As a New Jersey resident of almost nineteen years, I feel that I owe it to my state to explain what exactly goes down at the Jersey Shore. Those of you who got lured into the franchise of cheetah print, tanning addictions, and fist-pumping are not alone. I too am a victim of watching Snooki get way too drunk, Pauly D shouting loudly at inappropriate times, and J Woww threatening to injure another human.
Don't get me wrong, I have thoroughly enjoyed watching these storylines unfold, but I have also watched as the reputation associated with being from New Jersey has crumbled. This is why I would like to highlight some valuable lessons we can take away from this intriguing show.
“I'm sorry I punched you in the face.” -Sammi
It's important to remember to apologize and be the bigger person. Sometimes we mess up, but if you own up to your actions and take responsibility for what has occurred, forgiveness is possible.
“It's nice to get all the beef squashed out.” -J Woww
Try to rid your life of all toxic relationships and situations. It is better to resolve conflict than let it fester and grow. By holding onto anger, you are only hurting yourself.
“First impressions are everything. So, you gotta stay fresh to death, I call it: fresh outfit, fresh haircut, fresh tan.” -Pauly D
When you put time and energy into yourself, it will pay off. Self-care is very underrated but extremely important. Whether it be a run outside, a face mask, a new haircut, or a new outfit, giving yourself the attention you deserve really pays off.
“I heard you guys are mad at me, but I didn't do anything. So now I'm mad at you.”-Pauly D
I think we can all relate to this iconic statement. There has been a time in most of our lives when we have zero clue why someone is mad at us. Due to this lack of knowledge, we get frustrated, and in turn, we begin to feel angry at them with no real reasoning. Miscommunication is often the source of most evils.
“I'm not nice at all, but I'm being honest.” -Snooki
Lastly, we take a look at the one and only Snooki. Though there are many important lessons that can be learned from her numerous mistakes throughout the "Jersey Shore" seasons, one especially pertinent lesson is to be honest. Whether it be getting caught in the letter lie or her situation with The Situation, Snooki seems to be haunted by her lies. We've learned from her to tell the truth, even if it isn't what people want to hear.
I hope these explanations can shine some much-needed light on the positive lessons we can take away from this successful franchise. Hopefully one day, the reputation of the shore will return again to its prior glory.
