Dear freshman,
You are at the final stretch of your first semester of college. You are almost done. I know these next few weeks are going to be tough, but you have to stick it out. I know what you're thinking looking back on the past few months.
"I didn't do as well as I thought."
Well, none of us did. It is extremely tough for everyone to transition into college. More freedom, more responsibility. Don't fret, you have next semester to straighten it all out. You know what to expect now. Just remember that your grades now do count, try your best and utilize your professor's help. If you have a test or something coming up that you know you need time to study and prepare for, don't go out. I know FOMO is real, but getting a better grade feels better than a night out.
"I still don't know who my friends are."
You've only been at school for a few months, it's hard to really get to know and meet people in such a short amount of time. There is still a ton of time to meet new people! You are going to meet people throughout your four years at college, you're going to make new friends, lose touch with old friends. It just happens.
"I still don't know what I want to do."
You have so much time to still figure this out. Talk to friends, talk to professors, talk to advisors. Find something that truly interests you. There's something for everyone.
"I don't feel good about myself."
The "Freshman 15" is so real. It happens to everyone who goes to college. Just be more conscious about what you eat. Utilize your school's gyms and fitness classes. Maybe skip out on the chicken and fries this time.
"I want to do more."
Then do more! Join clubs, apply for leadership roles, make connections. Do what you want to do now rather than later.
Getting used to college takes time. Don't worry if your first semester didn't go as planned. You still have a ton of more time to figure it all out. Cherish every minute, look forward to every class, and utilize what your school gives you. Put yourself out there and don't be afraid to try new things. This is the time to try everything! Good luck on finals and here's to next semester.
