Don't Let Your Fear Of Embarrassment Prevent You From Taking Pictures To Last A Lifetime

Don't Let Your Fear Of Embarrassment Prevent You From Taking Pictures To Last A Lifetime

Whether it be a group photo that you ask a stranger to capture for you or a cute selfie, ALWAYS go for it!


You're in the middle of the perfect moment that you would like to last forever. Want to remember it forever? No worries! Just take out your phone and take the darn picture!

If only this were not easier said than done for some people. It is safe to say that at one point or another, we've all tried to capture the perfect picture but backed out due to embarrassment at the moment. Maybe people around you began to stare at you oddly, or perhaps you heard giggles directed towards you from the passers-by. Now, you're discouraged and your confidence is gone, so is a physical form of your memory. Is this really worth it though? Although the embarrassment may last a moment, the photo will last a lifetime. Whether it be a group photo that you ask a stranger to capture for you or a cute selfie, ALWAYS go for it!

I personally have wasted to much time in my life deciding whether or not to take a picture. I usually do the latter, and end up regretting it later. For me, it's not about having something to post on social media to brag to everyone, but rather a keepsake of the time I spent at a certain place with special people in my life. Years from now, I know I'll have my pictures to remind me of the feelings I had during certain experiences in my life. Even greater than that, I will be able to share these emotions and experiences with any new people who may come into my life for generations to come, all just by showing them a picture.

It is true that a picture is worth a thousand words. Don't let the fear of embarrassment take away what you have to say.

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Why Nursing School Friends Are So Vital

Pun intended.


When I started nursing school, I knew it would be difficult. I wasn't naive. I heard the stories. I knew what I was getting into…to a certain degree.

It was everything I thought it would be and more. The highs were higher and the lows were lower. The thing you realize quickly in nursing is that it's not something you can achieve on your own. You have to have a support system. It's how you survive. It can feel like you're on your own because you have to perform the skills and make the grades, but really, there are so many friends standing behind you pushing you through.

I've seen it over and over again. I've been a part of it, witnessed it and had help myself. The truth is, even the most intelligent students need help in some sort of way. It might be hard to realize it when you're so inwardly focused, but when you look around you, everyone is walking the same path. They just have different strengths and weaknesses. It's an incredible thing when others use their personal strengths to offset your weaknesses. Nursing friends see in you what you don't see in yourself. Nursing friends share your passions, sleepless nights, early mornings, stress, panic attacks, victories, and failures. Nursing friends are your own personal cheerleaders.

It's no secret that we deal with some pretty gross stuff. Who else can you count on when you're walking down the unit trying to find an extra pair of hands to help you change the clothes of a morbidly obese patient who's covered from shoulders to ankles in their stool? Your nursing buds.

What about when your patient goes into v-fib (ventricular fibrillation), and you need someone to relief on chest compressions? Your rock star nurse friends are there to lend a hand or two.

Or what about when you are scrubbing into a C-section for the first time and you're kind of, sort of, secretly concerned you might get queasy or faint? Your nursing squad will remind you how tough you are. They'll assist you as quickly as possible and when you are finished washing your hands a thousand times, they'll make you laugh or smile. They'll always be there to help you with dignity, support, love, and encouragement.

Your nursing friends know which supply closet you go hide in when you are about to lose it or when class is so long it's giving you a headache so they pass you some Tylenol. Nursing friends are the backbone of your nursing school experience. I always love it that whenever I need hand sanitizer, Tylenol/Advil/Motrin or even a Band-Aid, someone always has it.

Even if you don't talk every day, or you take different class times, there is always someone waving hello or asking how you're holding up. You are all so different, but at the same time, you feel like you're surrounded by so many who are just like you. They care as much as you do. They love as much as you do. And the best part? They just love you. Even on your worst days. There will be times when you trip up on the easy stuff you know that you know, but they'll be there with open arms telling you about when they were in the same place. They are the ones who “fight in the trenches" with you. They'll carry you when you can't keep going, and you'll do the same. No woman or man left behind.

Nursing friends are incredible lifelong blessings. So, remember to thank them every once in a while. Keep cheering each other on, keep fighting together and keep reminding each other that the end goal is closer than it seems.

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Regardless Of Whether You Find News Interesting Or Not, You Need To Keep Up With It

It is so important to stay in the loop with current events.


As we high school and college students are getting older and becoming more independent, it is important for us to develop our own stances and opinions about major things. We are no longer confined to feeling like we need to have the same opinions of our parents. However, we can only accomplish this if we take the time to actually pay attention to the events going on in the world around us. Whether or not we find politics and the news interesting, we all need to become informed to realize exactly how we feel about things.

While there are so many people our age who are passionate about current events, there are also so many people our age who are the complete opposite. So many of us, myself included, are aware of the major things that are constantly talked about but are blind to many of the other things happening in our world.

Part of becoming an adult is paying attention to our world, such as elections, violent acts, or anything else that may be affecting our world. We can no longer rely on our parents making all of our decisions for us and remaining in the dark about things that are so important.

No matter how you do it, it is just important that you start catching up on the news in our world. It can be through an email subscription, reading the local newspaper every morning, or simply reading articles when you have some free time. It's so important to be as aware as you possibly can. You never know when it is going to come in handy.

In the end, the best way to improve our world is to understand the events happening within it.

We can only make informed decisions if we are truly aware of everything that goes into it.

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