Why I Didn't Participate On Black Friday

Why I Didn't Participate On Black Friday


For someone who gets a thrill when a sale e-mail pops up in my inbox, you would think Black Friday would be a national holiday in my eyes. Funny thing is, I've never taken part in Black Friday shopping and I never will.

For starters, Black Friday has turned into something it never should have. Each year, stores are opening earlier and earlier, taking employees who are unfortunately scheduled to work away from their families on Thanksgiving. Trust me, Thanksgiving is not my favorite holiday, but to think of having to spend it working just so someone else can get half-priced Christmas gifts does not fly with me. Whether they're making more money for working the extra shifts or not, it isn't fair for them to be stuck working. They have lives too, you know. So major shoutout to the stores that do not open on Thanksgiving Day so their employees get to enjoy the holiday as much as the rest of us.

Another problem is the way customers get when there are low prices on the newest technology that's up for grabs. Let's not forget the incident in 2008 at Walmart, when an employee was trampled to death by crazed customers. That isn't the only time that sort of thing has happened. There is too much tragedy in the world today and when people think getting 50% off is worth someone losing their life, you know we have a major problem on our hands. Remember, you just spent the whole day before reflecting on how grateful you are for everything you have, don't be a hypocritical lunatic.

Then there's the greed. When we see sale signs, all the bells go off in our heads that we absolutely must own this item. Trust me, it happens to me all the time. The difference is that on Black Friday, people go overboard. Remember, the whole concept of this day is to buy holiday presents for people, not a new laptop and TV and whatever other things you probably don't need for yourself. Don't get me wrong, I'm a firm believer in "treating yo self," but at a certain point, it becomes a matter of being just plain greedy. So instead of spending all of your money on yourself, maybe put aside a few dollars and buy something for a toy drive. This time of the year is an important time to reflect back on how fortunate you are and to think of those who may not have had it as good as you. Donating even the slightest portion of your Black Friday spending money towards charity will make a difference and will make you feel good about yourself too!

The most important reason I did not partake in Black Friday this year was because, as a college student, spending time with your family at home should be your main concern. I know some people haven't been home since they left in August and four month away means spending every possible minute you can with your family. Personally, I miss the warmth of my home and being with my crazy family all the time. I don't want to waste one of the few days I'm home in a mall with the rest of the world. So before you run out of Thanksgiving early, consider how happy your family is to have you back home with them. Yes, I know the endless questions are annoying but they only ask because they've missed you.

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A Letter To My Go-To Aunt

Happiness is having the best aunt in the world.

I know I don't say it enough, so let me start off by saying thank you.

You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

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Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

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