Dear Entitled Boys.....

Dear Entitled Boys.....

Boy, bye.
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This week I have seen lots of posts about #MeToo. All I have to say is....YOU GO GIRLS, and I am SO sorry. I am sorry that we are growing up with boys (yes, boys not men) in our society that think it is okay to grab, touch, and talk to women sexually. Now, I am fully aware that not every guy is like this. I know there are still gentlemen out there. There is a boy that lives in my dorm building that will go out of his way to hold the door for girls and addresses people as "sir" and "ma'am." This article is addressed to the boys that feel like they are entitled.

Dear Entitled Boys,

You aren't special, we women owe you NOTHING. My chest, is MY chest. You do not have permission to touch it unless I say so. My booty is MY booty. You may think it is no big deal to touch my butt because you have one too, but you are sadly mistaken. What do you think about a girl you're not into grabbing your butt? What do you think about her being all over you? What do you think about her pressuring you into doing something you don't wanna do? Exactly. So leave me alone.

You don't deserve to have sex. Just because you might be attractive does not mean that you are a gift to women. Last time I checked there is no law mandating that all attractive boys or any boy for that matter deserves to have sex with any woman they chose. Do not force yourself on women. That is just sad and desperate. You are a little boy with no impulse control. Understanding what the word "no" means separates the boys from the men.

And when a woman does tell you no....DO NOT SHAME HER. So she wasn't into you, move on. She wasn't ready for what you wanted, if you truly care about her, you will wait. You will understand. That is the difference between love and lust, my friend. And for the love of God do not make up rumors about her because she said no. That is so pathetic.

Finally to my F*** Boys. Oh, how I love you. What makes you think that you can play with girl's emotions just to get what YOU want? Do you get enjoyment out of making a girl feel special just to rip her hear out, leave her on read, and making her wonder what went wrong? Do you like making her question her self-worth? Do you even care?

Women are not just objects for your pleasure and entertainment. We have real thoughts. We have real feelings. We are human. I don't know why you feel so superior and think that you can just do as you please. That is NOT true and we will NOT put up with it anymore. We are done slut shaming. We are done staying silent about sexual harassment and assault. Did you know because of people like you 1 in 6 women will have been a victim of attempted rape or rape? Just let that sink in now, or you can let it sink in when you are in your jail cell for rape/sexual assault charges. If you are offended by this article, I ask you to please take an introspective look and ask yourself, "what part of this article irritates me, and why?"

Rant over for now. But this certainly not the end. #MeToo

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.
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Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.

Why?

Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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The Revival Of The Coal Industry Is Unattainable

Clean beautiful coal will never be a reality. President Trump's backing of a declining industry is misguided and will have despairing environmental impacts.

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The coal industry and its workers were placed at the forefront of American politics during the 2016 election cycle. President Trump promised a revival of the coal industry and promised to secure the jobs of coal country. The President, halfway through his first term, has so far taken measures to do just that. Trump withdrew from the Paris Climate Agreement, threw out Obama's Clean Power Plan, and did away with an Obama-era regulation that would prevent coal ash from entering streams and other bodies of water.

On one hand, it's quite extraordinary for a politician to do good on his campaign promises. On the other hand, is anyone considering whether or not the President is putting all his eggs into the wrong basket? Coal has been on the decline for about a decade now. Even without environmental regulations, the energy produced by coal is expected to reduce by 20% by 2030. Renewable energy such as wind and solar are replacing coal.


For an election campaign, it's easy to see why a candidate would align with coal. States like West Virginia and Pennsylvania are key when running a national campaign. The votes are there in those counties that support the coal industry. They will vote for any candidate who sides with their industry. But from an environmental standpoint, there's more on the line than just an election. It's about our clean air and water. Climate change is real and the effects of coal will only accelerate the process.

Coal ash that finds its way into water streams can damage that water supply for good. It could also impact the wildlife within the area. Coal also pollutes the air we breathe. Clean coal is a myth. Plain and simple. Coal is anything but clean. Clean coal sounds good in a stump speech, but we all know it's a fallacy.

Mountaintop mining also has a deep environmental impact. The Appalachian mountains have been destroyed from surface mining. West Virginia residents hold their beautiful mountains in high regard. Now, some of them look very different and the destruction is permanent. If the mining continues, the mountains of the Appalachia region will be gone. It would be a shame if you went to West Virginia to admire their mountains, and none were left.

In 1906, President Theodore Roosevelt passed the American Antiquities Act of 1906. Roosevelt protected 230 million acres of land during his presidency. Roosevelt understood the importance of conservation and preserving our nation's natural beauty. The same natural beauty that God envisioned. We should not take that for granted. We should restore our mountains, forests, and lakes so that our children's children can reside in the richness of our natural environment.

President Roosevelt also ended the coal strike in 1902. The United States was much more dependent on coal in the 20th century than it is now. Roosevelt knew the coal strike had to be resolved because the cold winter would have been fatal. The change of the Republican party over a century later is quite intriguing to ponder. The party went from a strong conservationist in Roosevelt to Trump, who is willing to move mountains for a dying industry.

All of these facts surrounding the coal debate cannot be ignored. The rest of the western world will move on to new forms of renewable energy. While the United States will be stuck in neutral, reviving coal. Renewable energy should be strongly considered if we are to protect our water, air, and lands.

Disclaimer: I understand the risks coal miners make when they show up for work. I know that safety regulations are not always up to par and that coal mining is a very dangerous profession. I also understand the viewpoint of coal miners and their reasoning for disagreeing with me. I know they want to work and provide for their families. That's what we all want to do. As I write this, I wish not to offend coal miners, I only aim to critique the President and his policies about the coal industry.

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