Growing up in the South Asian community, I have always noticed the pressure people my age feel to choose a lucrative career; such as a doctor, engineer, or lawyer. While I agree those careers are set up to give an individual a fruitful life because of the money, benefits, and status, I don't understand why people believe someone's success is attached to his or her salary.

Success is not defined by the size of your house, the number of dollars in your wallet, or the length of your vacation. Success is when a person accomplishes his or her goal. When a person works hard to reach a favorable outcome.

When will we stop labeling people as "lazy," "unmotivated," and "dormant" just because that person doesn't want to pursue a more financially dependable career?

We need teachers to fuel young minds. We need journalists to inform the public. We need writers to create literary escapes. We need chefs to cook flavorful meals. We need visual artists to make our lives colorful. Every job, no matter how big or small is necessary for our lives to remain interesting.

Every time I talk to an adult about my future plans, I want them to stop condemning my aspirations. What I want to do with my future is my choice, but as I say this I want to recognize the people who have my best interest in mind. Thank you for caring about me, but your support in my dreams is more important. Tell me that you want to help me achieve my visions of success. Tell me that you want to be present in my life. Tell me that my dreams are valid.

I am tired of people telling me: "You're too smart to get a degree in ____. Why don't you change to pre-med?"

First, intelligence does not equate to a STEM or medical career. My intelligence would be useless if I was following a career that did not interest me. I am a huge believer that you should feel fulfilled with your profession. Life is too short to chase a career that is meaningless to you.

Money is important, but so is your mental health. Your health is paramount.

If you are currently following the "established" path, and are feeling unsure, or would like to change your direction, do not feel upset. This is your life. You have the right to live it on your own terms, and you are surrounded by limitless possibility.