A Rant On 'Gilmore Girls: A Year In The Life'

A Rant On 'Gilmore Girls: A Year In The Life'

SPOILERS AHEAD. Childhood nostalgia may be clouding my judgement, but midway through the first episode, I am finding it a tough pill to swallow.

While I write this, I have the first episode of Gilmore Girls, A Year in the Life playing in the background. I do not know if my feelings stem from childhood nostalgia, but I do not remember this beloved show as it is being portrayed now.

I have seen and read some reviews and posts (sans spoilers), which lead me to have an uncertain, but hopeful expectation of the new series.

****Spoilers Ahead****

***Seriously man, spoilers are ahead***

***You can't say I didn't warn you***

However, this feeling quickly became one of confusion and uncertainty about halfway through the first episode. When Lorelai is explaining to Rory about what happened at Richard's funeral after she left, she describes how a drunken instance of foolishness created a huge blowup between her and Emily. I do not know whether or not it was intentional on the part of the writers, but they made Emily come across as cold, unfeeling, and very easy to hate. I found this rather odd, because, in my memories, which, again may have been tainted by childhood nostalgia, even when the characters fought, they always found a way to come back together, usually within the same episode. The biggest blowups only seemed to last a few episodes. With this, however, the writing was so skillful in portraying Emily as a monster that I think it would be incredibly difficult to resolve. I do acknowledge that this portrayal may have been intended to come from the deep depths of Emily's depression about losing her beloved Richard, but, even then, I found it to be a little extreme.

From that point on, the show seems to be taking darker twists and turns, concerning mortality and life fulfillment. The next plot line that was odd to me is Luke and Lorelai going to consult with Paris about IVF treatments. This could be the media studies side, but I found some huge holes in this line. For instance, why would Lorelai and Luke do this without consulting, or at least talking to Rory and telling her what they are considering. Yes, she is busy in London, but modern technology allows constant communication, especially if you are connected to a WiFi network. When you are connected to said WiFi network, the cost is minimal to message internationally, if it even exists at all.

My childhood nostalgia has me compelled to keep watching, but now, I definitely have some reservations.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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