As millennials, we live in a world that is becoming increasingly sensitive to others. This, in itself is a good thing, a great thing actually. Americans are willing to accept anyone and everyone without bounds, and are careful to not offend. We are intentional about respecting other cultures, and welcome them with open arms. However, our culture is becoming increasingly politically correct. Anyone, even if they didn’t mean harm, can be attacked for the slightest misuse of a phrase or for not using kosher jargon.
The media has a frenzy twisting and turning very fair statements into something labeled: “ a racist remark” or “hate speech”. Some of those are valid, but a fair share are misunderstood remarks made by ignorant individuals who mean no harm.
This year with the election, it seems instead of realizing the common ground we stand on, we are focused on the divide between those supporting Hilary or Trump. I find that one cannot debate with others in a friendly, relaxed way without being attacked or labeled. If we say we are Pro-choice, we are assumed as one who supports murder. Or, if we say we want borders secured, we are accused of being close-minded and racist. Sometimes it feels like there’s no right answer, and whichever side of the fence you stand on, you will be ridiculed and criticized for having an opinion.
I am writing this to tell all millennials that it’s OK to stop beating around the bush. It’s a great thing that we all have opinions. The fact that you’ve taken time to research, talk to people and think about the things going on in this world, and in our country is something to be glorified, not quelled. Americans will never agree on everything, and we should celebrate the fact that not everyone sees issues from the same viewpoint. All of us come together from different backgrounds, cultures, statuses, and make decisions together, by understanding each other.
It is great to have an opinion on issues like abortion, terrorism, border security, gender equality and to be honest and open with who you are voting for. No one should be ridiculed or put down for having a valid standpoint--we are all entitled to that. I think something we are forgetting in this election is that every American wants what they think is best for this country, and yes, our ways of going about it are different. However, every US citizen is entitled to their opinion, so instead of shutting them down, criticizing them, or debating aggressively, how about we take the time to listen, and celebrate our differences.
The biggest offence, I think, is to tell someone their opinion isn’t valid, or make one feel so intimidated, that they don’t’ feel comfortable sharing their views. This is what the media does, and we need to put a stop to it. What will cripple America more than anything is the lack of exchange of dialogue of what we believe. So millennials, step up, and don’t be so afraid of what people will think. Explain with grace why you believe what you do, and maybe together through dialogue we can reach understanding with others.
