We have all rushed God at some point or another and if you haven’t, please lend me some of your patience. I mean, we even rush God in the simplest of ways. Maybe we rush Him by skimming through our devotionals in the morning because we’re running late. Maybe we rush Him by counting down the minutes in church because we need to go grocery shopping. Maybe it is even just saying a three worded prayer because we think that our lives are that hectic, when in reality they’re not. So why do we do it?

I believe that we rush God because as humans we want things right now, we don’t want to wait. We have a plan that is perfectly laid out of how we want our lives to be. However, often times God asks us to wait. Psalm 37:7 states, “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him.” In reality, our future isn’t up to us. Sure, we can do things that will affect our future such as obtaining a college degree, getting married or having children. But these things still come from God and only happen because they are given by His will. However, when we’re in the midst of planning our lives, we need to remember that God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with Him.

“Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from Him.” Psalm 62:5

When we begin to rush God we are trading an overwhelmed life for an underwhelmed soul. God provides us with a hope for the future once we put our lives into His hands. God takes our stress, our worries, our craziness that life has given us and provides us with a satisfying and ongoing sense of purpose and peace. God has written each and every one of our stories from beginning to end. Isn’t that beautiful? Therefore, as stated in 2 Corinthians 5:7, “I will walk by faith even when I cannot see,” because we live by faith and not by sight.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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5 Facts About Spiritual Gifts That You Need To Know

Different gifts, but from the same Spirit


1 Corinthians 12:4-5 states; "[4] There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. [5] There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord." We see that there are multiple spiritual gifts, but they all come from the same Lord.

1. We all have different gifts and that's okay


Just like a body has different parts that each has its own function, that's like the body of Christ. We all have different gifts and different purposes, but we're all part of the body of Christ. God has a plan for you and has given you certain gifts. God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the calling.

2. There are various spiritual gifts mentioned in the Bible


Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4 are some of the bible passages that talk about spiritual gifts. Giving, leadership, mercy, prophecy, service, tongue interpretation, administration, discernment, hospitality, missionary, and evangelism are some of the spiritual gifts that people can have. We can desire any gift, but it's God's choice on what gifts He gives us.

Remember, everyone can receive speaking in tongues via baptism in the Holy Spirit, but not everyone will get the gift of tongue interpretation.

3. Spiritual Gifts are supernatural abilities that are either given or enhanced via the Holy Spirit


God gave us these Spiritual gifts because God wants to invest in His church.

4. Spiritual gifts are for strengthening others


We have spiritual gifts in order to help others.

5. It does take time for gifts to mature and develop


Like with a skill that you have, it does take time for you to own said skill. You put in the work, and because of that, you grow in your skill, and you get better. That's the same way with your gifts. God gives each of us certain gifts to use, and it will take time to mature those gifts.

Spiritual gifts are important.

In Romans 12:6 states; "[6] We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; [7] if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; [8] if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully."

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