To The Girl Who Feels Unworthy, You Are More Than Enough

To The Girl Who Feels Unworthy Right Now, You Couldn't Be Farther From The Truth

You are more than enough; don't let anyone tell you that you are not.

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Being a girl is hard especially in the 21st century. There are times to where we feel like we have to be this confident boss lady but a lot of the times we don't like to admit that sometimes we feel unworthy. Unworthy of being loved, unworthy of having friends, unworthy of everything good that is in our life. Whether the reason you feel unworthy is because of a past relationship, mistakes that you made in the past, or you are going through a weird part in your life; let me be the first to tell you; you ARE worthy.

If the reason you feel unworthy is because of a past relationship; you are WORTHY. Whether the break up was your idea or his idea it will be okay in the end. You will be okay. Everything happens for a reason and think about it this way; every bad relationship; every break up that you go through that is just one relationship closer to finding Prince Charming.

If the reason you feel unworthy is because of your past mistakes; you are WORTHY. I am the queen when I tell you that your mistakes do not define who you are. I still to this day have nightmares reliving my mistakes. I will always feel like I am not worth any good thing in my life. But the moment when you accept that you can only live and learn from your mistakes and move on; that is the day you will start feeling worthy. Your family is the best support system you can ever ask for. Lean on them because not only will they help you realize how worthy you are for the good things in your life but; they will also hold you accountable for moving on and not making the same mistake again.

If you are in a weird spot in your life right now it is perfectly okay. We all go through weird stages in our life and a lot of the time the weird stage is just us trying to find ourselves. We sometimes sit in our bed and ponder on everything in our life. The past, present, and future; it makes us think about what we want to do with our life but also what we could have changed in the past. When we start pondering about our life we sometimes start feeling weird and then we feel slightly unworthy about a lot of things; don't even get me started on the emotions we start feeling when we start wondering about life. You are WORTHY. I have said that your family is your support system for one situation and your friends are great support systems for another situation but your friends and family are the best support system. They will be the best support system that you will ever ask for. They will be your shoulder to cry on, your prayer partner, your everything that you could ever ask for.

Regardless of the situation, you are WORTHY of everything in your life. You are WORTHY of love, friends, that great job, that great grade you worked hard on; everything you can think of. You are so worthy and you are more than enough. Don't ever let anyone or anything ever tell you that you are not.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.

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My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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I Wonder If You'd Be Proud of Me

Or if you even think of me at all.

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I wonder if you'd be proud of me.

My first thought when I wake up in the morning is whether or not you still think of me. I think about if I am wearing the right outfit if I were to see you that day. I think about if I am saying the right thing for you to want to want me again.

Throughout my day, I think about whether or not you're happy. I wonder if the feeling in my heart of missing who I thought you were is making its way to you. Sometimes I think about what I did to make you hate me as much as you do.

Sometimes when things get really hard, I think about picking up the phone to call you. Time keeps passing from the last time I saw you and during that time I've painted a picture of you that would probably only disappoint me in the end. Your phone number still sits in my phone and I go to your contact, wanting to call, but knowing that at the other end is not the person I used to know.

I wonder if you watch me. I wonder if the posts I make, pictures I post, and articles I write are viewed by you and whether or not you care to even search my name. I wonder if you ask people about me or if you care to know the person I am today.

Without you, I have changed. It has been two years and though time will only continue moving on without you, I wonder what would have happened if I didn't make the choices I made to make you react in the way you have.

When the sun shines bright on the flowers blooming around campus, I think of your jokes and sarcastic wit. When the rain pours from the sky and keeps me imprisoned within the walls of a building, I think of ways I felt imprisoned by you. When clouds form shapes in the sky that I can make stories out of, I think of the way life could've been.

Sometimes I write to you. They are the letters I can never send because I have to remind myself that though we knew each other once, you do not know me anymore. The picture in my mind of who you are now is someone who'd love me with open arms, but I know that there's no truth in that. It's only my wishful thinking out to break my heart once more.

I wonder if you hear me when I try talking to you. I wonder if the words I tell God are making their way to you as you go on living the life we always talked about when times get tough. I wonder if you're talking to God about me.

As I watch the sunset, I think about the last moment I was with you. As that chapter ended, I was only wishfully thinking that walking away would save me from further pain. In the end, I don't know about how life would've been different had it not happened.

When my picture of you gets too bright and I share it with others, I am reminded of reality. The screaming, crying, pushing, shoving, and hitting touches my skin once more in the form of flashbacks that push me further down into the depths of a depression. I am reminded of the hundreds of suicidal thoughts and letters that I've written once before.

No matter what, my heart still yearns for a hug. A hug where I can bury myself into your body and feel safe. A hug where I forget every worry in my mind and focus solely on the love.

I wonder if you'd still love me if I changed myself to be the person you've always wanted me to be. I wonder if you'd forgive me for walking away, even if it was for me to change to be a better person. I wonder if you'll ever even read this.

Days like today, I want to go back in time. I sit on the benches around campus and look up at the sky, down at the cars passing by, and listen to life move on all around me as I remain stuck. I hear people talking, see them laughing, and wonder if there's any way I could one day feel as alive as they do.

The truth is that I was never enough for you. No matter how much I changed, kept notes of what you liked so I could be like that, or just kept my head down and moved silently, nothing was ever enough.

No matter what, though, I still yearn to be loved in the way that I picture you should've loved me. Closure does not exist. You were the ones who were supposed to hold me down. But now I am nothing to you...I was always nothing to you.

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