If you have ever considered joining a sorority, just do it. Go through recruitment to see if it is the right fit for you. If you decide during the process that this is not what you want, then that is OK and your decision.
I know what you're thinking, I bet it's like the sororities I see in movies and TV shows, they all buy each other's friendships, I won't fit in, etc. It's OK, I went through this same process in August 2018. Honestly, I went through the recruitment process just to get the experience, I didn't even plan on joining a sorority at the end of it all. But on the second and third day, I started to change my mind and ended up joining Chi Omega.
There's going to be those people who listen to stereotypes and try to talk you out of going through the process, but if it's what you want, do it. Don't be scared. It can be scary but it is a great experience and you might make a few friends out of it, even if you don't end up joining a sorority at all.
Do what you want, you might love it, you might hate it, but in the end, you won't regret your decision. I know I don't. Since I decided to join Chi Omega, I have made so many great friends at my college. Before joining, I had maybe three friends if that, and now I can message or call anyone in my sorority and they'll be down to talk or hang out. I don't regret going through recruitment as a junior or accepting the bid. I think if I had decided to not go through the process, I would've regretted it more because I wanted to go through recruitment sophomore year and decided against it.
If you're nervous about meeting all the girls in each sorority, don't be. They are just as nervous and anxious as you are, if not more. Trust the process and just enjoy it. Be yourself. Have fun. Relax.
